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Apr 12, 2020
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I Am a cam person who has done some shows and also watched others aswell. During the last few month's or so a cam girl who works for a studio is trying to rip off customers and myself offering photos or videos. They would offer you there whatsapp on the site for a price then chat and would then say if you pay tokens we will send pictures.

Fine at first they would send you 1 lot then 2 weeks later offer another set then on 3rd time would say i would send out when she finished her cam shift. The following day she would be online then say oh yes i was tired i forgot and will send out that night. but would forget to again on the 3rd evening she would say her camara broke and cant send any out,now depending on the site that you use would be a time limit to raise a complaint. is this person knowing the rules on what the sites offer and delay just to get the tips and not send the goods.The cam girl then bans you from the room and depending on the site the site officals say its down to the cam girl to block you and they will not get involved. Is this because they are getting a percentage of the tips.It seems unfair that they allow it to happen when even another cam person gets scammed.??
 

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Have you considered it might be a bit hasty to call someone a scammer for a 72 hour delay? Especially if they have delivered on time twice before? Did you call her a scammer in her chat, were unpleasant and rude? Because she might have banned you for being a bit of a dick and not to avoid sending you the pictures.
 

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Dude my power and internet has been on the fritz for two days. Ontop of that, I have backed up orders because I was sick for the past two weeks before that. If a dude started freaking out calling me scammer because I'm a few days later then I said it would, id reimburse him. I don't want to make content for someone who doesn't respect that shit sometimes happen. I give all customs a week to do, and if I'm later, they get more time.

Life sometimes makes doing porn HARD.

But if it's been weeks with no updates, might be scam. Contact the site on possibly reimbursing your tokens.
 
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Can I ask you if you consider yourself a cam-person because you've wanked your cock on cam a multiple times and have earned a few tokens here and there?

No hate. Many models also are members. So am I.

As Audri said, life sometimes makes doing porn hard.

And I believe that an actual cam-girl/cam-boy is one of the best, the most understanding and tolerate customers because they know the industry pretty well and realize how much has been left "behind the scenes".

If someone seems to be impatient *and to feel somewhat entitled*, I always assume that they aren't the part of the industry.
 
May 11, 2017
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Three days isn't a big deal. Sometimes life gets in the way, just as others have said. Or, in the case of a recent custom I got from a model I've known for a long time, it took her a few extra days because she got her period the day she was planning to film it.

She was always quick to let me know if something happened, and I was more than happy to respond that I appreciated her letting me know and whenever she got to it was fine. No pressure on her at all.


Communication is key. Not just in what you say. But, HOW you say it.
 
Apr 12, 2020
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I Am a cam person who has done some shows and also watched others aswell. During the last few month's or so a cam girl who works for a studio is trying to rip off customers and myself offering photos or videos. They would offer you there whatsapp on the site for a price then chat and would then say if you pay tokens we will send pictures.

Fine at first they would send you 1 lot then 2 weeks later offer another set then on 3rd time would say i would send out when she finished her cam shift. The following day she would be online then say oh yes i was tired i forgot and will send out that night. but would forget to again on the 3rd evening she would say her camara broke and cant send any out,now depending on the site that you use would be a time limit to raise a complaint. is this person knowing the rules on what the sites offer and delay just to get the tips and not send the goods.The cam girl then bans you from the room and depending on the site the site officals say its down to the cam girl to block you and they will not get involved. Is this because they are getting a percentage of the tips.It seems unfair that they allow it to happen when even another cam person gets scammed.??
Ok Just an update on this and speaking with support 1st support was not interested in the matter until i stated that everything was arranged through the camsite with payment but only sending photo's via whatsapp,which took another week or so for them to understand what happened.They agreed that i was right in what i was saying and contacted the other model for a responce.
3 days later the model responded saying they be sent out that night that was message from support so all was good,and support would close the case down within 4 days. I thought all was ok but no photos sent still 4 days came and support said we are shutting the case to which i replied i still not recieved what i payed for so they contacted the model again.
I was online and the model had chatted to me asking why i contacted support i said it had been a month since you was gong to send photos and same old thing happened send them tonight i got them 2 days later.
Responded to support to shut case all good. Chatted with model all good and week later took model in pvt and she said oh i am suprised you taking me into pvt but even now we still chat all ok.
 
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Chatted with model all good and week later took model in pvt and she said oh i am suprised you taking me into pvt but even now we still chat all ok.
There's probably a life lesson in there somewhere.

If the same thing happened to me and it was this easy to communicate with the model throughout, "scam" would have been far down on the list of things I thought was going on.
As stated elsewhere in this thread, life has a tendency to interfere with whatever you think you are supposed to be doing. I've experienced similar things as you with a model, but it wasn't too hard to read between the lines that the last thing she needed in her situation was me adding to her burden by quarreling over 200 tokens.

Sometimes it's useful to remind oneself that the world isn't coming to an end until next Monday (that's coincidentally also when you diet starts).
 
May 11, 2017
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Don't sell it if you can't deliver it, weeks for pictures? nope that model will never see me again.
Pretty much. I had one model who I tipped for a custom that was never delivered. I brought it up to her a few times over the course of a month and it was always “I’ll get to it.“. Then, after six weeks she offered me a pick of any video she had on share. Nope, not what I paid for, especially when they cost a fraction of what I paid.
This was a model I had a long standing interaction with and it ended that. She’s send me a message asking why, and I flat out told her. She still tries to get me to come back. Nah
 
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I had a user on CB tip me 100 tokens with a request to send him a nude photo with a nice message to his email address. I did this. Then he emails me several times over the course of a few days saying he wanted a “newer” picture and full length nude. I responded I already sent you a picture and message. His last email to me read “if you can’t get off your ass and send me a more recent photo, I’m done with you”. Needless to say I was done with him way before he was done with me.