My Lush just arriiiiived just in time for me to set it up and cam in a couple hours! I'm super excited but also wondering how y'all use yours when it comes to Privates, if you do those? Do they just tip on top of the private rate to get the thing going? It's been touched on in other threads (that I didn't want to hijack so here's this new one hi!) and I've seen some people say they hand over the controls and I guess I could do that in exchange for upping my rate, if it's not difficult to do, but I have no idea. Is there a norm?