I'm looking for a partner

[Georges89]

Dear all,


I'm a George, a male model based in Bulgaria, looking for a partner. You can see my most active profile on chaturbate.com/georges89. I've been online since April, 2015. I use professional video equipment. This is the Panasonic GH3 high end DSLR with an 14-140mm zoom lens, a professional tripod, and the Blue Yeti mic. Two soft boxes sporting 34 000 lumens of light are on the way to my place. About 7500 people follow my CB room now.

I'm 5'8" tall; 180 pounds of muscle. My hair is light brown, my eyes are motley, they change color with time and with the surrounding light. They go from brown, through auburn to hazel or green. My English is excellent as I've lived in the US, Ireland and I studied in English, elsewhere.

I seek a female preferably, as I'm also looking for love. Relocating for the right partner is on the table as well as negotiating money shares.

You are unable to send messages to me as I'm a new user on this forum. Please, write to
geroges89@abv.bg
if you wish to reach me privately.


Kind regards,

George

 

[Georges89]

Typo: *I'm looking for a female partner preferably,* instead of *I'm looking for a female preferably.*

Also, I'm educated, an athlete and a gentleman. I treat a lady with respect.

 

[DonaDiabla]

Dude, i believe this is the wrong place to advertise your love life. If you are looking for a partner, I would try to see if you could connect with someone off Twitter or try the "fuck buddy" route

 

[Georges89]

This is easy for you to say, Dona, thank you very much.

 

[DonaDiabla]

LOL! Georges89, I am sure that many open-minded young woman might take up on your offer. You have to ask thur the proper channels

This is easy for you to say, Dona, thank you very much.

 

[Georges89]

LOL! Georges89, I am sure that many open-minded young woman might take up on your offer. You have to ask thur the proper channels

LOL, Donna, I'd have asked through a PM if I could have. Please, let me know, how do you suggest that I use my twitter with 300 follower, the vast majority of whom are unfit? Which other channels do you deem proper?

I'm already trying offline. Also, I'm advertising on SexIndustry sites but maybe I'm missing something. I appreciate your help.

 

[AerynShade]

While it might make sense to advertise looking for a female cam partner on a site full of female cam models, the reality is it is very unlikely anyone will take you up on this offer. But hey, what's the harm in trying?

Generally, we suggest male models look locally for interested ladies to cam with. But, isn't it illegal to produce porn in Bulgaria?

 

[Georges89]

Thank you, Aeryn. I'm well aware that my chance is slim.

Yes, producing porn in Bulgaria is illegal. However, AdultCams are not porn formally. Why would Chaturbate allow broadcasting from Bulgaria had it been illegal?

 

[AerynShade]

Thank you, Aeryn. I'm well aware that my chance is slim.

Yes, producing porn in Bulgaria is illegal. However, AdultCams are not porn formally. Why would Chaturbate allow broadcasting from Bulgaria had it been illegal?

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Porn production and distribution is illegal in Bulgaria. All pornographic filming and online sex is illegal. There are no Bulgarian porn production companies. The penalty for production or distribution of pornography is up to one year imprisonment (or up to two years if the criminal used the Internet) and a fine of 1000 BGN to 3000 BGN.

Chaturbate and other cam sites don't always block broadcasters from countries where it is illegal. There are models from many Asian countries even though it's illegal there.

 

[DonaDiabla]

Oh, here is some tips for you:
1. Be a perfect gentleman at all times.
2. follow as many cam girls and porn stars as you can in your country. I do mean all of them. Become friendly with these girls but be respectful. Do not say that you are looking for love. Bulgaria has many lovely cam models and some minor porn stars.
3.Tweet that you are looking for girls to do content with but you must do this on regular bases.
4. Be willing to travel within your country.
5. Always be aware of your and this girl's boundaries.
6. If you used the fuck buddy route; get to know this girl and make sure she is comfortable.
7. You might have to pay for female talent. You can pay for good talent as well.
8.If you find someone; make sure that you have food and water at your place.
9. Do not forget the condoms and other safe sex things.
10. Talk about the payment before doing the show.

LOL, Donna, I'd have asked through a PM if I could have. Please, let me know, how do you suggest that I use my twitter with 300 follower, the vast majority of whom are unfit? Which other channels do you deem proper?

I'm already trying offline, but maybe I'm missing something. Go ahead, humor me.

 

[Georges89]

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Chaturbate and other cam sites don't always block broadcasters from countries where it is illegal. There are models from many Asian countries even though it's illegal there.

Thanks, I'm sure that AdultCams are classified as erotica here.

 

[Georges89]

Oh, here is some tips for you:
1. Be a perfect gentleman at all times.
2. follow as many cam girls and porn stars as you can in your country. I do mean all of them. Become friendly with these girls but be respectful. Do not say that you are looking for love. Bulgaria has many lovely cam models and some minor porn stars.
3.Tweet that you are looking for girls to do content with but you must do this on regular bases.
4. Be willing to travel within your country.
5. Always be aware of your and this girl's boundaries.
6. If you used the fuck buddy route; get to know this girl and make sure she is comfortable.
7. You might have to pay for female talent. You can pay for good talent as well.
8.If you find someone; make sure that you have food and water at your place.
9. Do not forget the condoms and other safe sex things.
10. Talk about the payment before doing the show.

Thanks, Donna. I'm not aware of any other Bulgarian models or porn stars. All the models I've chated with, turned out to be from elsewhere. Who do you mean?

Are you trolling me? I should think that you are, but I give you the benefit of the doubt. Anyway, you may have misunderstood the question. It was about which other channel you can suggest." To make it clear, twitter is useless for reasons that I already explained. I explained above that contacting a model during a show does not work. It's funny that you suggest it if you think that my original post was inappropriate. Please, remain silent if you are just trolling.

 

[Nordling]

Thanks, Donna. I'm not aware of any other Bulgarian models or porn stars. All the models I've chated with, turned out to be from elsewhere. Who do you mean?

Go to Streamate. Right on the home page, right under the models' pictures, their country codes are listed. (some do lie about their country of origin for security reasons. My favorite Russian model, e.g., lists herself as Ukrainian to avoid local Russian men harassing her).

 

[Georges89]

Go to Streamate. Right on the home page, right under the models' pictures, their country codes are listed. (some do lie about their country of origin for security reasons. My favorite Russian model, e.g., lists herself as Ukrainian to avoid local Russian men harassing her).

Thanks, Nordling, I am on Streamate. You quoted exactly the part of my post which explains why this is not a good idea. You pointed it out yourself. In fact, during a show is the worst time to contact a model. Moreover, the models don't meet people whom they met during a show.

I hope that I don't have to explain this anymore.

 

[BiancaBaker]

Agree with everyone else. Try Fetlife seriously, just start a thread in a camming thread over there or wherever you live (some have classifieds for the country you live in) Searching here is the wrong place.

Also girls make way more money solo or g/g so I would expect not to get paid for it. Why would someone you don't know share there earnings with you? I personally would never hire a guy or pay a guy ever and I think 99 percent of girls would agree with this. Especially when most of us have partners to cam or make content with for free. Make sure you get tested and the girl is tested, find someone local, Check your laws because I do believe in Bulgaria it is illegal (hence why your having issues finding a girl). I

 

[DonaDiabla]

First of all, I was not trolling you. I was trying help you out but since you took it into this negative realm...then let me tell you something. First of all, you come on here looking for a female partner but also mentions that you are looking for love. That was unprofessional. I have been in this industry for 13 years and I have been a webcam model for almost 4 years. I handle myself in a professional manner both on and off this site. Love has nothing to do in this industry. We are in the business to make money...not to hook up with each other. Second, it is not my fault that I suggest Twitter and you had no luck with that. Third, you should know that most people make the most solo. Rarely can couple shows make great money off shows unless they are super hot, have great marketing, or have great connection with their fans. Fourth, you made this thread yet complain when I make suggestions. Maybe that is why you are having a hard time finding someone? So, good luck with your business because you are going to need it.

Thanks, Donna. I'm not aware of any other Bulgarian models or porn stars. All the models I've chated with, turned out to be from elsewhere. Who do you mean?

Are you trolling me? I should think that you are, but I give you the benefit of the doubt. Anyway, you may have misunderstood the question. It was about which other channel you can suggest." To make it clear, twitter is useless for reasons that I already explained. I explained above that contacting a model during a show does not work. It's funny that you suggest it if you think that my original post was inappropriate. Please, remain silent if you are just trolling.

 

[Georges89]

Thanks, Ms. Baker, I am on Fetlife. I've done all you've suggested.

Also, I don't agree that girls make way more money solo, unless they are really successful. I make more money than the plenty of girls and I can be even more successful in a couple. I hate to speak about this in such impersonal terms. I would be willing to team up with someone with whom this would be just business, however, this is not my intent. I didn't want to advertise this too much but I did mention it in the original post.

Moreover, I am willing to parner up with a man or a trans-person. Off course, anyone interested is welcome to reach me privately.
I said this, yet no one who replied seem to take it into consideration. So, please, guys, say nothing unless you want to say something positive too. I'm afraid that your discouraging words may discourage anyone who would be willing to reply to my proposal, and for no good reason.

 

[Serenity_Tam]

Alright. So. I went to your twitter... and the first post I see comes off as you begging for a GF. But also trying to bribe with ... candy? I mean ... buying a girl chocolate is the bare minimum of a relationship. Maybe it was supposed to be a cute funny? It just comes off as desperation ... but that's mostly because mixing work and love ... I am legit for once not trying to be mean or discouraging, I will give you reason why...

I think you should look for these two things separately. If you insist on meshing love and cam then you can always try a dating site and put on your profile that you cam and you want someone you enter into a relationship with to cam with you. Coming to a place that is business focused isn't a good idea to look for love. Also, agreeing with fetlife. Just to be clear I am not saying relationships and work don't mix - there are a lot of VERY SUCCESSFUL couples who are super in love, but using a business platform not the best place to establish love relationships. I feel like it's a bit more acceptable to say "hey! I want a cam partner!" and then maybe you get lucky and yall love each other, or not. I mean whatevs.


Also also, I don't think anyone meant message a girl in a show, because you're right that's totally a bad idea....more like take her username see if she has twitter or email and send her a message letting her know through those platforms you cam and were looking for a cam partner. Honestly though if I were in your area I wouldn't cam with you because of fear for my safety, not necessarily from you but from ppl watching you. On your chaturbate it says you're looking for a date, and as mentioned on your business twitter it also says that. For a lady that can be concerning because many of us really try hard to make sure people know we are an online only fantasy and it looks like you blur those lines, which can be dangerous for us ladies.

Your CB profile makes you sound like a genuinely sensitive dude, kudos on being a dude who lists pronouns. Seriously.


I wish you lots of luck and lots of tokens!

Maybe try travelling to gals if you want to do couples shows, I know a lot of us gals travel to cam with other ladies.

ETA: I don't think any replies here would turn away people who were interested in working with you George. I think everyone here is genuinely trying to help you find better ways and places to get what you want. The only thing that would turn away people would be you and your responses to constructive criticism, this is the internet afterall I don't think anyone judges based on others opinions that heavily.

 

[AnneDVille]

@DonaDiabla gave you some good advice, OP. She wasn't trolling.

But here I am, as helpful as always: Try a channel that is NOT full of veteran cammodels who know that solo work almost always is more lucrative than camming with a stunt cock.

Just sayn'....

 

[AudriTwo]

Does Bulgaria have Craigslist?

Go to Streamate. Right on the home page, right under the models' pictures, their country codes are listed. (some do lie about their country of origin for security reasons. My favorite Russian model, e.g., lists herself as Ukrainian to avoid local Russian men harassing her).

DO NOT MESSAGE MODELS ON STREAMATE! This is consider soliciting and your model account maybe terminated.

 

[Nordling]

Does Bulgaria have Craigslist?

DO NOT MESSAGE MODELS ON STREAMATE! This is consider soliciting and your model account maybe terminated.

True. Mostly I just wanted to point out that determining a model's country isn't that problematic.

 

[BlairLuxe]

Finding a girlfriend who is willing to cam with you = more likely than finding a cam girl who wants to be your girlfriend. Especially when you live in a porn desert.

 

[gudheadt]

why dont you just write to a studio in/around your country? most of the girls that are on this Forum are in other contrys. and dont want to meet up with random stangers...

i would think your best bet would be to just write to a studio or go out in the real world, find a nice lady, and see if she wants to do this kind of stuff with you.

 

[Georges89]

Oh, wow, thanks for all the positive responses, Serenity, Anne, Nordling, and Blair.

Thanks for the good advice, @AudriTwo.

 

[AmberCutie]

Finding a girlfriend who is willing to cam with you = more likely than finding a cam girl who wants to be your girlfriend. Especially when you live in a porn desert.

Agreed, I'd suggest a dating site instead of ads looking for a cam partner.

 

[Georges89]

OK, thanks guys, I am on dating sites and I have contacted studios directly, thank you very much.

 

[Georges89]

Also girls make way more money solo or g/g so I would expect not to get paid for it. Why would someone you don't know share there earnings with you? I personally would never hire a guy or pay a guy ever and I think 99 percent of girls would agree with this. Especially when most of us have partners to cam or make content with for free. Make sure you get tested and the girl is tested, find someone local, Check your laws because I do believe in Bulgaria it is illegal (hence why your having issues finding a girl). I

You raise some important issues, Ms. Baker, thank you. You say that I should not expect to be paid if I am not increasing the income, a very reasonable point of view. I agree. This would be the case if I am with a rather successful model. This situation is most unlikely, and I have considered it in passing, only. I would still want a humble share that would help get by. It is agreeable and it should boost my popularity.

I don't see why any such model would want to try tough. For some reason, the mood about me here seems to be of guy delusional about wooing the top cam girls. Not at all, a more likely scenario is my meeting an unsuccessful woman or a man whom I can bring to the front page, with my equipment and my eagerness to tend to all fetishes, if the said model is as committed as I am. In this case, the premise to Ms. Bakers's question is false.

Nevertheless, Ms. Baker has given me an opportunity to list a variety of other perks that I didn't include in the original post, regardless of the callus terms Ms. Baker uses. Thanks again, Ms. Baker.

Finally, to the question; a reason for a model to be willing to share their bread with me is that I bring non-financial benefits. I am a jack-of-all-trades. Of course, the offline work never ends so I want to take a load off my partner. I can take care of accounting, having a degree in mathematics. I can learn to write programing code easily helping promote our team. I can teach a model about beauty and longevity through nutrition among other ways, and among other useful things that I know. Most of all, I love working with my hands, house work, cleaning, cooking, chores. etc. Certainly, such a business is managed better by a couple. Do you not think about this if you do it all on your own? Certainly, I wish to share the load with someone.

Anyone is welcome to contact me. As you see, I was already onto all the advise anyone has given so far, (except for @AudriTwo's advice.) I have thought this through. I put the couple's interest before my personal interest. And we can do really well, if you do the same.

 

[gudheadt]

just out of curiousity why would a model Ever choice to do a show with you, and not any of the other sucessful guy out there that make more money and bring their own audience and followers?
Because you have a degree in math and can clean their house/apartment? thats not going to cut it, escially when you want a cut of their hard earnede money.

a more likely scenario is my meeting an unsuccessful woman or a man whom I can bring to the front page,

you think that you bring more value to the girl then you actully do, you dont have a big following, not on twitter or CB. and that rub's me the wrong way. you have to relize that these qualitys that you are taking about is not exclusive to you. and are pretty easy to find.

as @msbiancabaker said, girls make more from doing solo shows or g/g so why even bother with you, when you dont really bring anything of value other then "my equipment and my eagerness to tend to all fetishes".

sorry if this sounds harsh but you have to face the reality of the siuation. from what i can see you don't seem to bring a lot to the table for the other person. if i'm wrong then please correct me.

 

[Protocosmo]

I'm just about the same as all of the above. I've got degrees, cute as a punkin and am quite the homemaker. So, if any of you less than successful ladies are interested... Just saying.

 

[Protocosmo]