Squirting??

[cara_mae]

Now I recently learned to squirt but no matter who I ask and how many google searches I do I can't get a straight answer on what exactly it is and how it works. Can anyone explain it to me?

 

[SpankyHam]

Try this thread https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/female-ejaculation.1526/

 

[cara_mae]

Oh thank you

 

[Kinky_Casey]

Good thread Spanky! Yeah since that thread was started then there have been some scientific studies into female orgasms/ejaculation. Though I think those studies are inconclusive. It's basically still a damn mystery, all the glands and fluids and everything. That's why you can't get a straight answer in your Google searches! There isn't a definite answer. Which is why.....you must run your own vagina experiments!

 

[Allyrosexxx]

Yes definitely do your own experiments it used to be very hard for me to Squirt until I found out the right technique and then bam

 

[AlexiaAlex]

i just cant do it

 

[Karmin_kitten05]

Squirting is just urinating brought on during sexual stimulation. But, some people still think it a mystery

 

[fake squirt]

hello girls,

how you can squirt anytime you want :

 

[SierraSquirts]

Squirting is just urinating brought on during sexual stimulation. But, some people still think it a mystery

As a squirter (clearly) it doesn't look or smell like pee. Sure a very tiny percentage of it is likely pee but there has to be more to it than that!

 

[Nymph3tte]

I've only squirted a handful of times in my life, and it always happened when I least expected it. I wish I knew how to "trigger" it, but I don't know if that's even possible.

 

[RockerRich]

Clearly, I don't have a vagina but a well noted guide on Kindle called "How to Make A Girl Squirt" written by a female. Said that most women who think they can't usually stop themselves short during stimulation because it feels the same as peeing and when they are about to they collapse their muscles to stop it. So my suggestion. Just let the flow explode out.

The other recommendations were throwing a towel in the dryer right before wrapping yourself, out of the bath, so the towel is warm/hot and of course a clear/relaxed mind. You ladies are so emotional! (I mean that in the most sarcastic, true, but I am just playing way, possible.)

As a guy, nothing has excited me more during sex than a squirter. It's also very hot to watch.

 

[RockerRich]

This might help http://pennysdirtythoughts.com/yes-squirting-is-real-and-its-not-pee/

 

[Vcardking]

Clearly, I don't have a vagina but a well noted guide on Kindle called "How to Make A Girl Squirt" written by a female. Said that most women who think they can't usually stop themselves short during stimulation because it feels the same as peeing and when they are about to they collapse their muscles to stop it. So my suggestion. Just let the flow explode out.

The other recommendations were throwing a towel in the dryer right before wrapping yourself, out of the bath, so the towel is warm/hot and of course a clear/relaxed mind. You ladies are so emotional! (I mean that in the most sarcastic, true, but I am just playing way, possible.)

As a guy, nothing has excited me more during sex than a squirter. It's also very hot to watch.

I love it as well and you should check out leeannstar on mfc she's a squirter and gorgeous it was the best show I've ever seen on a cam site

 

[Cherry Bomb]

I had only squirted 'by accident' a couple of times prior to this year. Each time WTF was that...I like it

My mod spent a long time explaining, training and helping me understand what was going on. He has studied female sexuality for years and has successfully helped several girls learn about their own bodies and feelings. I do not mean study as in watching porn, but as in tantric techniques.

I am starting to get it and squirt during most shows. I have to get 'warmed up' first but after a few orgasms, I can (and want to) squirt. It is an amazing feeling.

It is not pee...most certainly not

 

[Cherry Bomb]

I've only squirted a handful of times in my life, and it always happened when I least expected it. I wish I knew how to "trigger" it, but I don't know if that's even possible.

It is possible! I have learned about what is going on and once I am 'there' - I can push myself over to squirt.
I found my button

 

[jenovakitty]

I used to be absolutely admant that 'squirting' was peeing yourself and that something something, wasn't sexy......and then I met a fella who has converted me....He's the only one who can consistently do it for me, and while I still think its probably bladder proteins and whatever, holy hell it feels good enough that I don't care. When and if you can experience a partner that can hit that 'good spot' on your insides, warm yourself up for a few hours, then get them to hit that spot repeatedly till yer happy and yer bed is ruined lol

I dunno what he means, but he was explaining his technique to someone on chaturbate and said something like 'when a girls vagina starts to sound like a pokemon, you keep hitting that spot' looool

 

[halfmoonxoxo]

I discovered squirting on my own at first. In my late teens or twenties. It took several nights of exploring my gspot before I was able to do it a tiny bit. I was able to for a while, but then couldn't they. Squirting is definitely something that can be halted by thinking too much and it can also be halted for a long time emotionally. I had a block for years and I think it was due to stress and grief that happened in college.

Then I met my husband and in our exploring, he got me to squirt again. He can make me do it so easily. I can understand wet sheets; it was like that for a long time. We'd use towels, but that didn't always soak it all. Another blanket helped, but I wanted to find something else that cleaned easier.

We eventually bought 2 amazing products from Liberator - the Fascinator Throe and the Black Label Escape Wet. They help so much and are easy to wash. I especially love the Black Label Escape Wet because of its looks and surface, things just stay on the surface and I highly doubt anything will reach the inner layers; hasn't yet. You can also use it for exercise and yoga and meditation, even for just chilling out and a nap; it is firm but soft. A squirter totally should keep both in mind.

 

[Cherry Bomb]

We eventually bought 2 amazing products from Liberator - the Fascinator Throe and the Black Label Escape Wet. They help so much and are easy to wash. ...

Bookmarked and several items added to the shopping list, thank you. Awesome website.

 

[tropical_milf]

Hi,
My Husband teached me how to Squirt.
I can do it anytime when i want.
It's realy fun to do and i get horny about it, more and more.

When you are horny as Hell, then you find the g-spot better, because it's pompous.
it feels like a sponge. Everytime you hit it with one or two finger (g-spot toy)
you get the filling to pee.

That feeling is strange... LET IT GOOOOOO !!!!!!! Squirt away
in the beginning it can be little squirt.
it took me 2 months to get big waterfalls.

pm me if you need assistant.

Bye bye and happy squirting...

 

[Lil_Bambi]

Now I recently learned to squirt but no matter who I ask and how many google searches I do I can't get a straight answer on what exactly it is and how it works. Can anyone explain it to me?

From what I've heard repetitively, it is fluid developed in the paraurethral ducts to lubricate and protect the vagina from infection.

 

[Melissa Loe]

You girls are lucky .. I'm 21 and literally I'm still getting used to orgasms . If I hadn't started camming and learning to masturbate I would still be suffering . Ive heard people say that every girl can squirt but I've literally tried everything to trigger it but no luck . I know guys find it hella sexy and such a turn on, but is the sensation of squirting more intense then a regular orgasm ? or does it feel more powerful?

 

[Annie Honeydipper]

I cannot help but reply to this. I believe we are here to educate men, they want to know. We are helping men learn what women want, all differently, but solid advice nonetheless. I believe telling men that women squirt during orgasm is a lie. Sorry guys. Even the porn industry admits it. Porn stars have learned to squirt their urine on cue, as well as other cam girls. Do you realize what we are teaching men? I won't do it, I make it very clear that I will show them exactly what to do, but I do not squirt when I orgasm. I never fake an orgasm on cam, EVER. THE CLIT BOYS, START THERE, END THERE, why should we be feeding men false information. This is our time to seize the moment and show them what they need to be doing right, step by step. If you squirt it is urine and lack of bladder control, trust me.

Chime in, I want to hear . . .

 

[Ambers Troll]

I will describe ejaculation in men by way of comparison. They actually seem quite similar.

Women tend to describe the sensation as very similar to male ejaculation, and with a similar range of sensations. It is different from orgasm, but can often be paired with it. For men, it can have very little fluid, and at times it may happen with no orgasm at all, but the release still feels good.

Most men have their first ejaculations as a wet dream, but if you ask those who didn't start ejaculation in this way you will get the a very similar description to women who enable themselves to squirt. The sensation begins as feeling like you are going to pee; you can't describe it any other way as you don't have the understanding of it until later, it is actually quite a distressing feeling until you realize it is not pee. I remember because my first time, I was in someones mouth, I would have stopped if they had let me.
As you become more experienced with the sensation you begin to recognize the difference. (As tropical_milf described, you learn to let it go and just go for it.)

Personally I never ask for squirting, I prefer extending orgasm and a slow release of energy. Just as in men, I find it usually occurs after an orgasm, or as an extension of an orgasm for most women who squirt. As already mentioned, men can ejaculate and bypass orgasm, I doubt that women can or would want to with squirting. (There are good biological reasons for fast pre-orgasm ejaculation in men; it is the not so fun way to get a partner pregnant.)
Squirting like with ejaculation in men usually ends sex after, you need some recovery time. When it happens in a partner, it is always a playful surprise. A good excuse to share a drink, take a break, and rebuild energy for the next time together.

Men can orgasm without ejaculation but most of us never learn to, extending and attenuating pleasure is our challenge. For women the challenge seems to be one of discovering different types pleasure.

 

[Ambers Troll]

On squirting I think this is a really good description of it. Thanks @fake squirt it was on the following link to the one you posted.

 

[andreasky]

Well I am not here to show off but it kind of sad....I am 29 years old....I have soo many toys and plus a husband i still haven't squirt and I had professional pornstar TRY make me squirt...so I have been reading article....i still dont know what to do...I would like squirt it would help on cam.....I have g spot toy( the long pink one)..do i put in it me and and go from there and pray in 3 hours i squirt? hehehe ANY IDEAS

 

[JoleneBrody]

I cannot help but reply to this. I believe we are here to educate men, they want to know. We are helping men learn what women want, all differently, but solid advice nonetheless. I believe telling men that women squirt during orgasm is a lie. Sorry guys. Even the porn industry admits it. Porn stars have learned to squirt their urine on cue, as well as other cam girls. Do you realize what we are teaching men? I won't do it, I make it very clear that I will show them exactly what to do, but I do not squirt when I orgasm. I never fake an orgasm on cam, EVER. THE CLIT BOYS, START THERE, END THERE, why should we be feeding men false information. This is our time to seize the moment and show them what they need to be doing right, step by step. If you squirt it is urine and lack of bladder control, trust me.

Chime in, I want to hear . . .

Well that just simply isn't true. It may be true for YOU but the most important thing a men can really learn about women's sexuality is that every vagina is different and is pleased and reacts in different ways.
Yes, there are women who can squirt. Yes, there are women who fake it... but the real disservice here is the highly damaging "all women like it the same of they are lying" sentiment you've put forth.

Hey fellas, here's the real secret to female stimulation. Follow her cues, ask her what she likes and don't be surprised if she responds differently that what you've been told to expect.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Gah the typos... it was late, sorry.

 

[Bobbie Madison]

You can learn to squirt like you can learn to cum on queue and learn how to not cum even when you really want to. It's training, kinda like learning how to do a split or learning how to deep throat without gagging too much, or learning to do anal without "leaving a mark." Preparation and practice. And of course, let yourself go and don't think too hard.

 

[JoleneBrody]

You can learn to squirt like you can learn to cum on queue and learn how to not cum even when you really want to. It's training, kinda like learning how to do a split or learning how to deep throat without gagging too much, or learning to do anal without "leaving a mark." Preparation and practice. And of course, let yourself go and don't think too hard.

It took a few years of professional mastutbating before I figured it out but I still don't think every girl is capable even remotely, and no one should feel bad it it's not something their body does.

 

[Ann_Sulu]

@JoleneBrody Still a very valid point with or without typos. ^.^ For instance, @Annie Honeydipper claims guys should go to the clit...well that's ok I guess, but I typically have a hard time cumming if I don't have penetration too (even if it's only fingers). Don't get me wrong vibes/oral/whatever feels good to me...thing is, I have a reeallly sensitive clit, and it occasionally gets too uncomfortable, so I like to go light with it and do penetration at the same time. It'll take me about 4x the amount of time to get me there if I only do clitoral stimulation. For other women, they may not be able to cum with penetration alone or for some even at all.

I agree that mainstream porn having stars overact and fake orgasms in impossible positions doesn't do anything to help alleviate awkward moments in sex lives, however, some things in mainstream actually are possible. If you've never squirted and are claiming it's fake it's kinda like saying you believe the Earth is flat since you've never viewed it from the moon. Since I've squirted after having emptied my bladder, I feel there's no way for it to be "only urine". I'm glad you're not willing to fake. I take the same approach. I won't fake an orgasm either, however I know I don't have a weak bladder, yet have involuntarily squirted many times. I do think many get a bit obsessed with squirting which is why so many others get equally obsessed with proving it wrong since they've never done it, and it seems like urine.

Totally agree with @Bobbie Madison. Personally I've never been able to cum on command, and frankly loathe trying, but witnessing men do it while I viewed cams convinced me that some people actually can. If you've never done something, it doesn't mean it's impossible.

Considering that Planned Parenthood statistics claim that around 1 in 3 women have trouble even having an orgasm during sex, it's not really surprising so few have figured out squirting. If you don't enjoy a fetish, I suggest ignoring it. If you get asked by members to do it, then simply say it isn't something to which you cater.