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Discussion in 'Ask-a-Model!' started by Siue886, Aug 28, 2018.

  1. Siue886

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    How do I go about meeting a cam model? I’m very shy and very new to the modeling world. I have a physical disability that prevents me from flying in an airplane alone. Most models I have met haven’t been very nice to me at all. For them it’s all about the money they make. I don’t have a job that pays well enough to spend money on a model and survive at the same time.

    For those who want to see what I look like, here I am
     

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  2. CorieCastles

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    I know, right? It's almost as if this is like... their "job" or something...? Pfffft... the nerve of 'em.

    In all seriousness, dude, I think you're looking for an escort. But then again, you say you don't have any money for anyone except yourself, so you're probably looking for a girlfriend or FWB. In which case, camsites are 100% not the way to go.
     
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  3. Miss_Lollipop

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    When you say meet a model that do you mean? Most models don't meet ppl.

    If you don't have much money, the best option would be to travel to a convention. You may need assistance... but that's going to be where you can met the most amount of models for comparative low amounts

    Models that meet members outside of these charge a lot, and date raffles are now not allowed on cam sites.

    Models are all about money cos it's our job. That doesnt mean we don't care or dont like you.. but we focus on those who are paying customers. Its nothing personal.

    If you don't want to or cannot travel to a con, you might enjoy a local strip club or an escort more. But this costs $$$ too....

    If you don't want to pay anything then please don't visit camgirls at all. Again it's not personal, but this is a job
     
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  4. Tartan

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    No offence dude but you sound like you are looking for a GF and I think you might be looking in the wrong place
     
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  5. AudriTwo

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    Camsites aren't a catalog to meet models. They are to masturbate to at the comfort at your own home while they stay at comfort of theirs or a studio.

    Yes some cammodels do escort, but with the current us laws, prevents a lot to do so legally on their sites.

    What you are looking for is a unicorn. A cammodel willing to meet for free. And it's not because you have a disability. A lot of able-bodied men who want to meet cammodels for free experience the samething. Cammodels all about the money. Sure it does happen, but it's super duper rare. Majority of us already have relationships outside of cam.
     
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  6. JyJy

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    Be a cammodel is a job. Why should a camboy or a camgirl meet their customers is he/she doesn't want to?
    I suggest you to subscribe on some free sites of dating or groups on facebook made for people that want to make friends or search love (even if internet in my opinion it's not the right place)
     
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  7. THE MOLLIE MARIE

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    I work on cam specifically so that I don't have to meet people. That is a perk of the job for me personally.
     
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  8. SaffronBurke

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    Go to a convention. That's it, that's the only real option for anyone. Camsites aren't a girlfriend catalog. Yes, you'll have to have someone come with you as assistance, but conventions are more fun with company.

    Cause it's our job, we're not obligated to be nice. Side note, most guys who complain that models "aren't nice", are the same guys who expect to get things for free. Not saying that you're necessarily one of those, but take a few moments to reflect and be aware of how you're acting toward models. Are you being polite and tipping for requests? Then models who are rude to you aren't nice models, move on to someone else. Are you demanding flashes or other requests for free? That's rude, yo, please don't. Are you being a total cringe-fest and trying to use your disability to get sympathy points for freebies? Double don't, we hear "I'm in a wheelchair, can I see your boobs" on a regular basis, and we never believe it OR oblige those people.

    Then camsites aren't for you, switch to Facebook for your chatting needs. Porn is a luxury, live porn that interacts with you, doubly so.
     
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  9. justjoinedtopost

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    Hey man, you work at Giant Eagle?

    Just something to think about if you do, but they might not appreciate you dragging their corporate name through the mud posting their picture all over the place in the red light district alongside your beg routine.
     
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  10. DFT

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    For them it’s all about the money they make

    Yes, pilots train hard to offer you good service, and get paid for it. Cam models do too, but don't have the option of knocking your head against the luggage rack on a rough landing when you're being rude so they have to be more direct.
     
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  11. Phoenix4987

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    This industry is a pay to play world. Embellished with white lies and fantasies, at the end of the day, it's a job and you get (or don't get) what you pay for (or don't). If you can't afford to hangout in fantasy land, then it's probably best to stop yourself at the ticket counter before you come in.

    Also, meeting a model is done on their terms. Never is one of those terms and not one that you can change no matter how many threads you start.
     
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  12. ModeratoronCB

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    I Thailand they sell t shirts that have a fitting text!

    NO MONEY = NO HONEY !!

    God damn it's true.

    The finer the girl is , the thicker wallet you need ;).

    Cam girls do take money simpler because it their job!

    I dunno if it work for you to go to an Apple store and beg for a free IPhone X or to a Mercedes shop and beg for a free Mercedes E 350 CDI.

    If you try it there I am 110% sure you meet rude people there too.
     
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  13. Sky Wallace

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    god same lmao, i go out in public n i'm like "oh god WHY" i do not miss customer service jobs
     
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  14. Tracerhead

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    I haven't been on the forum in awhile but I see these threads are still a thing. The most important thing as a cam model viewer is to remember that at the end of the day this is a business relationship. Even if you and the model get closer than the regular viewer (talk regularly in and out of streams, etc.) that doesn't mean that they necessarily want you involved physically in their lives outside of camming. They are in it to make money and as a viewer you are in it for...well, a lot of reasons but you're there to pay for their attention. Always keep that in the back of your mind when you start having wild thoughts.

    Just thought I would throw out the perspective of a viewer. Oh, and if the OP is trolling, which I have a suspicion they might be, then that's fucked up man.
     
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  15. SpookybunzSM

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    I feel like a good way to put this into perspective for you, and I can't talk on behalf of every model; but I know I get asked to meet up with people from all around the world at least 10-20 times a shift.
    I don't do meet ups, some models do, but there's no feasible way they could meet that many people for free (travel expenses out of their own pocket) to meet up with random people.

    Like other girls have said, the lowest cost way to meet the most models is at a convention; they have them all over, maybe there's one close enough to you that you could attend.
    Or other than that, like others have said; maybe an escort is more what you're looking for (some cam on the side). But if you're trying to meet a girl that does this for work, chances are she's going to charge a fee for her time. That's just industry standard (for any industry really).
     
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  16. Mintx

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    So what you're looking for is to meet and probably fuck a super gorgeous and sexy cam model who will appreciate your hard efforts to seek her out as a fantasy fuck?

    Cam models are online, doing their job. We have all heard the "I don't make enough to pay you for your time but I want it" followed with the "All you care about is moneyyyy". Yep, I care about money when I work. Crazy.
     
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  17. Picnic

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    Most cam models aren’t interested in meeting people face to face, which is exactly why they’re working on the internet.

    Why not look into hiring an escort, or visiting a brothel instead?
     
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  18. AmberCutie

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    That costs money, tho. Cam girls are free! After all, they work on sites like ones called myFREEcams!

    /s
     
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  19. n_i_c_u

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    I know there is a sarcasm thing here, but honestly, this is the best advice for someone with little money to spend.

    To add though: To be a healthy perv on a cam site, maybe buy like 20 dollar token packages and spend when you can (more if you bombard them with pms as opposed to chat). Don't get too attached to anyone, and let the big spenders get the model to do awesome stuff. Don't spend hoping your limited amount of money will help you to meet a cam model.

    Models really do have lives outside of the cam thing. You won't meet anyone unless you have a shit ton of money (I buy lottery tickets) or drive to a convention (I could be one of those dudes I always see walking behind the models when they live cam from an expo, LOL). Even if you drive to a convention or have a shit ton of money, it will probably be a short meeting, but you would get to meet lots of models.
     
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  20. AmberCutie

    AmberCutie ACF Owner & Admin. (I don't work for CB.)
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    My reply was super sarcastic because as you said, spending mildly on cam sites won't get him a meet up with a model. :)

    I guess a better reply would be "be satisfied with online interactions if you can only spend a little bit here and there. Don't expect any special treatment and don't dream of a meetup."
     
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  21. n_i_c_u

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    Yeah, I just remember that one guy that spent his life savings and got a tattoo on his back and then wrote a bunch of songs. It can all certainly go awry with the online interactions.

    I hope this guy doesn't do that.
     
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  22. callmepete

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    I've never understood this. Spending money on camsites is a luxury. Like any luxury, if I couldn't afford it, I wouldn't be there. I like going to the concerts, too. But if I couldn't afford to then I wouldn't. It shouldn't be any different with camsites. Even if I just stood outside a stadium and happened to catch a free 'listen', maybe even a glimpse, I sure as heck wouldn't feel like the band owed me something simply for being a fan. Not when all their paying customers forked out their hard earned money to be there.
     
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  23. LowMaintenceSmokee

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    So did I just luck out and not pay any of the cam models I met without paying them to meet with them or something? Lol
    In all seriousness you’re gonna have to get a better job if you even come across a model who has the same interests to meet up with you. Good luck with that, but you’re probably looking for GF on these cam sites and that is not the place to meet one. It’s super rare to get into a romantic relationship in one. You’re better off winning the lottery than hooking up with one, but as one mode said here some do escort and one happened to get 2000 for it (I think that’s pretty high) and the guy who did it imo got ripped off but to each his own.
    Save up if you still just wanna fuck... go to Nevada and go to a brotherl there and you’ll be satisfied
     
  24. Songbird_Shelly

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    If I had a love button for SaffronBurke's post, I would've clicked it.

    There are a lot of guys on cam sites who complain about how a model is "not nice/mean" just because she...wait for it...told him no about something. Lol. Reminds me of the guy on the county bus who said to a female passenger "Why you so mean???" after she kindly refused to give him her phone number. Um...that's not mean. She's just not into you, dude...

    And even if you did spend a lot on a cam model, that still doesn't mean she owes you a meetup.

    And please do not think that having a disability and showing models your wheelchair photo means that they will be more likely to meet you out of pity. So please stop.

    Join sites like AdultFriendFinder ("Hookup, find sex, or meet someone hot now," it says), or What's Your Price if you actually do intend to pay for a date with a local woman (On WYP you are paying for a woman to go on a date with you...not to have sex with you...what happens between y'all after the date is between you and her). But don't visit cam sites with the intention of meeting cam models in person. If you're worried about your money (or lack of money for such and such), consider looking into getting yourself one (or more) of those "work whenever you want" work from home jobs from the blogs 'Real Ways To Earn Money Online' and/or 'Rat Race Rebellion'. Real Ways To Earn has an article about several ways to earn money for Christmas.
     
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  25. Sophiestique

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    Ive always hated that lol. MFC is pretty ok on that hand, but used to work an a pretty new site called freewebcams and as most of their traffic was from tinder, everyone was clueless why they have to pay, Ohhh? it says freewebcams, not free? Such a bad choice of words lol.
     
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