This isn’t directed at you but to ALL the women and men who come here asking the same thing. and more so recently as more people are turning to this as it has more recognition in popular culture and acceptance as a “job”.
Do whatever you want. That the is point of successful webcam girls. We are women, being ourselves, doing what we like. Identify your motivator for being online. It can’t only be money Or having a job. You won’t last. It’s too hard to keep going when you aren’t making much. So watch other girls and see how they share their reality or chosen persona. Think about who you are and why anyone should watch you. What is your sexuality you are wanting to share.? What is your personality you want to share? What do you want to do with men via the internet? Cause these are real, mutual, sexual experiences with men wanting that. What do you enjoy as a normal human? How can you share that online? What parts of yourself (Looks, personality, sexuality, interests etc) can you heighten or highlight or make your focus?
Girls come and go all the time cause they come at this as a job. They have done the research on the “job”. They are “prepared”. But it’s not a job. It’s a way to share yourself with a audience and some are lucky to make money from it. Maybe if you’re lucky enough to make enough money it can become a career. So figure out what you want to share and why you want to do this outside of having a job. No one else can tell you that or answer any of the questions I, or you, posed. Unless you make your room your own you will be just another girl jobbing it and you won’t have fun and it won’t be sustainable.
To answer one question specifically. The men know each girl is different so there are no expectations. Yes they do all have their own expectations. But every man and what they want is different. There is a lid for every pot. What they are expecting to do is browse a lot of girls and find one they want. So offer them a version of yourself you believe in. You have to sell your product and that is much easier if you believe in it. You won’t ever make everyone happy so don’t worry about what the men want. Do what you want and the right people will come to you.
My story is that i was addicted to Chatroulette and discovered a way to have more than one man watch me and get off to me showing off, at the same time. That way was MyFreeCams. 9 years ago. I love it as much today as I did then, as sharing my sexuality and body is my passion, art and joy. I was lucky to be successful from the start because of that. My first few shows on cam were me dancing and getting myself off when and how I liked. I didn’t have goals. I had no concept of earning money from it or asking for tips to do anything. I didn’t even believe it was real and that the money would get paid out to me. I just did it for fun. 12 hours a day. Every day. Obviously the money turned out to be real. For the first year I was probably more excited to get on cam and show off than the men were to watch me. I moved sites a few times over the years and now My home is streamate. 9 years after I started I’m still evolving all the time, learning, growing and changing what I do on cam, in alignment with who i have become outside of camming, how my sexuality has evolved and what I am passionate about.
So decide why you want to be a cam girl. And then you will know what to do on cam.
A practical bit of advice and something I still do most days. Put your cam on. Use obs or your webcam software. Even record it if you want and watch yourself. It's basically a warm up/practice/dress rehearsal. Play your favorite music and get sexy with yourself. Dance around or whatever you enjoy and watch your self while you do it live. Watch back the recordings after. Refine what you see if you don’t like it. Enjoy watching yourself. Do what you think looks good on cam for you and/or do what feels good to you and let your Real pleasure or joy show through. Watch yourself. In the end youre The only one who is going to be seeing every second of every stream you do so make yourself and your show what you enjoy and take joy in watching yourself do, else it will be a struggle mentally.
It’s not a easy thing to do, live streaming. Every day I’m amazed at the balls and talent and perseverance it takes to be a cam girl. But it’s your room. Your rules. You get to have a space and community built around you and what you want. And that’s very exciting.
I hope I didn’t come off too hard or harsh. I’m British, plain spoken and been around this community for 9 years and don’t often speak up. but I wrote this And re read it like 8 times and I think instead of deleting it I’m gonna go for it and post it as I think it could be helpful for newbies to read.
