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Hi @All who read this,

let's start with that i know i am one of many starting this conversation.
That's why i want to keep it short and don't go to write down the whole history.
Unless someone needs this information to answer my question.

Well, i have read enough on the internet that the only possibilty a CAM-girl eventually
has fallen in love also is when she stopt accepting the money and keeps in contact.

Now it is a bit hard for me to determ a line in that in my case.
Before we discussed this she already sometimes called me back for free ( especially when a good conversation was not ended )
Of course i started after a while the discussion that i could not continu this way and asked what would be the consequences.
Her first reaction was the question how many i could spend in a month without losing savings. Actually this shocked me.
So i asked here where the problem was, because if she would love me it's natural that you want that contact!
She told me a story about that she could not do that because the studio monitors her calls ( in this case skype ) and when her
exceptions stand out she get into trouble. Well here is the point, I do not fully believe that! say 60% i believe.
Because when you really want there is always a way, that i also told her!

At the end she would compromise with that i call her, as a prepaid call, around 30minutes, she would call me back after that
time passed. Mostly our Skype sessions takes longer than 2 hours.

Now it's hard for what to believe. How many is true about what she said about that. Maybe i can get here some support about this situation and how it works in this kind of environment.

Thanks in advanced :)
 
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Because when you really want there is always a way, that i also told her!
Sounds like you already know the answer. This is exactly right.
 
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Im was afraid that would have been the Answer :confused:
I just wondered if something was right about monitoring all skype call by the studio.
Because i have the feeling that software only monitors the incoming calls on a specified skypeID, because that's making the money.
But afterall she could also make a second skype Account. And with this we will be back at the phrase "Because when you really want there is always a way"
And i really have the feeling she is not putting effort in it to realise this some way.
Anyway thanks for your repley :)
 

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Her first reaction was the question how many i could spend in a month without losing savings.
This thing alone should make you run run run run and runnnnnn . And i am telling you this from the point of a cam girl and ex full sex worker that is happily married with a man that first time saw me as a full sex worker. I never asked him about money , or what he works , i never ever cared to even ask him such things , we were just friends for 3 years and even if he was hitting on me all the time i refused to be with him because i was not ready for a relation , Still so i always refused his money , even to pay me a drink when we went out as friends only , and i never ever cared about his finances, not even when we ended up having a relatioship i did not asked him if he has savings or not. Now as a cam girl , i never ever ask people in my room no matter how close i am to some what their financial status is, never ever . This thing alone should make you run away , because asking a client no matter the situation about his finances its the rudest and unprofesional thing ever , and when you talk about a relashionship thats a big huge fucking no ! She is not even in a serious relationship with you and ask about finances potencial , what can you wait lets say after 1 year? Lets say that you end up to have an relatioship with her , honestly if i put myself in your shoes i would ask myself if she stays with me because of the financial status , also lets say you get married .. i would ask myself daily if she wait until to get a divorce to drain my accounts. This is not a healthy relationship no matter if for a lond term or entertaiment only .

And yes as you told , if she really wants you there is always a way, but giving her question about your savings , honestly you should run away faster than the light speed. because lets say that someday she tells you she found a way , how could you trust there is not a further scam even more elaborated to drain your wallet and hurt you!? I personally could not trust .
 
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Her first reaction was the question how many i could spend in a month without losing savings. Actually this shocked me.
Yikes. She is practically asking how much money she can wring out of you before you go bankrupt. It would be a pretty dumb/cold/stupid/creepy question for her to ask even if you two already agreed that this was 100% business. Alternatively, she thinks you are aware that this is strictly business while you actually aren't.

I would consider finding something or someone else to spend my time on.
 
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Well ofcourse i hoped it was not just a fantasy image she showed me. But also with that i allready had my doubst because many she says is based on saying, not acting :worried:
 
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I actually think it shows kindness, I've seen normal camgirls not see any problem with tippers who say they are withdrawing from their 401k, going into debt, or even having to cut back on their food budget to buy tokens. But yeah, you're a client, personally I think a relationship based on money is easier
 
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. .. skype takes longer then 2 hours and you want it free ? her time means money sorry i dont know where is the problem .. you want a cam model to spend over 2 h with you on skype, Pay and stop wondering why.. if.. maybe should be for free.. never! thats her job even if she is at studio or make skype home another id and u still have to pay if you want this skype shows , talks . About if she would love me she will call for free. ask yourself you care about her? if you do how the hell u request her to spend over damm 2 hours front of skype paied or not? if you care you dont put her work that much , you know already shes hours online at her job then all she needs is to sit with you on her brain hours, exaclty to do it for free is what she need ...
 
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Well, of course I always payed. And have said her always I will, but also mentioned that at this level we cannot continu forever. I know for a lot is it not easy. But she says she is also in love and talked about living together, also fantasized how we would do that. But the doubt if she is really in love or just playing comes in mind. And I am not asking for 2hours. And it’s not for getting a free show that is non-sense in my case. But I talked about the situation when we cannot continu like that. Then I noticed that she was not be willing to offer a lot. Would say 3 times a week 1hour would be perfectly fine and not for free show. But that was all most not possible to arrange from her side. Even wen we decide even shorter. Than came that story about the studio monitors her
 
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You answered alone earlier, that she got your skype id . if she really loves you she add you on a new id, and contact you and give you her phone number and whatever she wanna give to the love of her life she found on a porn site . But is not happening means you understand you are just a customer and you must pay for her time online..or if you cant anymore just move on ..
 
Well, of course I always payed. And have said her always I will, but also mentioned that at this level we cannot continu forever. I know for a lot is it not easy. But she says she is also in love and talked about living together, also fantasized how we would do that. But the doubt if she is really in love or just playing comes in mind. And I am not asking for 2hours. And it’s not for getting a free show that is non-sense in my case. But I talked about the situation when we cannot continu like that. Then I noticed that she was not be willing to offer a lot. Would say 3 times a week 1hour would be perfectly fine and not for free show. But that was all most not possible to arrange from her side. Even wen we decide even shorter. Than came that story about the studio monitors her

I feel like if she was serious about things, she would want to chat with you outside of her normal work day unless she doesn't have access to internet at home.
 
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But I talked about the situation when we cannot continu like that. Then I noticed that she was not be willing to offer a lot.
As mentioned above (between the lines), she is just interested in whatever money you have short term. She basically says "if you don't have any money, I will not talk to you". That she wants to talk to you at all when your money runs out, is just to string you along until the next paycheck comes in. She probably has the same thing going with other guys.

Time to move on ...
 
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As mentioned above (between the lines), she is just interested in whatever money you have short term. She basically says "if you don't have any money, I will not talk to you". That she wants to talk to you at all when your money runs out, is just to string you along until the next paycheck comes in. She probably has the same thing going with other guys.

Time to move on ...
at least she was honnest with him.. no money no honey ..
 
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Yeah definitely sounds you were or are being taken. Free yourself from this person and move on. There are better ways to utilize your time and money. I can tell you when it is real love, these will not be questions you will have to ask yourself or anyone else.

Will say from my experience in reading post here, in many circumstances someone that works in a Studio type environment where they are monitored and or not allowed to have freedom is probably compelled to do what they can to make their life better.

Now if you are saying can a "camgirl", (I say that in quotations since they are just a human being as you are), can really love you or someone. Yes of course they are human, but like any relationship it will not have jealously, lies or require money to sustain unless she is totally broke and she uses to buy airtime for you etc. But that would be evident in your conversations, they would not mention your bank account.

I hope you find some help in these post and follow your true heart to real happiness.
 
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Yeah definitely sounds you were or are being taken. Free yourself from this person and move on. There are better ways to utilize your time and money. I can tell you when it is real love, these will not be questions you will have to ask yourself or anyone else.

Will say from my experience in reading post here, in many circumstances someone that works in a Studio type environment where they are monitored and or not allowed to have freedom is probably compelled to do what they can to make their life better.

Now if you are saying can a "camgirl", (I say that in quotations since they are just a human being as you are), can really love you or someone. Yes of course they are human, but like any relationship it will not have jealously, lies or require money to sustain unless she is totally broke and she uses to buy airtime for you etc. But that would be evident in your conversations, they would not mention your bank account.

I hope you find some help in these post and follow your true heart to real happiness.
She is working for a Studio. But She worsk at home. PC is from her. Just pre-installed by the studio
 
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She is working for a Studio. But She worsk at home. PC is from her. Just pre-installed by the studio
so what her phone is from studio also? she can use her phone to create skype acc and add you then she can give you her phone no so you keep in touch outside of camming if there is love . But if there isnt love, she will never do that , what for to risk her job, in case u guys fighting, she will lose her job, u can make her problems, site can close her account, studio can kick her out, why she need to risk all this for someone who tells her i might not have money anymore to continue .so she better keep things the way there are, playing safe is the way to eat every day . Love goes through stomach $$$
 
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Well, I prefer that she would be so honest to tell that. Than I know what to deal with instead of giving hope until you’re broke
 
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Well, I prefer that she would be so honest to tell that. Than I know what to deal with instead of giving hope until you’re I said
Well, I prefer that she would be so honest to tell that. Than I know what to deal with instead of giving hope until you’re broke
She cant, becouse there are manny guys like you who wont spend nothing if they dont dream they can have the girl . means she can pick to be honest and go home with zero dolars or a few from get naked fast bb guys, or she can keep the fantazy and make money .. is like a vicious cycle, girls have to do this to make money to live, guys force them to do it becouse they dont understand this girls work on this sites , isnt tinder there.