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Thanks Saffron - If nothing else comes from this thread (bar the comedy) that's really handy for us newcomers to cams and vids - I've had a couple of requests for exclusive videos and haven't had the 1st idea of how to cost them out before now, so at least there's a frame of reference to adapt from.

Jonsdoe - if I maybe tuck it back and maybe add some Mr PotatoHead accessories, would that do?

You're welcome! The least I can do is provide a little education to newcomers.
 
same here. for queer women, it's a struggle. it can be double frustrating on trying to please and be pleased sexually. i think it's because historically society shamed women for having a sexuality. slut shaming has turned most women into pillow princesses no matter sexual orientation.

Yeah, I hate the double standard and wish people would just see each other equally instead of labels, or higher/lower than others.

np :). i had my share of people who didn't know what they were doing down there, and i have this annoying trait to correct people when they are doing something wrong. lol. i go in detail how to finger and eat a girl out in free chat. the amount of times when a person has gone down on me and i had the same feeling like i was getting a pelvic exam and my cervix swabbed, no ma'am. audritwo must save the world!

Can't say enough about this. It's important for both partners to know what they like, and how to please the other as this carries forward into future relationships. I consider myself very fortunate in having met the woman who showed me what she likes, as well as how to please her so early in my life. Sadly, I'm so out of practice now, it'll be like I'm starting over. Is there such a thing as a "born again virgin"? :p
 
My first thought is he is looking for a short clip for a banner. It explains the crazy specific requirements and aesthetic.
Exactly what I was thinking too
 
Phew, thanks for giving me the best laugh I've had in a while.

Tell you what my dude, and here's some free advice which I never give, so listen, cos I won't say this again.

1) Why don't you take some makeup, put it all over your asshole, wear it for a while, and get back to us on the results. I'm sure they'll be amazing. In fact, you may get so aroused by your own, pink little rosebud, that you'll never come back here with your garbage, and just jerk off to your own asshole. In fact I have the perfect pair of colours for you, in the shade "Puckered Butthole"

2) Just buy a Real Doll and be done with it. The perfection you're searching for is near impossible to come by. Just get the Doll. Sadly you'll have to fork out more than a measly $50 for it, but hey, you get a lifetime of "perfect pussy" so....
 
One time when I was still stripping I put foundation on my labia/inner thighs cause I had a mad case of razor burn. It rubbed off in minutes from just walking around and left marks on my stripper thong. Never again. I learned that most guys don't give a fuck about razor burn, freckles, or a little discoloration anyways and they usually pay well compared to nit picky fucks. How does this dude think that makeup would stay on while you're rubbing yourself? Like, yeah, there's setting spray, but the shit isn't magic. If you rub somewhere that has makeup the makeup is not going to stay.
 
2) Just buy a Real Doll and be done with it. The perfection you're searching for is near impossible to come by. Just get the Doll. Sadly you'll have to fork out more than a measly $50 for it, but hey, you get a lifetime of "perfect pussy" so....

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One time when I was still stripping I put foundation on my labia/inner thighs cause I had a mad case of razor burn. It rubbed off in minutes from just walking around and left marks on my stripper thong. Never again. I learned that most guys don't give a fuck about razor burn, freckles, or a little discoloration anyways and they usually pay well compared to nit picky fucks. How does this dude think that makeup would stay on while you're rubbing yourself? Like, yeah, there's setting spray, but the shit isn't magic. If you rub somewhere that has makeup the makeup is not going to stay.

Even if it's waterproof makeup, he wants the person making the video to get super wet, which - brace yourself, OP - requires applying lube for the quantity he probably wants, and that's going to make the makeup melt right off.

Hell, I'm gonna test this theory, I just slathered the back of my hand with Kat Von Dee and I'm waiting for it to set.

Conclusion: yeah, lube makes foundation smear around in a big ol mess.
 
Hi there,



I’m interested in a custom video of at least minute-3 minutes for $50 (doesn’t have to be more unless you want to). This video cannot be uploaded on Porn sites, reddit or the internet. It should only be for my eyes to see. Before, I do have some requirements. Let me know if you can do this. Everything is written below.



Requirements: About a minute+ video of you rubbing your clit and fingering yourself.



INNIE LABIA: Example pictures can be found on the link of how I want the frame to look like and how the vagina should look like. No light brown spots, no dark spots anywhere. Pale and light pink. Makeup can be used. I really want a light ivory surrounding skin and labia major and a very pink labia minor







18+

A minimum of 1 minute long but can be as long as you’d like. Probably no more than 6 minutes.

Video to be filmed with an iPHONE with great resolution

Pussy must be an innie with very small lips and small clitoral hood/clit

No audio/talking/moans other than the sound of wet rubs

The pussy must be very wet

Clean shaven - zero hair, zero marks/ingrowns/tattoos, moles, etc.

Skin showing should be pale with no dark hues

Pussy lips should be very light and very pink

If Anal area is showing, it has be pale/bleached/pink. This can all be achieved with makeup but the makeup should not be visible on the video and neither should the anus too much if it’s big.

No dark lighting that will make the focus area look dark

No rings on fingers





Background/Setting



Phone situated to only show your pussy/thighs possibly and somewhat of an anus view is optional

No head/hair showing and no face showing

No other body parts like stomach/chest showing

No moles/no marks/no tattoos on any areas showing

Please wear a long sleeves hoodie and roll the sleeves up slightly

Nails must be oval shaped (not square or fake acrylics) and not too short. Nicely shaped, clean, and preferably a blush nude nail polish.

The room should not be able to be seen. White walls are fine. No posters, no hangings.



The video should start with somewhat slow rubbing and showing of the pussy. Very sensual touches and it should somewhat quickly go to medium - fast speed. The speed of rubbing and fingering should be medium-fast as if you’re thinking of that special someone and are nearing an orgasm.



This video should never be posted online. I will never post it anywhere. It’s for personal means.



Payment by either PayPal, FB Pay or Google Pay. I would need a 10 second preview of what it contains or a full frontal of the frame/screenshot. Would you be willing to record again up to two more times if the first video has something I don’t like/requirements weren’t met?


Oh, is that all?
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The 5-minute bicep-bouncing custom video I did years ago for the guy on ExtraLunchMoney was probably the easiest, most fun custom video I've ever done. Dude wasn't picky at all, and didn't send me some annoying long-ass list of requirements. I charged $50 for it...he loved it...and paid for me to do it again. Why can't you be easy like that? Lmao.
 
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Threads like this remind me why I did choose to not join reddit and such. Anyway, it has to be said that Madonna redeemed the whole thread. So it's all good. Iconic!
 
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"The perfect body doesn't exis-"
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I think there was a previously loved Real Doll in a bag, in Ohio or something a while ago? You might be able to fulfill your request that way. Much cheaper than the (already under-priced) Oscar-winner you're looking for, too. Good luck!
 
np :). i had my share of people who didn't know what they were doing down there, and i have this annoying trait to correct people when they are doing something wrong. lol. i go in detail how to finger and eat a girl out in free chat. the amount of times when a person has gone down on me and i had the same feeling like i was getting a pelvic exam and my cervix swabbed, no ma'am. audritwo must save the world!

I do the same thing! A few weeks ago I did a free "pussy flash" when somebody didn't know that girls don't "pee out of their vaginas" My room got an anatomy lesson that night
 
I hate admitting this. But, with the exception of one, all the women I've been with simply refuse to talk about how they like to be aroused and physically pleased. It's like they're embarrassed to talk about what feels good, what they like, preferences, etc. If I bring the subject up, it's taboo for them to talk about it and at best I get "I dunno, whatever feels good and you like." I know some have actually not really known some stuff too.

One would think that with the amount of Rom-Coms, trashy romance novels, and the fact that many women can discuss this stuff like no tomorrow when they're in a group of women, they'd be open to sharing with their partner...

So, it kinda goes both ways. Thanks for being open to teaching some guys about this, and hopefully more women start to open up to their partners about what turns them on.

I'm kind of going off topic here, but the topic is ridiculous and everyone's clearly covered that. This is far more interesting in my opinion.
It can be so hard as a woman to open up about what we like sexually. I think there's this fear of offending, like if someone does something you hate, it can be hard to say "sorry I hate that" without risking killing the mood or hurting their self esteem. Sex tends to feel really rewarding if you both feel confident and like you're pleasing the other person, and if someone already has a pattern of behaviour sexually which doesn't work with you, chances are you're not going to get immediate results even if you're completely open, so being honest straight off is definitely a long game. So I guess a lot of women when they find their partner isn't doing something they like, make the decision not to say anything for fear of offending them.
Though lol, I once dated a guy who eventually went down on me and it was really uncomfortable/not good, so I tried to communicate with him and he got angry at me and told me I was being ungrateful, and then he slut shamed me saying I'm lucky he'll even go down on me in the first place because of "all the guys". This is worst case scenario of a guy who was basically just a douche, but I've had similar situations where guys have got very butthurt, or even like outright haven't listened. You might say "I don't like this one thing", and they insist that they will make you like it. I guess a lot of this attitude comes with ego and a misunderstanding of how the human body works. What works for one girl does not work for every girl. While I hope that most adult men are not this immature and self absorbed when it comes to giving head, it's possibly still a fear for a lot of women.

I read an article not that long ago, I wish I still had the link, but it was about the orgasm gap while looking at statistics and porn watching and sex toy purchases. It explained how men in sex really get off over the idea of pleasing their partners, while women tend to be more interested in having their bodies well handled. But possibly because women become more focused in performing pleasure because they want to please their partners, it means they don't actually get off how they should. Learning this really altered my perception of sex, because I realised that if I allow men to see what my genuine pleasure looks like by just allowing myself to get off, rather than putting on a "show", then we could both get what it is we truly want.
With this I would say that one of the sexiest things a man can ask before going down on me is what I actually enjoy and what I don't enjoy, and being clear that they won't take offence or be turned off by clear instructions. And if once they're down there they listen to my body movements and words so they're doing the right thing.
One of the least sexy things a guy can do during sex (for me) is tell you to "scream louder". It's fine to say that if you want to be loud you can, but telling a woman to scream is just telling them to perform pleasure for you, which can distract you from feeling genuine pleasure and focusing your attention on noises coming from your mouth.

For those guys who are asking women what they like, keep doing so! Remember that your sexual partner though may not actually know what they like. Lots of women have not been sexually liberated and don't even know how to give themselves orgasms. I know this makes the job really hard for the sexual partner, but I guess you've just got to keep asking them what they like and then showing them that you listen, won't get offended and will work to making sure their bodies are well handled. It's something I fear massively about going down on women because I know how many women steer towards being "people pleasers" and will feign pleasure.

But when you see dudes like the OP coming along, it makes sense why some women are terrified about being themselves when it comes to sexuality. I probably do have the pussy type the OP is talking about, and I never understood during my first sexual experiences what guys meant when they said I had a really nice pussy. Like, weren't all vaginas about the same? Like, I really don't give a fuck about penis aesthetics, the only care I have in regards to shape and size is how it fits with my internal structure. I'm sure many women have felt insecure about their vagina's at some point in their lives, and it's only really due to compliments that I am aware that mine fits some sort of "ideal" bullshit. But fuck man, also having a perfectly bleached asshole? Like, there are entire threads in the Models only section with girls trying to work out how the fuck porn stars get their assholes to look like pink starfishes. It's not as easy as just getting some product and sticking it on. You're trying to safely bleach a super sensitive skin area. Bleach is not supposed to have contact with skin.
And no, make up in that region does not work. I have tried it once out of curiosity.
It makes me sad to see someone posting an image of a plastic doll as the epitome of perfection that women should strive for, when you also see plastic surgery becoming more common in making women's sexual areas appeal more to these ridiculous standards.
 
Good post, @IsabellaSnow and you touched on a lot of things I had in mind when I was writing the post I did. The men you mention who demand a performance, or will shame or even feel offended are not the ones I tend to think of in this type of discussion as I don't associate with them. I'm more of an altruistic person, looking at what works best for everyone involved.

While it's important to listen to your partner during sex, as well as after if one is into the post-sex cuddling/talking thing. It's also important to have open and candid conversation when not in the act as well. These are what I had in mind, and is where I was going with the conversation aspect. It not only helps with learning who they are as a person. But, also what they are comfortable with, and may be willing to try before the pressure of "in the moment" such as you describe about the guy who went down on you. Besides, I kind of look at these as being somewhat of a chance to do a little teasing/flirting with your partner so as to keep it lighthearted instead of serious.

I read an article not that long ago, I wish I still had the link, but it was about the orgasm gap while looking at statistics and porn watching and sex toy purchases. It explained how men in sex really get off over the idea of pleasing their partners, while women tend to be more interested in having their bodies well handled. But possibly because women become more focused in performing pleasure because they want to please their partners, it means they don't actually get off how they should. Learning this really altered my perception of sex, because I realised that if I allow men to see what my genuine pleasure looks like by just allowing myself to get off, rather than putting on a "show", then we could both get what it is we truly want..

Maybe I'm a little too optimistic, naive and altruistic in regards to this. But, this is the kind of open and candid conversations I think people need to have. Not just without our partners. But, also with ourselves.
 
As for all these extreme rates, I've already found plenty of models for less than $20 for 5 mins video in the time I posted this thread. They fit the physical requirements. So thanks everyone for directing me to the two sites I could find someone!
This might be the closest thing to a "grey" i've seen on this forum :troll::hilarious:
 
This post was so ridiculous I legitimately thought OP was a cam model making a satirical joke about pushy cheap dudes until I got to the end and there was no "gotcha" moment...I was laughing the whole time reading until I realized he was serious. Then I kept laughing but in a more disappointed fashion.

Anyone else get the feeling this dude would absolutely hate the preview vid you send, make you re record and send new previews twice and then run off without even sending the unsafe payment? "I want a free preview" always reads as "I'm not going to pay you" to me, maybe I am jaded lol
 
Whew. I'm sure this was brought up before but "innie vagina" is .... the vagina.


Anyways, my dude, pay more for that kind of shit. You're asking for a LOT even if it is a "minute" long. The amount of setting up and make up for the asshole alone is worth $90. (do they make make up just for your asshole? I know a lot of products have a "don't put me inside you wtf" on it)
 
I'm kind of going off topic here, but the topic is ridiculous and everyone's clearly covered that. This is far more interesting in my opinion.
It can be so hard as a woman to open up about what we like sexually. I think there's this fear of offending, like if someone does something you hate, it can be hard to say "sorry I hate that" without risking killing the mood or hurting their self esteem. Sex tends to feel really rewarding if you both feel confident and like you're pleasing the other person, and if someone already has a pattern of behaviour sexually which doesn't work with you, chances are you're not going to get immediate results even if you're completely open, so being honest straight off is definitely a long game. So I guess a lot of women when they find their partner isn't doing something they like, make the decision not to say anything for fear of offending them.
Though lol, I once dated a guy who eventually went down on me and it was really uncomfortable/not good, so I tried to communicate with him and he got angry at me and told me I was being ungrateful, and then he slut shamed me saying I'm lucky he'll even go down on me in the first place because of "all the guys". This is worst case scenario of a guy who was basically just a douche, but I've had similar situations where guys have got very butthurt, or even like outright haven't listened. You might say "I don't like this one thing", and they insist that they will make you like it. I guess a lot of this attitude comes with ego and a misunderstanding of how the human body works. What works for one girl does not work for every girl. While I hope that most adult men are not this immature and self absorbed when it comes to giving head, it's possibly still a fear for a lot of women.

I read an article not that long ago, I wish I still had the link, but it was about the orgasm gap while looking at statistics and porn watching and sex toy purchases. It explained how men in sex really get off over the idea of pleasing their partners, while women tend to be more interested in having their bodies well handled. But possibly because women become more focused in performing pleasure because they want to please their partners, it means they don't actually get off how they should. Learning this really altered my perception of sex, because I realised that if I allow men to see what my genuine pleasure looks like by just allowing myself to get off, rather than putting on a "show", then we could both get what it is we truly want.
With this I would say that one of the sexiest things a man can ask before going down on me is what I actually enjoy and what I don't enjoy, and being clear that they won't take offence or be turned off by clear instructions. And if once they're down there they listen to my body movements and words so they're doing the right thing.
One of the least sexy things a guy can do during sex (for me) is tell you to "scream louder". It's fine to say that if you want to be loud you can, but telling a woman to scream is just telling them to perform pleasure for you, which can distract you from feeling genuine pleasure and focusing your attention on noises coming from your mouth.

For those guys who are asking women what they like, keep doing so! Remember that your sexual partner though may not actually know what they like. Lots of women have not been sexually liberated and don't even know how to give themselves orgasms. I know this makes the job really hard for the sexual partner, but I guess you've just got to keep asking them what they like and then showing them that you listen, won't get offended and will work to making sure their bodies are well handled. It's something I fear massively about going down on women because I know how many women steer towards being "people pleasers" and will feign pleasure.

But when you see dudes like the OP coming along, it makes sense why some women are terrified about being themselves when it comes to sexuality. I probably do have the pussy type the OP is talking about, and I never understood during my first sexual experiences what guys meant when they said I had a really nice pussy. Like, weren't all vaginas about the same? Like, I really don't give a fuck about penis aesthetics, the only care I have in regards to shape and size is how it fits with my internal structure. I'm sure many women have felt insecure about their vagina's at some point in their lives, and it's only really due to compliments that I am aware that mine fits some sort of "ideal" bullshit. But fuck man, also having a perfectly bleached asshole? Like, there are entire threads in the Models only section with girls trying to work out how the fuck porn stars get their assholes to look like pink starfishes. It's not as easy as just getting some product and sticking it on. You're trying to safely bleach a super sensitive skin area. Bleach is not supposed to have contact with skin.
And no, make up in that region does not work. I have tried it once out of curiosity.
It makes me sad to see someone posting an image of a plastic doll as the epitome of perfection that women should strive for, when you also see plastic surgery becoming more common in making women's sexual areas appeal more to these ridiculous standards.

If you're having sex with a woman who tends to be too focused on people pleasing, it's important to help her relax so she can turn off the internal commentary of "oh no I'm not cumming quick enough, they must be tired and bored. Am I reacting enough? Do they know they're doing a good job? Are my faces weird and going to turn them off?" etc. How you can help them relax is different for different people.
 
If you're having sex with a woman who tends to be too focused on people pleasing, it's important to help her relax so she can turn off the internal commentary of "oh no I'm not cumming quick enough, they must be tired and bored. Am I reacting enough? Do they know they're doing a good job? Are my faces weird and going to turn them off?" etc. How you can help them relax is different for different people.

This so perfectly sums it up that just "liking" your post doesn't feel like enough! I think this is one reason why during oral sex if a guy switches it up too much or keeps changing from mouth to fingers it completely kills my chances of having a decent orgasm, because I get too stressed/concerned that they're tired/bored and that I am taking too long, which of course means mentally I am in no place to orgasm even if I were literally almost at the point prior. Same as when I orgasm through sex, I personally need to be on top and going pretty slow/very close to the person so I get the right contact with my clit. For the guy this is fairly low stimulation physically and also visually in comparison to say, pounding me where they'll get lots of physical sensation, while also visuals and the enjoyment of hearing me make louder noises. For some more selfish men, they find it harder to let a girl do their thing and want to "make" you orgasm on their terms, which in my case has never been possible. I think some of my fears during sex with women simply come from knowing how often I have been in my own head or felt that pressure and I don't want to be like "that guy". But to be fair, because I am aware of this, I probably don't need to be concerned.
 
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