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OK I've had a couple of these and I'm always skeptical but I'm pretty new so wanted to hear other girls thoughts as I imagine a lot of us have had it.

The most recent one a guy wants to me my 'sugar daddy' and give me £500 a week. Amazing if it were genuine but as they say if it sounds too good to be true it usually is. He refuses to pay by tokens as doesn't want to give mfc £250 a week. He tells me he can get the ball rolling straight away if I give him my sort code and account number. I would also have to give him my real name I guess.

I mean say it is a scam what can this guy do with these details, I mean what is the motive here??

Xx
 

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He tells me he can get the ball rolling straight away if I give him my sort code and account number. I would also have to give him my real name I guess.

I mean say it is a scam what can this guy do with these details, I mean what is the motive here??
The motive is probably getting any information out of you that they can, and then using it against you (blackmail, posting the info publicly on a "revenge porn" site, stalking, etc) without actually ever sending any money or real info about themselves. Or maybe they want to feel rich and powerful, so they're trying to string you along with their lies as they jerk off...
 

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Run the opposite way, screaming. Real name and bank info is an immediate red flag, that and his not wanting to support you on MFC--the site where you make your money. That 4000 tokens a month, especially if tipped offline, would do wonders for camscore. If he doesn't want to help you by helping your position then something is iffy.
 
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Don't do that shit with someone who you don't know and hasn't been around long enough to prove they have the money and prove they're worthy of your trust.

It's not too good to be true to be looked after. There are gentlemen on mfc and on the forums who I'm sure have spoiled some girls a little bit, on and off mfc.

But you definitely need to build some kind of rapport with each other to reach that level. Not just some random dude who comes in but hasn't dropped a single token and refuses to buy them.
 
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Run the opposite way, screaming. Real name and bank info is an immediate red flag, that and his not wanting to support you on MFC--the site where you make your money. That 4000 tokens a month, especially if tipped offline, would do wonders for camscore. If he doesn't want to help you by helping your position then something is iffy.
£500 a week, ~$615 a week ~ 30,000 tokens a month. I get the part of wanting to pay the girl directly. She would definitely have a higher take home pay and he's trying to have a relationship offline and not on the cam site. Making his intentions known. But the bread and butter of it all, is if the girl is willing to take the relationship offline and in person. Because that would be the difference between a model and a sugar baby. True, could be online sugar baby. But highly doubtful he wants to drop that money and keep things online if he's already not showing (or at least lying about it to you) any interest in mfc. Anyway, long paragraph from me just to fix a number
 
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OK I've had a couple of these and I'm always skeptical but I'm pretty new so wanted to hear other girls thoughts as I imagine a lot of us have had it.

The most recent one a guy wants to me my 'sugar daddy' and give me £500 a week. Amazing if it were genuine but as they say if it sounds too good to be true it usually is. He refuses to pay by tokens as doesn't want to give mfc £250 a week. He tells me he can get the ball rolling straight away if I give him my sort code and account number. I would also have to give him my real name I guess.

I mean say it is a scam what can this guy do with these details, I mean what is the motive here??

Xx
what about paypal? all he needs is your username or email & boom the money gets sent to you and then you can transfer to your bank account. if he says no, he's probably trying to scam you.
 
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Gonna echo what everyone else is saying. The real name and bank info is no bueno. If he isn't comfortable supporting you via a more secure pay method (ie mfc) then i wouldnt take the chance.
 
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what about paypal? all he needs is your username or email & boom the money gets sent to you and then you can transfer to your bank account. if he says no, he's probably trying to scam you.
Because he could report her as a sex worker, take back any payments after he sent, and boom. her paypal account and any balance she has gets fucked. Goes along with rapport and trust etc.
 

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He tells me he can get the ball rolling straight away if I give him my sort code and account number.
Wooop Wooop scam alert right there.
 

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in for the scam alert, there are other adult-friendly payment processors he could use. I prefer keeping things direct through Streamate but I believe IndiePay is the thing I've seen people use before? DO NOT USE PAYPAL AND DO NOT GIVE HIM BANK INFO.
 
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if someone won't do what they tempt you with without a. meeting in person or b. real name/stalking/blackmail information, don't do it.
 
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DO NOT USE PAYPAL AND DO NOT GIVE HIM BANK INFO.
what info can a clever scammer get from these sources?

for instance, I have my old landlord's bank info...but I'm not a savvy criminal, I can't think how I could get his name or address from this (but I already know his name/address, so I could verify whether or not your method works).


Because he could report her as a sex worker
does that have to be illegal in the recipient's country for that to work?
 

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Paypal is very against any adult transactions, they will freeze your account and refund your balance to the person who sent you funds it's pretty common.
 

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what about paypal? all he needs is your username or email & boom the money gets sent to you and then you can transfer to your bank account. if he says no, he's probably trying to scam you.
nope paypal is not an option like others said. also you don't want to poach custies off of sites blatantly. it's against site rules to use other payment methods.
 
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what info can a clever scammer get from these sources?

for instance, I have my old landlord's bank info...but I'm not a savvy criminal, I can't think how I could get his name or address from this (but I already know his name/address, so I could verify whether or not your method works).




does that have to be illegal in the recipient's country for that to work?
reason not to use paypal is here. all you have to read to is to (i)

also you are bit naive. you don't want to give out any of your PERSONAL information unless you are filling out 2257s for trusted sites. information like that is also very valuable to legal/blackmail trolls.
 
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reason not to use paypal is here. all you have to read to is to (i)

also you are bit naive. you don't want to give out any of your PERSONAL information unless you are filling out 2257s for trusted sites. information like that is also very valuable to legal/blackmail trolls.
which is why I asked for any demonstration or explanation I can demonstrate for myself to show up such naivete. I'm open to the possibility, but to merely say 'you're naive' is no form of help or information better than 'silly sheep you believe in the moon landing?'

to me, your face is more personal information than your random email signed up random paypal account. but I'm happy for you to show me otherwise. a mysterious 'avoid paypal and never look into a mirror or the devil might find you' is the sort of thing you'd say to a five year old. a coy way to insult someone, but not a way to help people who might be reading the thread today or in the future.
 
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Thanks girls. I did assume it was a scam but wanted to hear people's thoughts and I'm glad I asked now as I get a few of these. Again thank you x
IMO, anyone who doesn't even tip a dime before they offer big plans of holidays and spoiling you is a scammer, even if they're just trying to scam you into giving them special attention that night.

someone who tips first could be some kind of long-con scammer hoping to soften you up and get your guard down, but I suspect it's a bit like the clergy, most con artists won't waste their time on anyone half-way intelligent just like predators are looking for the easy targets not the difficult ones. You make bold-face stupid claims that will immediately weed out most people who you're unlikely to butter up in the long-term anyway, and the people who're left are probably a lot more worth investing time in trying to get on the hook. quick way to avoid all the wary people and find an easy target, without spending any money (since they probably have to try it on a thousand times, it would be as costly as buying a drink for every girl whose number you want to ask for).
 

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which is why I asked for any demonstration or explanation I can demonstrate for myself to show up such naivete. I'm open to the possibility, but to merely say 'you're naive' is no form of help or information better than 'silly sheep you believe in the moon landing?'

to me, your face is more personal information than your random email signed up random paypal account. but I'm happy for you to show me otherwise. a mysterious 'avoid paypal and never look into a mirror or the devil might find you' is the sort of thing you'd say to a five year old. a coy way to insult someone, but not a way to help people who might be reading the thread today or in the future.
well you being incredibly naive and being naive isn't a negative thing. everyone is naive towards lots of things. calm your titties, mr. sensitive pants. i wasn't insulting you.

and i did help. i directed anyone in the future to the exact reason not to use PP for sexwork. it's against their terms of service. if someone tells on you, they will shut your account down and any money you had on that account will be forever gone. they also will forever black list you. if you want to be reckless with your money, sure do it.

of course once they have your bank account number, all they need is a routing number to withdraw money from your account. once you become a target, all they need to do is create a fake ID and/or forge some documents.
http://www.csoonline.com/article/21...me-ach-fraud-why-criminals-love-this-con.html
 
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reason not to use paypal is here. all you have to read to is to (i)

also you are bit naive..
actually, I'm afraid I'm so naive I need to read more than that, because I lack the background knowledge to explicate for myself which "certain" sexually oriented materials or services they don't allow out of all the sexually oriented materials or services I can think of.

the helpful info to read is not there, but here, the pertinent instance being this:
"We don’t permit PayPal account holders to buy or sell:
  • Sexually oriented digital goods or content delivered through a digital medium. Downloadable pictures or videos and website subscriptions are examples of digital goods."
 
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well you being incredibly naive and being naive isn't a negative thing. everyone is naive towards lots of things. calm your titties, mr. sensitive pants. i wasn't insulting you.
I'm perfectly calm. you needn't assume my mood Mrs grumpy britches ;)
 
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of course once they have your bank account number, all they need is a routing number to withdraw money from your account.
this is a good argument against giving your live savings account to strangers. I'd recommend not even having that account connected to a payment card of any kind.
doesn't, however, appear to be an argument against giving out a bank account at all (e.g., creating an account solely for the purposes of receiving and rerouting income). so, based on this, your earlier statement was a hasty generalization. perhaps a panicked exaggeration. maybe you should post when you're in a calmer mood instead? (see how pointless these little snipes are? I'm happy to play your drama game though as long as we both enjoy it)
 

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I pay cash - which services do u deliver
Wrong site, hon. If you want services from the girls on here, you need to pay through one of the livestream or clip sites that we use. Some girls will accept online gift cards for certain services, but not everyone will.
 
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Two things:

1. Pay close attention to anyone warning you about giving out your personal bank account information for they are being truthful;

2. It's been said that every girl wants a sugar daddy until daddy wants some of that sugar...or maybe that's just my experience. :(
 
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