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Sixela_Bunny

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I really want to incorporate SPH and other forms of humiliation, degredation, and sissification as well as general domination, into my Cam services.

The only problem is I've never done it before. And I want to. I'm just so use to being Submissive, but I do have a sadistic and Dominant side, I've just never had the opportunity to really play with it.

And so I guess I'm trying to find information on what the best ways to practice are?
My bf isn't into that so he's not an option, and I don't want to do it on Cam right from the get go because I'm afraid I won't know what to say/how to say it in an effective way to up the chances of them wanting to see me again.
 

Sixela_Bunny

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Have you thought about going through Clips4Sale, looking at a few categories you want to explore and buying a clip or two for research? There'll be loads of different genres and fetishes on there.

Thanks for the idea! Yeah I definitely will when I have some money. So in a few days just about.
 
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I had this dilemma last week and another model pointed out a good alternative (especially if you're broke like me and can't afford to buy clips from models for research)

Go to Pornhub, search what you want to find, and then scroll down and pick the "Verified Models" category. Make sure your adblock is off and click a few ads if you can when you go to a video, because most likely the model is on the payment plan and even if it's not much, you're still supporting them.

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Sixela_Bunny

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I had this dilemma last week and another model pointed out a good alternative (especially if you're broke like me and can't afford to buy clips from models for research)

Go to Pornhub, search what you want to find, and then scroll down and pick the "Verified Models" category. Make sure your adblock is off and click a few ads if you can when you go to a video, because most likely the model is on the payment plan and even if it's not much, you're still supporting them.

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Ooooh yes! Thanks this is a great idea for my broke days!
 

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Doing SPH videos is a great way to ease into it. You don't have to be doing it "right" so much as get familiar with doing it.
 

Kiki Jane

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No need to overthink something like SPH :) Giggle and have fun, it's pretty easy to go from a submissive style to a playfully humiliating one... I think the kink is more like being humiliated by a hot girly-girl than a seasoned dungeon domme. You can use small but feminine objects, like lipsticks, to make unflattering comparisons to the dude's dick.
 

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I agree there is no real wrong way to do it! Don't over think it or it will come out forced. I like to include things like, "that little dick could never make me cum" and "I need a real cock not that tiny thing" or "you better be good with your tongue" Guys who like SPH usually like hearing that the wont please you. Of course the funny part is that I hate big cocks and most of the guys that request SPH are plenty big enough to satisfy me. :)
 
Im a size queen and always have been/will be so its the easiest thing for me to talk about since I literally HATE small dicks. I say just talk naturally!! If you don't hate small penis' then think of why a girl would hate one (to small, not enough pleasure, wouldn't feel it, fast ejaculator, would cheat with a bigger dick, etc)
 

Sixela_Bunny

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Dec 21, 2016
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Anchorage, Ak
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TrinityXStone
I agree there is no real wrong way to do it! Don't over think it or it will come out forced. I like to include things like, "that little dick could never make me cum" and "I need a real cock not that tiny thing" or "you better be good with your tongue" Guys who like SPH usually like hearing that the wont please you. Of course the funny part is that I hate big cocks and most of the guys that request SPH are plenty big enough to satisfy me. :)
Ooooh thanks for the tips!
 

Sixela_Bunny

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Dec 21, 2016
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Anchorage, Ak
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@WitchHazel9
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TrinityXStone
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TrinityXStone
Im a size queen and always have been/will be so its the easiest thing for me to talk about since I literally HATE small dicks. I say just talk naturally!! If you don't hate small penis' then think of why a girl would hate one (to small, not enough pleasure, wouldn't feel it, fast ejaculator, would cheat with a bigger dick, etc)
I actually am a size queen too, but I'm so use to caring about being rude so it's just somewhat out of my usual way of treating people. But the thought of doing it is really hot. Thanks for the advice!
 
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Sixela_Bunny

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Dec 21, 2016
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Anchorage, Ak
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TrinityXStone
I agree there is no real wrong way to do it! Don't over think it or it will come out forced. I like to include things like, "that little dick could never make me cum" and "I need a real cock not that tiny thing" or "you better be good with your tongue" Guys who like SPH usually like hearing that the wont please you. Of course the funny part is that I hate big cocks and most of the guys that request SPH are plenty big enough to satisfy me. :)
Yeah I don't care for smaller penises either, but the thought of humiliating and degrading them to get them off is hot. And I live watching any cock ejaculate so Cam2Cam is a plus. Thanks for the advice!
 

Sixela_Bunny

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Dec 21, 2016
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Anchorage, Ak
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@WitchHazel9
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sadomasotrinitystone
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TrinityXStone
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TrinityXStone
No need to overthink something like SPH :) Giggle and have fun, it's pretty easy to go from a submissive style to a playfully humiliating one... I think the kink is more like being humiliated by a hot girly-girl than a seasoned dungeon domme. You can use small but feminine objects, like lipsticks, to make unflattering comparisons to the dude's dick.
I think that's the way I'll have the most fun with it. My approach is generally sweet and gentle/submissive seeming when I've tried to Dom in the past. Thanks for the advice!
 

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Indeed the best way to do SPH or any kind of domination is to be yourself and have fun with it.

I invite you to check out DommeSource as well. Tons of info about the online world of FenDom.

Best of luck!
 

MzDelilah

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I actually wrote out short scripts and practiced with a friend of mine who is in the fetish scene. He helped me a lot with constructive feedback. I don't know if you know anyone IRL you could practice with but it helped me a ton and when I did it for the first time on cam I wan't nervous or awkward. Even if you don't have someone to practice with, writing things down helped me a lot.
 

Sixela_Bunny

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Dec 21, 2016
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Anchorage, Ak
Twitter Username
@WitchHazel9
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sadomasotrinitystone
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TrinityXStone
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TrinityXStone
I actually wrote out short scripts and practiced with a friend of mine who is in the fetish scene. He helped me a lot with constructive feedback. I don't know if you know anyone IRL you could practice with but it helped me a ton and when I did it for the first time on cam I wan't nervous or awkward. Even if you don't have someone to practice with, writing things down helped me a lot.
I will definitely try this out because I'm the same with writing things down. I usually can't organize my thoughts until I've written them down and whatnot.
 
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