I lifted this from another thread because, quite frankly, I found it the most interesting quote to come out that thread.
Suspicion, in and of itself, is not necessarily a bad thing. Suspicion for reasons unfounded starts to border on paranoia. I believe part of the suspicion comes from a forum such as this where members are reminded over and over that, for the models, this is a job, a source of income. Pair that with a few cautionary tales and an environment has been created where it is very easy to perpetuate the myth that any act of friendship is a ploy.
I don't know where I really wanted to go with this, just that the above quote made me think. Have we really become so cynical that our default is to be suspicious of any and everything? How many opportunities are missed because we are so busy looking for ulterior motives that the face value is lost on us? Sometimes "Hey, you're pretty cool, I like you," just means "Hey, you're pretty cool, I like you."
Now I feel like listening to "Cherry Bomb" by John Mellencamp.
Alexandra Cole said:It's common for people to assume that anything we say is a ploy to leverage money out of a man's wallet (thanks, Gizmodo), and there's something a bit sad knowing that if, on that rare occasion, a camgirl does connect with someone, her honesty will be treated with suspicion. And it's also a bit sad that a member would be ridiculed for believing her. I don't want to suggest that we should abandon all judgment or trust blindly. It would just be nice if there were more room for sincerity.
Suspicion, in and of itself, is not necessarily a bad thing. Suspicion for reasons unfounded starts to border on paranoia. I believe part of the suspicion comes from a forum such as this where members are reminded over and over that, for the models, this is a job, a source of income. Pair that with a few cautionary tales and an environment has been created where it is very easy to perpetuate the myth that any act of friendship is a ploy.
I don't know where I really wanted to go with this, just that the above quote made me think. Have we really become so cynical that our default is to be suspicious of any and everything? How many opportunities are missed because we are so busy looking for ulterior motives that the face value is lost on us? Sometimes "Hey, you're pretty cool, I like you," just means "Hey, you're pretty cool, I like you."
Now I feel like listening to "Cherry Bomb" by John Mellencamp.