actually I learned to let people finish their sentences in a discussion, argument, talk. It seems that is a disadvantage these days. Thats a pity, because the people who often choose not to speak generally have more to say. I've been threatened with verbal violence twice these days only because I tried to shut down screamers in order to let someone talk who has a lesser loud voice. All this self-fuck on the net makes us loose the silence. And I believe silence is a requisite for creation. Listening for learning.