In the beginning we’d get 1 token and be demanded to show my mouth, tinge ect. Eventually demanding that I state “I’m a cum slut whore, I swallow sperm” ect. In the beginning I did it, but I didn’t like it.
I’m learning the ropes at this point so I’ve avoiding doing it recently for this particular person.
We all make mistakes, especially in the beginning. I'm glad to hear that you're learning to stand up for yourself.
He was demanding you do something for $0.05. Remember that every token is just 5 cents each for you. There are those who can only afford give a few tokens, but understand that they can't request anything - and then there are those like that guy, who want the world at a dirt cheap price.
The below-minimum tokens he's demanding in return for your services is not worth the mental and emotional toll it takes on you, the performer.. not to mention how it kills the fun vibe of any room. I would strongly suggest that you ban him, and leave any roleplaying to one-on-one private shows or videos, to keep the general theme of the camroom you want to have. You don't have to stretch yourself thin trying to please everybody, especially at the risk of losing the general audience of your room. You also
can't please everybody - some people have to be banned, whether they're paying members or not, if they want you to change for them.
I don't know your personal financial situation. I understand that there are certain things people will do for money when they don't like it. But remember: your boundaries are always your own, and consent can be withdrawn at any time. If you don't like something, you don't have to do it.
Never be afraid to say no. It's your time, your body, your camroom, your job. You decide the rules.
Most importantly: the things you offer will attract that kind of audience. If you don't like the degrading roleplaying, stop it immediately before you attract more customers like that.
Finally, I just want to add that sometimes, we don't know our own boundaries until they've been crossed. Remember not to judge yourself for doing something and then deciding that wasn't your thing - that's life. Having a "I'm experimenting" mindset with this industry, both in prices and in what you offer, has been the most mentally and financially beneficial (for me).