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I’ve seen so many here lately in public giving blowjobs, fingering up close to the cam, etc.. I thought there wasn’t any nude in public? It’s discouraging when you follow the rules & work your ass off and people do it for free so no one is going to come to a room to pay for it lol
Did they change the rules or something?!
 
Topless flashes (which I get paid for) and butt cheek flashes in free chat on Streamate, most frequently lead to private and exclusive shows for me, as well as more frequent and greater tips for interactive toy play in free chat. So I'm afraid that even for my experience of a traditionally (but evolving in every direction) private-based site, the statements above by arousr are also factually incorrect.

Also in a streamate thread private actually doesn't mean one on one, private is the term streamate uses for group shows, and exclusive is the term streamate uses for one on one. Just want to clarify that too, because a lot of site vistors get very confused by that. If a member chooses the option for "private" on SM, there is a chance they will be alone with the model for short periods of time, but other Members come in and out whenever they so desire, so it's pretty much like an open group show.
 
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As I understand it the rules are not pink in public.
It drives me insane as well and I can only say the way I look at it is if they get caught they will be banned where as l am sticking to the rules which means I should be ok and I don't need to show off what they want for free I'm not cheap I'm worth them paying for.
 
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As I understand it the rules are not pink in public.
It drives me insane as well and I can only say the way I look at it is if they get caught they will be banned where as l am sticking to the rules which means I should be ok and I don't need to show off what they want for free I'm not cheap I'm worth them paying for.
Very good point!! Just annoying sitting for hours not making money bc it’s going on for free 🤷🏻‍♀️ But like you said We’re worth being paid for 😘
 
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2 years ago i was suspended 24h by Sm because ive removed my panties and all the visible parts was my but cheeks.
It was pretty unfair because it wasn't anything pink showed on cam...ive tried to talk to them but it was impossible, so, ive stayed with my suspension. If you're really that pissed off by the unfair things u see, take a pic where date and time its shown on the pic and send it to admins!
 
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2 years ago i was suspended 24h by Sm because ive removed my panties and all the visible parts was my but cheeks.
It was pretty unfair because it wasn't anything pink showed on cam...ive tried to talk to them but it was impossible, so, ive stayed with my suspension. If you're really that pissed off by the unfair things u see, take a pic where date and time its shown on the pic and send it to admins!
Butts cheeks aren’t bad at all!! It’s the full blown bjs and getting f*ck. It just takes away from people who are trying to make money but it is what it is 🤷🏻‍♀️ Are you still on SM? Or did you find a different site?
 
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Butts cheeks aren’t bad at all!! It’s the full blown bjs and getting f*ck. It just takes away from people who are trying to make money but it is what it is 🤷🏻‍♀️ Are you still on SM? Or did you find a different site?
I'm still on Sm, its the one and only for me...I've learnt my lesson not to take off panties and continued streaming!
As for my suspension, i had no one to fight with, they received a report from other models, they had to suspend me 🤯
 
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I'm still on Sm, its the one and only for me...I've learnt my lesson not to take off panties and continued streaming!
As for my suspension, i had no one to fight with, they received a report from other models, they had to suspend me 🤯
Oooh gotcha!!
 
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I gave up reporting 200 Colombian model accounts per day to Streamate.

They need to do a better job of protecting the income of their hard working models on their website by permanently banning those blatantly ignoring the rules.
 
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I've never understood the thought process that if someone else is showing something, it takes away from your earnings.
On token sites, there are thousands of girls naked at any given time. People know where they can find that.
Yep, the only thing that makes me lose money is spending my time policing other performers instead of performing!

Do you really think they are your direct competition? They clearly offer something different from what you do, and the audience they draw probably isn't looking to pay for anything at all. Do you want those viewers in your room? I get that it can be frustrating to feel like you aren't getting eyes on your room, but they aren't cutting into your traffic and earnings at the end of the day, unless you also offer super low priced/free shows? Then adjust your hustle, separate yourself. Concern yourself with the things you can make changes to.
 
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I go between getting annoyed that these types of accounts draw away potential customers, and not caring because I know that the paying customers pay me for a reason, and it isn't because they're too stupid to work out how to find this kind of stuff for free...

That's not to say I don't log into my member account and go on the odd reporting spree now and then haha. What does consistently annoy me though is Streamate's lack of support or response to ANY kind of complaint from their models.

I've had outright harassment in my messages, countless unsolicited pics and even a couple of very disturbingly photoshopped images of myself to look like I'm being raped by one member. None of my reports have solicited so much as a "thanks, we'll look into it" let alone action being taken.
 
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The only thing annoying about it is that it gives some members the wrong impression about what is and isn't allowed by the site.

They clearly offer something different from what you do, and the audience they draw probably isn't looking to pay for anything at all. Do you want those viewers in your room? I get that it can be frustrating to feel like you aren't getting eyes on your room, but they aren't cutting into your traffic and earnings at the end of the day, unless you also offer super low priced/free shows?

this is perfectly put. Ultimately it's not worth stressing over. I'll leave it to time itself to get them banned for breaking the site's rules than actively trying to speed up the process.
 
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Random thought; if you're worried about money, get on and work a shift, instead of lurking like an angry, unprofessional, obsessive weirdo.

Sorry but this is hilarious. There's been a rule change, I don't like it either, but my earnings haven't been affected in the slightest. If you're not handling this industry well, or the stress of being in an unpredictable field, there are lots of other jobs available right now 🤷‍♀️ The people who are interested in that aren't people who would have been paying you anyway. I'm so baffled as to this mentality. Creates such a hostile work environment. So unnecessary and cringe.

I've been monitoring my earnings very, VERY closely since all this drama started, and they have gone up, not down. So I can say with 100% honesty this rule change and what other models are doing has absolutely no effect on you, other than the annoying guys asking for free shit, who have always been there anyway.

Plus if you repeatedly report models from your member or model account, your IP will get identified, and you will get flagged as harassing your coworkers. Not smart.
 
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i've been ss this people, sending email to the admins and guess what? nothing happened and I keep sending them ss for like 3 years ffs -__-''
I you're really pissed off like me, send this ss to the support , at least to not be just one complaining about...maybe if they will see that are many other performers complaining maybe something could change..

i feel like everyone has complained about it at this point and streamate knows. on their discord server, it's a constant topic of models showing below-the-belt nudity. annoying? yes, especially since we are alerted to no nudity in free chat right when our stream starts, but some people choose to break the rules or ignore them. there is no excuse since streamate offers translations to their agreements/tos. if those models aren't paying attention to their business clearly, so why should you?

trust me, someone banging out their cooter or sitting there awkwardly while their so's boner just hangs out in the foreground in freechat isn't gonna prevent any of us from making money. there is an abundance of free porn on the internet as is. focus on your room and all those wangs freely hanging out won't affect you at all.
 
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Yes i think this is the reason why im nearly not making any money anymore on streamate like when i was new,and also to be a none us model makes it worst.and also most of the members are getting rude and wants all for free im done doing this i will wait till i reach my payout earnings and leave streamate sucks
Is not the same like years ago
For me i give the site a 2 and a half star rating
 
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There's been a rule change, I don't like it either, but my earnings haven't been affected in the slightest.
I just read the new terms of service and I see no rule change. Streamate is still suspending for nudity in free chat. They may not catch them all but suspension is still a risk.
 
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I just read the new terms of service and I see no rule change. Streamate is still suspending for nudity in free chat. They may not catch them all but suspension is still a risk.
Yes, I've heard different things in different places from staff, at different times. I concern myself w myself and leave it at that. Other people's rooms = not my business. I think any model in doubts should join the official discord and talk directly w Chris and Angela themselves. They have put a lot of work into it, and it's extremely helpful. Coming on here and rude posting comes off bad.

At the time this post was made, we were all told that as long as there is no pink, nudity in free chat is fine. Directly by staff. It has been repeated a lot that as long as no inner pussy lips are shown it's OK. So if things have changed again, cool. Doesn't affect me either way. What does affect me is working in an environment where angry people are policing the rooms of others, and openly berating other models, even going so far as to go into their live streams and start lecturing them about site rules. Not OK. Boundaries. Unprofessional and harassing.

ETA; I remember being new on SM and having other models come into my room with unsolicited advice and lecturing when I wasn't breaking a single rule or doing anything wrong. And had never invited them. So I feel for these girls. It creates a lot of discomforts and a somewhat harassing tone in the work environment, by people who frankly should be focusing on their own rooms.
 
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When I posted this I was brand new and wondering why my room had no one for hours so I looked… I think a lot of new people look. If you never have, cool! But I could careless who does what in their room..it is what it is. I wasn’t trying to be “rude” or anything lol
There was someone else who posted and then deleted and what they posted was super rude. That's who my first post was in response to, but I never hit reply like I thought I had.

In general, it is my pet peeve when models obsess on other models, and I like to speak up on it. I've had to listen to it for months on end, quietly, and bite my tongue. Wasn't meant specifically towards you at all. Sorry you went through a quiet spell. Forums like these are a great place to learn, happens to us all at times. Especially in Summer. This Summer seems worse than last Summer for that, from my perspective anyway. I think the newer you are to a site, the harder quiet spells hit. The longer you do this work, the less effect they seem to have (from my experience anyways).
 
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Yes, I've heard different things in different places from staff, at different times. I concern myself w myself and leave it at that. Other people's rooms = not my business. I think any model in doubts should join the official discord and talk directly w Chris and Angela themselves. They have put a lot of work into it, and it's extremely helpful. Coming on here and rude posting comes off bad.

At the time this post was made, we were all told that as long as there is no pink, nudity in free chat is fine. Directly by staff. It has been repeated a lot that as long as no inner pussy lips are shown it's OK. So if things have changed again, cool. Doesn't affect me either way. What does affect me is working in an environment where angry people are policing the rooms of others, and openly berating other models, even going so far as to go into their live streams and start lecturing them about site rules. Not OK. Boundaries. Unprofessional and harassing.

ETA; I remember being new on SM and having other models come into my room with unsolicited advice and lecturing when I wasn't breaking a single rule or doing anything wrong. And had never invited them. So I feel for these girls. It creates a lot of discomforts and a somewhat harassing tone in the work environment, by people who frankly should be focusing on their own rooms.
When I made the post I was brand new and would look at who was online I never entered rooms.. I could careless who does what in their room
There was someone else who posted and then deleted and what they posted was super rude. That's who my first post was in response to, but I never hit reply like I thought I had.

In general, it is my pet peeve when models obsess on other models, and I like to speak up on it. I've had to listen to it for months on end, quietly, and bite my tongue. Wasn't meant specifically towards you at all. Sorry you went through a quiet spell. Forums like these are a great place to learn, happens to us all at times. Especially in Summer. This Summer seems worse than last Summer for that, from my perspective anyway. I think the newer you are to a site the harder quiet spells hit.
oh gotcha! It just popped up in my email I didn’t know lol. I had no clue about anything when I started but I never obsessed.. that seems unhealthy 😖 the nude in public doesn’t even bug me anymore I think I was just a nervous wreck when I started and felt I wasn’t going to do well or something. Live and learn ❤️
 
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I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to make you think I was talking to you. I remember at the time thinking "Fuck I should have hit reply", but I was running late for a stream, and totally forgot to fix it.
When I made the post I was brand new and would look at who was online I never entered rooms.. I could careless who does what in their room

oh gotcha! It justhe nude in public doesn’t even bug me anymore I think I was just a nervous wreck when I started and felt I wasn’t going to do well or something. Live and learn ❤️
If you started in June then that was right around when I noticed traffic started getting weirder and more unpredictable, so I doubt it was anything you were doing wrong or anything. If you aren't already a member I would highly recommend the SM discord. That way if stuff like that happens, you'll be able to see what glitches are going on, and whats affecting other models. Because for all you know, it could be a glitch or a technical thing that was affecting you. I know some models are getting affecting by different stuff that's out of their control, at times, and more technical in nature.
 
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I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to make you think I was talking to you. I remember at the time thinking "Fuck I should have hit reply", but I was running late for a stream, and totally forgot to fix it.

If you started in June then that was right around when I noticed traffic started getting weirder and more unpredictable, so I doubt it was anything you were doing wrong or anything. If you aren't already a member I would highly recommend the SM discord. That way if stuff like that happens, you'll be able to see what glitches are going on, and whats affecting other models. Because for all you know, it could be a glitch or a technical thing that was affecting you. I know some models are getting affecting by different stuff that's out of their control, at times, and more technical in nature.
Awesome! I’ll check it out. I’ve definitely noticed more technical issues I can’t use my iPad/iPhone at all so that will really help knowing of issues going on. Thanks so much! 😊
 
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Awesome! I’ll check it out. I’ve definitely noticed more technical issues I can’t use my iPad/iPhone at all so that will really help knowing of issues going on. Thanks so much! 😊
I think this is the most current link/ info on joining https://streamatehelp.com/join-discord.php. You have to be logged into your model account for the link to work.

ETA; Oh yeah, almost forgot; your discord name has to match your performer name on the site too.
 
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I have to say, that as a customer, I see these naked, pussy rubbing models everywhere and can confirm what a lot of people are saying. As a customer, they are of no interest to me at all. I know that some guys are going to jack off to them but those guys were never going to pay anyway. Personally I'm always drawn in by sexy lingerie, a great smile and a willingness to engage. I can only tell you how it is from my perspective but these two types of model are not interchangeable in my mind or in terms of attracting my custom.
 
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I have to say, that as a customer, I see these naked, pussy rubbing models everywhere and can confirm what a lot of people are saying. As a customer, they are of no interest to me at all. I know that some guys are going to jack off to them but those guys were never going to pay anyway. Personally I'm always drawn in by sexy lingerie, a great smile and a willingness to engage. I can only tell you how it is from my perspective but these two types of model are not interchangeable in my mind or in terms of attracting my custom.
this is so good to know just cause i dont wanna be banned for showing pink in public! so i follow the rules and try to chat to ppl
 
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It's 100% always best to reserve all nudity for private one on one sessions when camming for a few reasons we would like to share below:

- Show Members your value/worth by asserting boundaries around your body
- Entices the viewer to make more of an effort in order to see more
- Prevents Camgirl burnout when you aren't burning your candle at both ends by being nude in public/private
- Prevents Scammers from ripping your public chat content and using it for their gains on Tube sites or eWhoring

We have a deep respect for Cam modeling because this job is far from easy. When you set healthy boundaries you can be rewarded greatly in the long run ( vs. short term) and have a pleasurable work environment while making some awesome adult friends along the way :)
 
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It's 100% always best to reserve all nudity for private one on one sessions when camming for a few reasons we would like to share below:

- Show Members your value/worth by asserting boundaries around your body
- Entices the viewer to make more of an effort in order to see more
- Prevents Camgirl burnout when you aren't burning your candle at both ends by being nude in public/private
- Prevents Scammers from ripping your public chat content and using it for their gains on Tube sites or eWhoring

We have a deep respect for Cam modeling because this job is far from easy. When you set healthy boundaries you can be rewarded greatly in the long run ( vs. short term) and have a pleasurable work environment while making some awesome adult friends along the way :)
Are you a model? Even if you were one saying things like "it's 100% always best to..." would come off as condescending and most of the time factually incorrect, since different people have different hustles, preferences, boundaries and priorities, but coming from someone who's not a model? Oof. Don't tell us how to do our job if you never tried to do it.
 
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It's 100% always best to reserve all nudity for private one on one sessions when camming for a few reasons we would like to share below:

- Show Members your value/worth by asserting boundaries around your body
- Entices the viewer to make more of an effort in order to see more
- Prevents Camgirl burnout when you aren't burning your candle at both ends by being nude in public/private
- Prevents Scammers from ripping your public chat content and using it for their gains on Tube sites or eWhoring

We have a deep respect for Cam modeling because this job is far from easy. When you set healthy boundaries you can be rewarded greatly in the long run ( vs. short term) and have a pleasurable work environment while making some awesome adult friends along the way :)

How many years of experience do you have working for streamate, and what is your model name on there?
(Information I'd like to know about you before I listen to or take anything you have to say seriously - thanks in advance).
 
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Are you a model? Even if you were one saying things like "it's 100% always best to..." would come off as condescending and most of the time factually incorrect, since different people have different hustles, preferences, boundaries and priorities, but coming from someone who's not a model? Oof. Don't tell us how to do our job if you never tried to do it.
How many years of experience do you have working for streamate, and what is your model name on there?
(Information I'd like to know about you before I listen to or take anything you have to say seriously - thanks in advance).
 
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