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Hello everyone I've only been using cam sites for two months. Now that the honeymoon is over I have questions. First off I now have the utmost respect for models. It must be so hard to sit in a chair all night waiting for a tip. It acutally seems to be kind of sad. Starting off as a new model one must be mentally ready for the ups and downs. What I've found is that I enjoy chatting with the models it helps me forget about my stressful life at the end of the day. I now stay away from the models that push too hard for tips and private shows. Basically started off with approx. 40 models that were favorites now I realize there are only 2 or 3 that I enjoy chatting with and seem real. Most of these models live in economic conditions far lower than the United States.

A few models I text with over Whats App. and/or Snap Chat. They have sent me pictures of their family, kids, apartments, etc. So now I feel somewhat invested in them and want them to succeed. It is "right" to change the lives of these models by following these models and tipping on a regular basis? Maybe I'm being scammed however I don't think so. Honestly the money is not an issue for me. I guess I'm what you would call a whale. For example if a model lives in Venezuela and her average income is $5,000 US dollars then large tips would over night change her life style. The power imbalnce here makes one thinks. So if one were to tip $1,000-$2,000 per month overnight their world has changed. Your thoughts please, thank you.
 
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I now stay away from the models that push too hard for tips and private shows.
Reads to me as "I stay away from models who are direct and know their own worth. But I'm cool with the ones who have no professional boundaries, because I'm low key looking for a gf or fuck buddy. Amn't I such a great guy? Pats on the back people" 😂

Me, me, my ego. MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE 😂

Sorry if too brutal, just being honest here.
 
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So you think models lives are sad and you have power over them because you have more money.

Noice!

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Edit to add, for fuck sakes stop coming to Latin American models thirsty for cheap shows and power/ego trips because our currencies are bad. It's exploitative and cheap and gross.
 
Hello everyone I've only been using cam sites for two months. Now that the honeymoon is over I have questions. First off I now have the utmost respect for models. It must be so hard to sit in a chair all night waiting for a tip. It acutally seems to be kind of sad. Starting off as a new model one must be mentally ready for the ups and downs. What I've found is that I enjoy chatting with the models it helps me forget about my stressful life at the end of the day. I now stay away from the models that push too hard for tips and private shows. Basically started off with approx. 40 models that were favorites now I realize there are only 2 or 3 that I enjoy chatting with and seem real. Most of these models live in economic conditions far lower than the United States.

A few models I text with over Whats App. and/or Snap Chat. They have sent me pictures of their family, kids, apartments, etc. So now I feel somewhat invested in them and want them to succeed. It is "right" to change the lives of these models by following these models and tipping on a regular basis? Maybe I'm being scammed however I don't think so. Honestly the money is not an issue for me. I guess I'm what you would call a whale. For example if a model lives in Venezuela and her average income is $5,000 US dollars then large tips would over night change her life style. The power imbalnce here makes one thinks. So if one were to tip $1,000-$2,000 per month overnight their world has changed. Your thoughts please, thank you.
Not a model but holy fuckeroonie.
 
We ALL have the power to change people's lives, and not just through money. As someone who has visited the less 'fortunate' of our society, I can tell you, some people are happy right where they are. It's arrogant to assume that a model is 'needy' just because she's a cam model or lives in a less developed country.

That being said, I think the best you can do for any model (or anyone for that matter) is to treat them with DIGNITY, and do not approach your financial support as 'charity'. If you genuinely enjoy a model, support her for what she does, not because you assume she needs saving. Just my two cents.
 
We ALL have the power to change people's lives, and not just through money. As someone who has visited the less 'fortunate' of our society, I can tell you, some people are happy right where they are. It's arrogant to assume that a model is 'needy' just because she's a cam model or lives in a less developed country.
At the risk of being controversial, people in some "less developed" countries consider themselves rich beyond their wildest dreams because their kids can go to schools which don't need "active shooter drills". Everything is relative.
 
At the risk of being controversial, people in some "less developed" countries consider themselves rich beyond their wildest dreams because their kids can go to schools which don't need "active shooter drills". Everything is relative.
They do that in America, though right? Gun laws don’t have anything to do with money?
 
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Reads to me as "I stay away from models who are direct and know their own worth. But I'm cool with the ones who have no professional boundaries, because I'm low key looking for a gf or fuck buddy. Amn't I such a great guy? Pats on the back people" 😂

Me, me, my ego. MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE 😂

Sorry if too brutal, just being honest here.
No worries I appreciate the honesty. I enjoy talking with the models and yes the conversations do get personal. I realize that in e-mails and posts such as this one has to be careful because the true intent does not come through. Since I'm new to all of this please help me out. When you chat with someone do you not discuss personal things? Or is it stricltly business? Do you establish a relationship/friendship with the men that follow you? Or do you have a strict line that you do not cross when chatting with your followers? Even in my own personal business my customers know a lot about me. Perhaps I don't really understand cam sites maybe they are not for me. And no I'm not hopping on an airplane and flying across the globe for a fuck buddy.

I'm going to assume that you are from the US. Please tell me if I'm wrong. Now that sites such as Chaturbate and OnlyFans are available to anyone in the world with an internet connection all bets are off. Everything has changed. What are your thoughts on someone camming from a poorer country? Is it exploitation or is it simply a chance for someone to raise their standard of living? Is it beneficial for the world for girls at a young age to start camming? Or should we look at camming as a means to an end/goal. I tend to take things personally so as I stated above perhaps cam sites are not for me. Last night I watched a young girl who was camming and she had birthday balloons etc set up in her room. Only one of her followers stopped in and said happy birthday. It really makes one think. Peoples lives are being changed all over the world now due to camming. The difference between the US and other countries as far as income goes is shocking. Most americans have not seen poverty. Sorry, I tend to overthink everything just the way I am.

One more thing. I probably shouldn't post this because I'll get blasted for it. The girl above whose birthday was last night. I had never seen her before just happen to click on her room. I logged off then went back online at midnight-her time. I wished her happy birthday and tipped her 1000 tokens. I should have tipped her 10,0000 tokens it was worth it to see the surprise/smile/ shock in her face. So yes it hard not to take things personally .
 
We ALL have the power to change people's lives, and not just through money. As someone who has visited the less 'fortunate' of our society, I can tell you, some people are happy right where they are. It's arrogant to assume that a model is 'needy' just because she's a cam model or lives in a less developed country.

That being said, I think the best you can do for any model (or anyone for that matter) is to treat them with DIGNITY, and do not approach your financial support as 'charity'. If you genuinely enjoy a model, support her for what she does, not because you assume she needs saving. Just my two cents.
THISSSS a thousand times this, thank you!!!!!

Fun fact! It's possible to be happy living in Latin America and in a thousand other places.
Being South American (and i'm sure we can include so many other places here) does not equal being poor, unhappy, naive, needy of help or charity.
Just because we don't live life the way you do, it doesn't mean life is worse here. (and tbh we do live life pretty similarly)

There are people in need here, of course, but I'm sure there are people in need in your country too, so maybe go help them and stop feeling sorry for others because of their nationality.

@D_A_X just to be clear, by "your", i don't mean directly you, just like, any person reading this, especially OP
 
So you think models lives are sad and you have power over them because you have more money.

Noice!

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Edit to add, for fuck sakes stop coming to Latin American models thirsty for cheap shows and power/ego trips because our currencies are bad. It's exploitative and cheap and gross.
No I do not think models lives are sad. As you know it takes time to start a business and build a clientele. What is sad is seeing a girl stay on cam all night and not earning any tips. Realizing that she may have spent all of her money to purchase equipment for camming. And no I do not believe that I or anyone else has power over a cam model. You are your own person. You make all your own decisions. You can ban someone from your room. You could delete all your accounts and walk away. No one has power over you. However, the standard of living most Americans enjoy is far above that which exists in other countries. Most Americans take for granted everything we have. They have not seen poverty. What I am trying to say is that there exists a huge income inequality between the US and other countries. So in some ways this is not a level playing field. Sorry, I tend to think differently than most.

 
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No worries I appreciate the honesty. I enjoy talking with the models and yes the conversations do get personal. I realize that in e-mails and posts such as this one has to be careful because the true intent does not come through. Since I'm new to all of this please help me out. When you chat with someone do you not discuss personal things? Or is it stricltly business? Do you establish a relationship/friendship with the men that follow you? Or do you have a strict line that you do not cross when chatting with your followers? Even in my own personal business my customers know a lot about me. Perhaps I don't really understand cam sites maybe they are not for me. And no I'm not hopping on an airplane and flying across the globe for a fuck buddy.

I'm going to assume that you are from the US. Please tell me if I'm wrong. Now that sites such as Chaturbate and OnlyFans are available to anyone in the world with an internet connection all bets are off. Everything has changed. What are your thoughts on someone camming from a poorer country? Is it exploitation or is it simply a chance for someone to raise their standard of living? Is it beneficial for the world for girls at a young age to start camming? Or should we look at camming as a means to an end/goal. I tend to take things personally so as I stated above perhaps cam sites are not for me. Last night I watched a young girl who was camming and she had birthday balloons etc set up in her room. Only one of her followers stopped in and said happy birthday. It really makes one think. Peoples lives are being changed all over the world now due to camming. The difference between the US and other countries as far as income goes is shocking. Most americans have not seen poverty. Sorry, I tend to overthink everything just the way I am.

One more thing. I probably shouldn't post this because I'll get blasted for it. The girl above whose birthday was last night. I had never seen her before just happen to click on her room. I logged off then went back online at midnight-her time. I wished her happy birthday and tipped her 1000 tokens. I should have tipped her 10,0000 tokens it was worth it to see the surprise/smile/ shock in her face. So yes it hard not to take things personally .
I have no desire to enter into a prolonged dialogue with you during my free time, or to help you learn more about sex work. No desire whatsoever.
Spend some time reading the forum if you want answers to all of those questions 🤷‍♀️
 
No worries I appreciate the honesty. I enjoy talking with the models and yes the conversations do get personal. I realize that in e-mails and posts such as this one has to be careful because the true intent does not come through. Since I'm new to all of this please help me out. When you chat with someone do you not discuss personal things? Or is it stricltly business? Do you establish a relationship/friendship with the men that follow you? Or do you have a strict line that you do not cross when chatting with your followers? Even in my own personal business my customers know a lot about me. Perhaps I don't really understand cam sites maybe they are not for me. And no I'm not hopping on an airplane and flying across the globe for a fuck buddy.

I'm going to assume that you are from the US. Please tell me if I'm wrong. Now that sites such as Chaturbate and OnlyFans are available to anyone in the world with an internet connection all bets are off. Everything has changed. What are your thoughts on someone camming from a poorer country? Is it exploitation or is it simply a chance for someone to raise their standard of living? Is it beneficial for the world for girls at a young age to start camming? Or should we look at camming as a means to an end/goal. I tend to take things personally so as I stated above perhaps cam sites are not for me. Last night I watched a young girl who was camming and she had birthday balloons etc set up in her room. Only one of her followers stopped in and said happy birthday. It really makes one think. Peoples lives are being changed all over the world now due to camming. The difference between the US and other countries as far as income goes is shocking. Most americans have not seen poverty. Sorry, I tend to overthink everything just the way I am.

One more thing. I probably shouldn't post this because I'll get blasted for it. The girl above whose birthday was last night. I had never seen her before just happen to click on her room. I logged off then went back online at midnight-her time. I wished her happy birthday and tipped her 1000 tokens. I should have tipped her 10,0000 tokens it was worth it to see the surprise/smile/ shock in her face. So yes it hard not to take things personally .
Cam sites are not for you.
 
THISSSS a thousand times this, thank you!!!!!

Fun fact! It's possible to be happy living in Latin America and in a thousand other places.
Being South American (and i'm sure we can include so many other places here) does not equal being poor, unhappy, naive, needy of help or charity.
Just because we don't live life the way you do, it doesn't mean life is worse here. (and tbh we do live life pretty similarly)

There are people in need here, of course, but I'm sure there are people in need in your country too, so maybe go help them and stop feeling sorry for others because of their nationality.

@D_A_X just to be clear, by "your", i don't mean directly you, just like, any person reading this, especially OP
I totally get that.......I think that there is a misconception that all cam models and/or sex workers do it out of need. Many people forget that some women (and men too I'm sure), do this because they genuinely enjoy it. It is a profession after all, that takes a great deal of dedication, business savvy, and hard work, if you're going to be successful.
 
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So you think models lives are sad and you have power over them because you have more money.

Noice!

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I’m sitting here during this long-ass bus ride
, and that Rodney Dangerfield GIF is cracking me tf up. 😂 Thank you for that.
 
I totally get that.......I think that there is a misconception that all cam models and/or sex workers do it out of need. Many people forget that some women (and men too I'm sure), do this because they genuinely enjoy it. It is a profession after all, that takes a great deal of dedication, business savvy, and hard work, if you're going to be successful.
I got into a huge argument with someone on another forum site last night because he responded to a post about incels saying women shouldn't do porn and that OF stops us from needing husbands. This guy suggested if vanilla jobs paid more none of us would work in this industry. I laid into that guy hardcore. I do this because I enjoy it, not because I have to or because other jobs won't pay me as much but if I'm going to be sexually harassed in an office, I'd rather be on cam and getting PAID.
 
because he responded to a post about incels saying women shouldn't do porn and that OF stops us from needing husbands.
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Lol, did you hear the one about the incel on Twitter that said clits are where babies come out of? Bahahahaha. These guys are their own worst enemies.
 
I got into a huge argument with someone on another forum site last night because he responded to a post about incels saying women shouldn't do porn and that OF stops us from needing husbands. This guy suggested if vanilla jobs paid more none of us would work in this industry. I laid into that guy hardcore. I do this because I enjoy it, not because I have to or because other jobs won't pay me as much but if I'm going to be sexually harassed in an office, I'd rather be on cam and getting PAID.
I used to have a husband, AND a well paying vanilla job!!! Neither did anything for me....😂
 
I don’t know why people need to over complicate things like this.

Cam models are entertainers. Cam sites are for entertainment. If you’re looking for something more than that, then you’re better off going on a different site.

Want to be charitable? There’s plenty of good charities out there you can donate to. Want a girlfriend or fuck buddy? Go on Tinder, Hinge, eHarmony, FarmersOnly or ChristianMingle.
 
from needing husbands.

The fuck? :vomit:

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That dude probably wishes that wedding vows still ended with “…I now pronounce you MAN and WIFE.” 🙄 :vomit:
 
Want a girlfriend or fuck buddy? Go on Tinder, Hinge, eHarmony, FarmersOnly or ChristianMingle.
Don't forget the one for singles w boats. It's my fave 😂
Sailors and Boaters deserve love too ! 😂 :rofl:

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Don't forget the one for singles w boats. It's my fave 😂
Sailors and Boaters deserve love too ! 😂 :rofl:

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Wow this is surreal. I'm talking to a woman on that same forum right now about how her boyfriend is being a douche to her at a regatta. She's the only woman there. His friends keep ignoring her or calling her rude for trying to get involved.
 
Wow this is surreal. I'm talking to a woman on that same forum right now about how her boyfriend is being a douche to her at a regatta. She's the only woman there. His friends keep ignoring her or calling her rude for trying to get involved.
Whoa dude that is weird.
People really are shit stains sometimes. It blows my mind. Hopefully she can get out of there and leave those losers in the dust.
It never fails to disgust me how group think takes over, and no one in a whole group will often stand up and say or do what's right.
 
Whoa dude that is weird.
People really are shit stains sometimes. It blows my mind. Hopefully she can get out of there and leave those losers in the dust.
It never fails to disgust me how group think takes over, and no one in a whole group will often stand up and say or do what's right.
I told her that if it were me he and I would be having a very heated discussion on the way home. Starting with "are you a douchebag like your friends or just want clout?"
 
Don't forget the one for singles w boats. It's my fave 😂
Sailors and Boaters deserve love too ! 😂 :rofl:

Billy Gardell Comedy GIF by CBS

There’s a boating convention that happens in my city (or at least used to) and I was a server for a private event the club I worked at held for that convention and it was quite literally the best night I ever had out of the three years I worked there.

Might have to go make me an account on singles with boats. Wonder if you actually need to have your own boat? I’m sure I could easily get a pirogue though.
 
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There’s a boating convention that happens in my city (or at least used to) and I was a server for a private event the club I worked at held for that convention and it was quite literally the best night I ever had out of the three years I worked there.

Might have to go make me an account on singles with boats. Wonder if you actually need to have your own boat? I’m sure I could easily get a pirogue though.
I have a jon boat that's almost 40 years old. LOLOL

I watch Below Deck and sometime I want to try being a yachtie just to be on the water for 6 weeks and make bank.
 
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We ALL have the power to change people's lives, and not just through money. As someone who has visited the less 'fortunate' of our society, I can tell you, some people are happy right where they are. It's arrogant to assume that a model is 'needy' just because she's a cam model or lives in a less developed country.

That being said, I think the best you can do for any model (or anyone for that matter) is to treat them with DIGNITY, and do not approach your financial support as 'charity'. If you genuinely enjoy a model, support her for what she does, not because you assume she needs saving. Just my two cents.
Thank you very much for taking the time to reply. I'm not suggesting that a model is "needy". I' just believe that we should be aware of the differences between countries. and economic conditions.

You basically nailed it. Thank you for helping me with this. You are 100% correct. When you use the words "charity" and "saving" it tends to bring to mind a negative connotation. You phrased it better than I can one should "support a model for what she does". The idea being here that one should want a cam model to "succeed". Most men probably don't understand this. You are a business and it is beneficial for everyone involved for that business to become successful and prosper. From what I've seen on these forums camming sites can be very addictive and many men seem to "fall in love" with a cam girl not realiizing that this is business. From this side of things I can see how many men would take things personally and have trouble distiinguishing between a business and a relationship. We are all truly human and crave the acceptance and love from others. What camming sites have done now is blurred the lines between what is real and what is not. Thank you again for replying.
 
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Thank you I believe you are correct.
It's okay to realize that, we are sales people but as you said in an earlier post your customers know things about your life, it's no different except we're naked and doing things and sometimes we get cum drunk and sometimes you get token drunk. Metaphorically speaking.
 
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