My gf doesn't like me working as a model

[ArturoStaza]

Hey there everyone, i have been needing to talk about this and i don't know any other models who can understand my situation
My gf and i moved together a few weeks ago after a 2 years relationship. It was just tonight that she told me (after some weird bad faces) that she doesnt feel comfortable with me being a model even thou I'm the one making the money to support our project and i have been doing that for about the same time we have been together. I'm kinda angry at the moment and honestly I don't know how to proceed. Anyone had an experience like mine?

 

[Lintilla]

What is your "project"? But she knew what you did before you moved in together, correct? If so, tell her tough titties.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Living together and graduating for the moment. Yes she knew. What do you mean by tough titties

By "tough titties," she means tough luck...too bad.

 

[melanieoncam]

Not fair to agree that it's fine then backtrack later.

 

[Deleted member 57737]

Maybe ask her what alternatives she has in mind. Without any irony of course. It might also be good to find out what exactly makes her uncomfortable and why, so you can try to work with that.

 

[AudriTwo]

Break up?

 

[rockin_rod]

Did she used to be around you while you were online, before moving in together?
Maybe she has found it uncomfortable to be home now, if she's there while you're working.

 

[robbiej]

if it’s paying bills what her alternate plan for you

 

[SerenaEverly]

I'd ask her what specifically makes her uncomfortable and go from there. If she's been okay with it for years and suddenly has a problem with it, that sounds like her problem and not yours. It might be time to re-evalute the relationship and whether or not you should stay together.

 

[IsabelaHarlow]

If she's been ok with it in the past the first thing I would ask is "What changed between then and now?" to find out what behaviour/actions that she's seen made her change her pov about the situation. After this, I'd ask what is the alternative she wants you to take, because you are the provider in the relationship, and she asks you to lose your income stream. This sounds like more of her problem than yours. Your problem is that your partner changed her mind about your line of work and that she hasn't accepted who you are...

 

[diabellaqueen]

Sorry to hear that. But maybe she wasn't okay with it in the first place, and just played along? Or maybe she wanted to overcome it and embrace your job? You both need to talk on neutral grounds.

 

[fingerblast]

I'm way late to this, but will contribute anyway.

Girl knew for 2 years, didn't care the guy was a cam boy. They move in together and now suddenly she cares.

She's trying to steal his manhood and b*tch him up. If he quits after she knew he was doing it for this long it's telling her in her mind that she will run the relationship and always get her way with other things too. She's doing in on purpose. She's 100% doing it to be the alpha in the relationship to as I said, steal his manhood and b*tch him up.

And by the looks of his absence I think she won.

If she's been ok with it in the past the first thing I would ask is "What changed between then and now?" to find out what behaviour/actions that she's seen made her change her pov about the situation.

He shouldn't even have to do that. If it's taken her 2 years to have a problem with it suddenly as the person above you said, that's her problem not his.

You want him to approach her like he's her therapist. He should be telling her, "You've known I've done this for 2 years. If it bothers you now after we finally move in together take your bags and leave". She'll change her mind fast when she realizes she's disposable and has to go back to mommy and daddy's place.

It's usually the guy who falls for a stripper, cam girl, porn star, whatever being fine with it. Then when they finally get her wants her to quit. The shoe is on the other foot here. She's no different. People fail to remember the, "You can't turn a ho into a housewife" phrase. She knew what she was getting. She just wants to run the relationship now that they made the move in together part of life.