I don’t want to cam anymore and I’m afraid

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Apr 12, 2019
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Hi!
So I cammed twice within the last week and then decided I didn’t want to do it anymore.
I’ve been having a lot of panic attacks so can some of the older models of MFC or those who’ve worked with it anwser some questions for me?

1) since I was originally gonna do to make money for college stuff they have my ssn and home address? I’ve since asked them to delete my account but they said they can only deactivate it and after seven years it’ll be deleted?
Is MFC safe? like I live with my mom so I’m really worried someone will dox my information and she’ll be hurt

2) I keep googling my username and not much is coming up thankfully

I did masturbate on cam but nothing more than that
I’ve actually told my
Mom because I haven’t been sleeping
I’m so worried do I need a new ssn? Is MFC safe?


Will I be able to get a real jobs or will those two days online follow me for the rest of my life?? I’m terrified! I don’t want to do this anymore I want to get my degree and get a job with that degree and im
So scared about safety

I can’t believe I gave the website (for payment and I’d) my address and my ssn

I’m so scared I’ll be doxed or something
 
Apr 12, 2019
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I joined MFC as an expirement, hoping to make some extra cash while studying full time. However after two sessions I’ve decided to quit, but I’m honestly having the worst panic attacks.

One - I was stupid and didn’t really read over the contract. MFC says I can stop cramming at anytime. Am I really free to go? They’ve deactivated my account for me, but I’m scared I’ve missed something and will end up going to prison. I made about $350 in those two sessions combined, but I put the money on hold and asked MFC to return the money to the user, but they wouldn’t saying the coins would stay in my account in case I ever came back. I don’t want these coins and I’m terrified. Do I have to write a tax write off for the $300 even thought I never claimed it? Do I need to get a lawyer?

Two - because I’m paranoid I started going through the wiki to make sure I covered all my bases. This is gonna sound like a dumb question, but I need to ask - what does obscene mean? I masturbated on camera with a pink vibratior ? Is that obscene?

I’m terrified I’m going to go to jail

I just want to stop and lose my account and continue on with my life. I haven’t slept in like two to three days because the anxiety keeps me up. I finally confessed to my mom and I’m worried she doesn’t truly love me now. I’m so scared. I don’t want to do this anymore, but MFC has my ssn, my address, and bank info. Do I need to get all new codes, routing info, etc? Am I breaking a law if I don’t claim the money?
 

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Relax. You can quit mfc no problem. Your ssn and other info is safe with them. You didn’t do anything obscene. You didn’t even get a payout from them so you don’t have anything to report.
 

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First of all... take a deep breath and try to relax. It is normal to be upset when you are having a moral hangover but when you panic you can't think straight and it becomes very difficult to estimate the proportions correctly. I will try to help you see things in context. First your questions:

1) Pat yourself on the back. You could have signed up for a shady website with servers in Russia, but no, you picked the right site: MFC which is one of the most solid and respected camsites. Myfreecams is a legitimate company operating from the US... they pay their taxes and comply with US law. Because they comply with US law you can sleep tight at night knowing that your information is safe with them.

2) You are free to go. You are not a slave. You are a freelancer. You can come and go as you please. If you ever regret leaving and want to come back, you can also do that. No need for explanations, notices, or anything else.

3) You are not going to prison. Everything you did is legal in the US. You have nothing to fear in that regard.

4) Like @AmberCutie told you up there, you have nothing to declare if you didn't get paid.

5) Regarding being recorded and posted online... well.. the internet is forever or so they say... I am not going to sugarcoat it... there is a probability that someone out there recorded your show. Does this mean they will upload it somewhere? Not necessarily. If they do post it does this mean someone you know will find it? Not necessarily. But it is a possibility, however slim. So it's better to prepare for it in case it ever happens. Now that I told you the hard truth I am going to make this a bit more nuanced... if you only ever did 2 shows.. then it is likely that the automatic recording sites didn't find your room's URL so you will only be dealing with human cappers. In this case there is a better chance that you weren't recorded, chances get even better if you didn't have many people in your room at once. There are cam models who have been models for literally 8 years without anyone finding out what they do. So again.. don't panic.
 

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No, you are not going to go to jail unless you did some very illegal acts on cam (not masturbating). You can look up obscene, it's basically bathroom stuff, fisting, things along those lines. If you were going to go to jail then nearly every model on every site would have done time because what you did is pretty basic for cam girls.

The seven year thing is for MFC's record keeping purposes for taxes -- they have to show that money as theirs, where it came from, etc.

MFC is one of the most truthworthy and long lasting sites out there. I don't mean for this to sound rude, but I doubt anyone has any interest in doxing a girl who has only cammed a handful of times.

If you search your username and find videos of yourself, you can submit a DMCA request or ask MFC to do it for you.

Just remember: If it were illegal, you wouldn't have thousands of girls at any given moment doing it so openly. Go on Chaturbate and you'll see people doing a lot more than masturbating with a vibrator.

As far as the doxing, it's not that easy to dox people. In your case, someone would have to have the desire to figure out your password and login to your account (why would they do that? Did you purposefully piss people off or beg for someone to find you?), but they can't login to your account because it's deactivated. The two posts before me are very popular cam girls and neither of them are in jail and neither of them are so doxed to the point where I as a passerby know their personal info. In fact, there's a very good chance they've never been doxed.
 
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Everyone has a body, every one masturbates, millions of people have videos of themselves fapping on the internet.
Lots of people have been strippers, cam models, center folds, and then graduated and went on to have carriers in other professions.

If you search your username and find videos of yourself, you can submit a DMCA request or ask MFC to do it for you.
Sending DMCA requests
 
Apr 12, 2019
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A follow up:

Thank you all for responding.
I really appreciate all of your taking the time to help me with my anxieties.
I have few more questions and then I'll be done:

1 - Is masturbation considered prostuition? Because other models (that were helping me with my show( said at like "this amount of coins we do a cumshow" if I'd taken the payout would that make me a prosititute? (I'm not from Nevada but from the east coast(

2 - Theres nothing else I need to do? Accounts deactivated and I'm just free to go? Will the coins expire once they close my account in seven years? I dont need to file any forms at all?

3 - For safety reasons do I need to get a new ssn? I was doing direct deposits so do I need new bank numbers?

Honestly, the videos getting out is my least worry I was more concerned with going to jail lol. I googled my username yesterday and it came up on two sites. The first looked like it just re-upped porn, but even though my name came up in the google search, my video wasn't on the siote so im wondering if maybe someone has my username on another site?

There is a picture of my face (i'm fully clothed thankfully( on that 4chan 9k board making rude comments about me, but if thats the only comment im not worried and id reach out to 4chan support and ask them to remove it - it links to my deleted channel but if you type in my username on mfc nothing comes up

So I'm good? The biggest worry is if the video gets out?

MFC will protect all my important information?

I apologize for rephrasing questions I've already asked, I'm just really paranoid
I'm very thankful for you all reaching out I finally feel better
 

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1 - Is masturbation considered prostuition? Because other models (that were helping me with my show( said at like "this amount of coins we do a cumshow" if I'd taken the payout would that make me a prosititute?
No.
3 - For safety reasons do I need to get a new ssn? I was doing direct deposits so do I need new bank numbers?
No.
MFC will protect all my important information?
Yes.
 
Apr 12, 2019
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perfect awesome thank you. I'm going to delete my account now, can my fourms posts/thread also be deleted please?

I cant figure out to delete my accountm could an admin do that for me please? Thank you!
 

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perfect awesome thank you. I'm going to delete my account now, can my fourms posts/thread also be deleted please?

I cant figure out to delete my accountm could an admin do that for me please? Thank you!
Message Amber, and she deactivate your account. Posts don't get deleted after 15 minutes.