I am no relationship expert, but I am of the opinion that it takes more than kindness, respect and honesty to escape the friend zone.
- Being too available, too easy
This is one way to quickly kill attraction. People want what they can't have and feel there is value to something that has to be worked for. If a guy is always on call, always answering texts in .05 seconds, there is no mystery there. The girl has no
time to even wonder about him because he quickly tells her everything that is going on.
In body language, attitude, actions and words. A guy doesn't need to shove all of his feelings onto a girl before she finally realizes he's interested. That part is pretty obvious from the get go. If he lacks confidence, then he'll stay around after he's friend zoned if he wants something more. To keep chasing someone without reciprocation makes a guy weak. But having the confidence to walk away and find someone who is interested or date other people may raise her eyebrow.
I don't think you need to even have any talks about feelings and stuff. Because if things happen naturally, then there wouldn't be this friend zone shit. So something got fucked up along the way.
- A little gym time never killed anyone
- Focus on yourself and your own ambitions, take the girl off the pedastal and be the best version of a man you can be (One with ambitions, goals, hobbies, interests, other shit than being so frustrated about this friend zone shit)
I feel attraction isn't really a choice, it can be there one minute and gone the next. And it's usually cause of some shit that the guy did to turn a girl off that it disappears too.