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TMI Alert - SO I've developed uterine prolapse over the last few months. It's so bad I cannot do ANY penetration and have about 1-1.5" worth of useable vagina. It's crazy painful and i can't sit for long periods of time. When it kicks up it's like early labor pains and there is only so much ibuprofen and MMJ can do for me at this point.

Needless to say this is hurting my camming in a MAJOR WAY! I'm offering BJ's/Titty stuff and bean flicking but the lack of vagina use is being felt in my income.

It is so far along that I am going to have to have a hysterectomy or just live with it until my uterus falls out. Tragic, yet oddly funny and ironic. I don't have insurance and there is a 4-6 week recovery period.

I am looking for a crowdfunding platform that is SW'er friendly. I know GoFundMe/Kickstarter doesn't like us and honestly I am not really familiar with crowdfunding. I also of course don't want donors having access to my personal information.

Thanks guys :)
 

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So I just had a hysterectomy in 2019. If you need to speak with anyone about recovery and how long it actually takes, my message inbox is open.❤❤❤

Personally, I switched to fetish and femdom and did all the non sexual that I could to hustle enough income for my surgery deposit, and then I harassed the hospital’s financial aid until they wrote off the entire rest of the bill. Have you spoken with your hospital’s financial advisors?? They might have some valuable information or how to help you get surgery sooner❤❤
 

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Absolutely talk to the billing folks like @Rose suggested! I got a $7,000 bill knocked down to $583, and I'm paying it off at $43/month. That's for doctors appointments, imaging, and injections that my half-assed insurance didn't cover, and if I were to have surgery, they'd waive a similar percentage of the cost. I thought I made too much to get financial aid, but I was wrong - I was making $17/hr at an office job when I received this discount, and their maximum to receive assistance is well over that, with the discount scaling to income.
 
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Have you looked to see if there is a Teaching Hospitals in your area?
They tend to offer more free and discounted medical care than a normal hospital.
I've seen surgeries that are hundred thousand of dollars performed for under a thousand.
The catch is the care provided often includes medical students, and surgical residents.
They'll want to see your bank statement, pay stubs to assess your ability to pay.
 

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Have you looked to see if there is a Teaching Hospitals in your area?
They tend to offer more free and discounted medical care than a normal hospital.
I've seen surgeries that are hundred thousand of dollars performed for under a thousand.
The catch is the care provided often includes medical students, and surgical residents.
They'll want to see your bank statement, pay stubs to assess your ability to pay.
Eh, teaching hospitals can be lethal or cause long term sexual disfunction in these types of cases. I would strongly, strongly, strongly urge her to seek a specialist- as someone who has just had a second major gynecological surgery in the same year, both done by specialists. This is not something to risk having further issues and complications if done incorrectly it could cost her job, happiness, long term sexual satisfaction.....
 
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TMI Alert - SO I've developed uterine prolapse over the last few months. It's so bad I cannot do ANY penetration and have about 1-1.5" worth of useable vagina. It's crazy painful and i can't sit for long periods of time. When it kicks up it's like early labor pains and there is only so much ibuprofen and MMJ can do for me at this point.

Needless to say this is hurting my camming in a MAJOR WAY! I'm offering BJ's/Titty stuff and bean flicking but the lack of vagina use is being felt in my income.

It is so far along that I am going to have to have a hysterectomy or just live with it until my uterus falls out. Tragic, yet oddly funny and ironic. I don't have insurance and there is a 4-6 week recovery period.

I am looking for a crowdfunding platform that is SW'er friendly. I know GoFundMe/Kickstarter doesn't like us and honestly I am not really familiar with crowdfunding. I also of course don't want donors having access to my personal information.

Thanks guys :)
You have my thoughts with you! I'm so sorry.

--- Firstly, is there no possibility for you to get insured?
--- Secondly, during your shows, is it possible to appeal to your audience and request them to donate ? Your regulars will, I'm sure, rise to the occassion. You can do your crowdfunding on your platform itself.
--- Thirdly, can you feign penetration? So, for example, sit at an angle so that it looks like your finger is penetrating but in actuality, your finger(s) is just curled up under your hand. I find this works excellently for me during my period and nobody can spot that I'm not actually doing any penetration.

Please keep us updated about your situation!
Sending you loads of hugs xx
Indy
 
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So I just had a hysterectomy in 2019. If you need to speak with anyone about recovery and how long it actually takes, my message inbox is open.❤❤❤

Personally, I switched to fetish and femdom and did all the non sexual that I could to hustle enough income for my surgery deposit, and then I harassed the hospital’s financial aid until they wrote off the entire rest of the bill. Have you spoken with your hospital’s financial advisors?? They might have some valuable information or how to help you get surgery sooner❤❤
Thank you so much for your response :) I will look into getting some help with this I didn't think I would be eligible because I make more than someone that would qualify for assistance yet not enough to handle my bills with such a large added expense. Although it does never hurt to ask.... :)
 
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You have my thoughts with you! I'm so sorry.

--- Firstly, is there no possibility for you to get insured?
--- Secondly, during your shows, is it possible to appeal to your audience and request them to donate ? Your regulars will, I'm sure, rise to the occassion. You can do your crowdfunding on your platform itself.
--- Thirdly, can you feign penetration? So, for example, sit at an angle so that it looks like your finger is penetrating but in actuality, your finger(s) is just curled up under your hand. I find this works excellently for me during my period and nobody can spot that I'm not actually doing any penetration.

Please keep us updated about your situation!
Sending you loads of hugs xx
Indy
Unfortunately I am in America, and our healthcare system is a disaster - it's almost cheaper to self pay. When I do self pay i get a 50% discount on what the providers charge for insurance....When I had insurance previously it didn't really cover much anyway so I'll still get slammed with a huge expense...that's why I stopped carrying health insurance....

I have tried the second thing and luckily I have a few guys that do what they can to help but they don't have deep pockets and are cool as fuck so I love them to pieces but they can only help so much...but the good majority of them disappear if there is no penetration and I am asking them for help with something that doesn't benefit them....

I will have to try faking it in some way. Not sure how to fake a dildo, collapsible dildo? Guess what my next Google search is HAHA!
 
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Unfortunately I am in America, and our healthcare system is a disaster - it's almost cheaper to self pay. When I do self pay i get a 50% discount on what the providers charge for insurance....When I had insurance previously it didn't really cover much anyway so I'll still get slammed with a huge expense...that's why I stopped carrying health insurance....
Alright. I don't know how the system works in America. In Germany, for example, as someone who is self employed, the insurance company gets paid based on the amount I earn. If at the end of the year, I earn more/less than estimated, they either charge a higher fee or reimburse some money. Is there something like this available in America? Maybe a private health insurance? Or even European one that works in the States?

I have tried the second thing and luckily I have a few guys that do what they can to help but they don't have deep pockets and are cool as fuck so I love them to pieces but they can only help so much...but the good majority of them disappear if there is no penetration and I am asking them for help with something that doesn't benefit them....
I hear what you're saying. Maybe a change of approach? Take a look at this crowdfunding site for ideas http://indiegogo.com/ Although there's a seriousness to it, try to make it fun. For example, if they donate x dollars, you send them a thank you card. If they donate y dollars, something else. You see what I'm saying? Also, maybe mentioning it in passing a couple times during your shows like an advertisement

I will have to try faking it in some way. Not sure how to fake a dildo, collapsible dildo? Guess what my next Google search is HAHA!
Definitely! I've done it with a dildo too. If I sit down with my legs spread and the laptop facing me, the dildo is pointed straight at the camera, yes? So the viewer can't judge how much of the dildo's gone in, can they? As long as the dildo is poised for entry but doesn't actually enter, it works fine - and make the faces and noises and thrust your hips back and forth. Oh and make rather a performance of putting it in and pulling it out. You should be just fine. The guy's too busy jerking off/typing to notice these tiny details. Maybe it helps that my camera isn't HD though, lol

Again, same with anal. I'm not a fan of anal penetration at all but I've feigned with a dildo. Poised at the entrance and you sort of feign thrusting so that your butt cheeks create those lovely ripples and if the guy says, 'deeper' you say 'it's too big/can't take anymore" and there's your answer.
 
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Alright. I don't know how the system works in America. In Germany, for example, as someone who is self employed, the insurance company gets paid based on the amount I earn. If at the end of the year, I earn more/less than estimated, they either charge a higher fee or reimburse some money. Is there something like this available in America? Maybe a private health insurance? Or even European one that works in the States?

I hear what you're saying. Maybe a change of approach? Take a look at this crowdfunding site for ideas http://indiegogo.com/ Although there's a seriousness to it, try to make it fun. For example, if they donate x dollars, you send them a thank you card. If they donate y dollars, something else. You see what I'm saying? Also, maybe mentioning it in passing a couple times during your shows like an advertisement

Definitely! I've done it with a dildo too. If I sit down with my legs spread and the laptop facing me, the dildo is pointed straight at the camera, yes? So the viewer can't judge how much of the dildo's gone in, can they? As long as the dildo is poised for entry but doesn't actually enter, it works fine - and make the faces and noises and thrust your hips back and forth. Oh and make rather a performance of putting it in and pulling it out. You should be just fine. The guy's too busy jerking off/typing to notice these tiny details. Maybe it helps that my camera isn't HD though, lol

Again, same with anal. I'm not a fan of anal penetration at all but I've feigned with a dildo. Poised at the entrance and you sort of feign thrusting so that your butt cheeks create those lovely ripples and if the guy says, 'deeper' you say 'it's too big/can't take anymore" and there's your answer.
OMG I typed up a really long response and poof - it is gone ugh LOL
I'll respond again later :) Thank you for that BTW! I was watching femdom vids on Pornhub all morning too - may have to switch my niche up a bit :)
 

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I am not sure if it is the same on private sites, but on tokensites I have found most guys aren't really fixated on one particular action... they tend to watch because they are attracted to something about me and it can be different for every person, I guess, but the bottom line is, sometimes you think you NEED to do something or tank... but if you drop that action it turns out you are just fine anyway. This is why many models manage to do that transition from hardcore to non-nude... sure, some members leave, but many do stay and you find a new crowd too. I would give it a shot if I was you
 

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Look up the financial policies at the hospital you wanted to get treated at specifically. Typically if you make within 200% of the federal poverty level for your household, they'll discount the services 50-100%. If it's under 400% of the federal poverty level, you'll get some sort of discount. You don't have to suffer. As long as you go on a payment plan after the expense and communicate with them, they can't ding your credit score or start collections. Also its open enrollment in November/December. Can always get insurance at that time and start the process of selecting an in network doctor at that time so you are covered by January 1.
 

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FETISH 🤗

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Your vagina, wallets, and health will thank you immensely. Start exploring the world of filming non-nude fetish and femdom. Your passive income will rise and it will make your eventual recovery period easier when your income can fall back on videos you filmed months and months ahead of time.❤❤❤
100%. Stupid endo.
I am not sure if it is the same on private sites, but on tokensites I have found most guys aren't really fixated on one particular action... they tend to watch because they are attracted to something about me and it can be different for every person, I guess, but the bottom line is, sometimes you think you NEED to do something or tank... but if you drop that action it turns out you are just fine anyway. This is why many models manage to do that transition from hardcore to non-nude... sure, some members leave, but many do stay and you find a new crowd too. I would give it a shot if I was you
I up and quit explicit shows on Streamate several years ago with no notice. I was already getting a lot of tease and fetish shows, which eased the transition. I didn't see a big impact in my income because I had plenty of new customers thanks to my updated bio, tags, etc. Some of the guys who visited me for explicit shows left, but others were fine switching to slow striptease or dancing shows instead.
 

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TMI Alert - SO I've developed uterine prolapse over the last few months. It's so bad I cannot do ANY penetration and have about 1-1.5" worth of useable vagina. It's crazy painful and i can't sit for long periods of time. When it kicks up it's like early labor pains and there is only so much ibuprofen and MMJ can do for me at this point.

Needless to say this is hurting my camming in a MAJOR WAY! I'm offering BJ's/Titty stuff and bean flicking but the lack of vagina use is being felt in my income.

It is so far along that I am going to have to have a hysterectomy or just live with it until my uterus falls out. Tragic, yet oddly funny and ironic. I don't have insurance and there is a 4-6 week recovery period.

I am looking for a crowdfunding platform that is SW'er friendly. I know GoFundMe/Kickstarter doesn't like us and honestly I am not really familiar with crowdfunding. I also of course don't want donors having access to my personal information.

Thanks guys :)
Sorry to hear that you are going through this.

I have a really severe issue in my hip joint, and recently changed to doing primarily non dildo penetration shows on SM. Once in a while I will use a dildo, but for the most part, I have to avoid it, until I get adequate treatment (possibly surgery). None of my regs have dropped me for that, bar one (and he wasn't even a high paying, high-frequency reg, so no biggie). I try to explain it before the show, or via message, to the guys I see a lot (just so they have a chance to bail if that's not their thing, or a hard sticking point for them). I am no less busy (when I'm on), and everyone has been total sweethearts about it.

ETA; One of the models who I follow had a gofundme . She raised quite a bit, and never had any issues with them. She is Australia tho, and location may make a difference, I'm not sure.

Also, not sure if you are in a country which has aleve, but my doctor recently turned me on to that stuff. It lasts 12 hours, and is more convenient than ibuprofen. However, it takes longer than the 20-30 mins of ibuprofen to kick in, but not too much longer. I also double up with Tylenol on super bad days. It helps too. Supposedly high cbd pot is better for pain, but it makes me really sleepy (and is more expensive). It's legal where I'm at, so I feel comfy talking about it openly.
 
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Your vagina, wallets, and health will thank you immensely. Start exploring the world of filming non-nude fetish and femdom. Your passive income will rise and it will make your eventual recovery period easier when your income can fall back on videos you filmed months and months ahead of time.❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this. I never really got into the femdom fetish mainly because I was lazy and didn't really understand it to be quite honest. It was more the latter than the former. I've done some research because I want to understand the psychology of it and I'm excited to try something new - I get a lot of requests for this too, but just was unsure about what these guys needed from me....now I am figuring it out :) Thank you!

My vagina has definitely had enough of this shit and tbh my body is starting to change which is making me a bit self conscious so I would love to not be fully nude all of the time :)

Thank you again Rose :)
 
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I am not sure if it is the same on private sites, but on tokensites I have found most guys aren't really fixated on one particular action... they tend to watch because they are attracted to something about me and it can be different for every person, I guess, but the bottom line is, sometimes you think you NEED to do something or tank... but if you drop that action it turns out you are just fine anyway. This is why many models manage to do that transition from hardcore to non-nude... sure, some members leave, but many do stay and you find a new crowd too. I would give it a shot if I was you
Thank you Mila - I have been actually having some success with my change in hustle. I'm feeling the pain a little financially because I am losing some long term regulars that just need to see the penetration to get off (I fully understand so I'm not mad). A lot of them have wished me well and do still stop in to say hi, check in with me or tip here and there to show support. I'm actually excited about this change now as TBH aside from the obvious issue at hand my vagina has really had enough of all of this abuse. LOL

I'm also setting up YouTube and Twitch on the side for more vanilla content, but that takes a lot of time to build into monetization so I'm doing both for now. It's a nice distraction and I am thoroughly enjoying myself!
 
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100%. Stupid endo.

I up and quit explicit shows on Streamate several years ago with no notice. I was already getting a lot of tease and fetish shows, which eased the transition. I didn't see a big impact in my income because I had plenty of new customers thanks to my updated bio, tags, etc. Some of the guys who visited me for explicit shows left, but others were fine switching to slow striptease or dancing shows instead.
I've started a similar transition and tbh I was terrified I was going to crash and burn and it seems to be actually working out for me okay! I'm finding when I tell the guys no penetration and it's mainly teasing they are super respectful and seem to actually hang out a bit longer and not be as annoying as the "I need penetration" guys :)
 

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Thank you Mila - I have been actually having some success with my change in hustle. I'm feeling the pain a little financially because I am losing some long term regulars that just need to see the penetration to get off (I fully understand so I'm not mad). A lot of them have wished me well and do still stop in to say hi, check in with me or tip here and there to show support. I'm actually excited about this change now as TBH aside from the obvious issue at hand my vagina has really had enough of all of this abuse. LOL

I'm also setting up YouTube and Twitch on the side for more vanilla content, but that takes a lot of time to build into monetization so I'm doing both for now. It's a nice distraction and I am thoroughly enjoying myself!
Thats smart! It will be a transitional period for a while and there will be some adjustments, but once things settle you will find you make the same as before... it's good you are looking at other revenue streams too, but don't spread yourself too thin, you want to also keep some time and energy to make the adjustments into your new camming style. All in all, I think it's much less taxing to cam without penetration so I hope it goes so well you never have to go back to penetration unless you want to.
 
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Look up the financial policies at the hospital you wanted to get treated at specifically. Typically if you make within 200% of the federal poverty level for your household, they'll discount the services 50-100%. If it's under 400% of the federal poverty level, you'll get some sort of discount. You don't have to suffer. As long as you go on a payment plan after the expense and communicate with them, they can't ding your credit score or start collections. Also its open enrollment in November/December. Can always get insurance at that time and start the process of selecting an in network doctor at that time so you are covered by January 1.
Thank you for this information Jessica! I had no idea how that worked - thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!!!!

I was talking to my husband about just riding it out until open enrollment and seeing what the marketplace has to offer. I will contact the hospital as well to see what they have to offer. It's like shopping for a car only worse HAHA! Like, "Hello, I need my uterus removed - what's the damage?" Never imagined I would be shopping around for something like this - I'm amused.
 
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What about the lovense ambi toy? It's just a clitoral stim toy. I don't have it personally but at least you don't have to insert.
I JUST saw this (I'm so glad I scrolled back up!)

I will look into the Ambi for sure. I've been kind of stuck on the Lush and Domi lately and haven't really tried any of their other toys.
 
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I've started a similar transition and tbh I was terrified I was going to crash and burn and it seems to be actually working out for me okay! I'm finding when I tell the guys no penetration and it's mainly teasing they are super respectful and seem to actually hang out a bit longer and not be as annoying as the "I need penetration" guys :)
I noticed that change as well - penetration fans tended to be a lot of two-minute-men as a handful of them being quite rude, whereas my tease/fetish/femdom clients are more respectful and stay longer.
 
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This!

I started out as a totally nude and explicit model, because I thought that’s what I had to do in order to make money. I cut back on penetration after awhile and focused more on teasing and chatting/goofing around with my room and started doing better, with not really any complaints about the lack of penetration. Finally switched to non-explicit, partially nude (I don’t show the vageen at all anymore), fetish/femdom content making and it was hands down the best decision I’ve made in the three years I’ve been in this industry. I don’t really get any complaints about only doing top nudity, let alone about not doing penetration. It’s totally possible to do well without it! Just experiment until you find what works best for you and what niche you fit well.

As far as crowdfunding, there’s the “fund me” option on ManyVids and if you’re on MFC you can create a goal on Share. Unfortunately, from what I’ve seen, most guys who are not hardcore regulars that you have a tight relationship with won’t be super inclined to donate or tip towards a personal goal unless there’s some sort of incentive in it for them. That’s when content comes super in handy. Videos, pictures, fan signs, panties, there’s a lot you can offer to make people more inclined to contribute.
 
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This!

I started out as a totally nude and explicit model, because I thought that’s what I had to do in order to make money. I cut back on penetration after awhile and focused more on teasing and chatting/goofing around with my room and started doing better, with not really any complaints about the lack of penetration. Finally switched to non-explicit, partially nude (I don’t show the vageen at all anymore), fetish/femdom content making and it was hands down the best decision I’ve made in the three years I’ve been in this industry. I don’t really get any complaints about only doing top nudity, let alone about not doing penetration. It’s totally possible to do well without it! Just experiment until you find what works best for you and what niche you fit well.

As far as crowdfunding, there’s the “fund me” option on ManyVids and if you’re on MFC you can create a goal on Share. Unfortunately, from what I’ve seen, most guys who are not hardcore regulars that you have a tight relationship with won’t be super inclined to donate or tip towards a personal goal unless there’s some sort of incentive in it for them. That’s when content comes super in handy. Videos, pictures, fan signs, panties, there’s a lot you can offer to make people more inclined to contribute.
Thank you Marceline!

Just to hear so many of you have made the transition and that it was a GOOD thing is really helping me to stop flipping the fuck out and regain my confidence! I can't thank you guys enough for the support you have given me on here :)

TY for the tip on MFC Share - I haven't had much success camming there but I can link to it - I set up the MV Fund Me page but it isn't very customizable.... I'll add some incentives/bonuses for sure :)

Again, thank you all so much :)
 

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http://clips4sale.com/studio/54271/Rose-Black_s-Fetish-Store
Honestly, you have less to worry about making money than you do for healing. Focus on the health and the wealth will follow you.❤❤❤

Staying in bed and abstaining during that recovery period was wayyyyyyy harder than preparing for surgery itself.🙈
 

JessicaXOXOXO

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Jan 6, 2019
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GFEdynamic
Thank you for this information Jessica! I had no idea how that worked - thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!!!!

I was talking to my husband about just riding it out until open enrollment and seeing what the marketplace has to offer. I will contact the hospital as well to see what they have to offer. It's like shopping for a car only worse HAHA! Like, "Hello, I need my uterus removed - what's the damage?" Never imagined I would be shopping around for something like this - I'm amused.
No problem. I've had cancer twice and some how I always have a lot of medical bills. I've realized how much negotiating power cash has :)
 
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I've started a similar transition and tbh I was terrified I was going to crash and burn and it seems to be actually working out for me okay! I'm finding when I tell the guys no penetration and it's mainly teasing they are super respectful and seem to actually hang out a bit longer and not be as annoying as the "I need penetration" guys :)
TBH, I love a good tease far more than I do an explicit only show. IMO, it's more about the seduction of the mind than it is just simply getting off quickly. Most models can tease. But, it's very rare to find those who can do it exceptionally well. At least to my liking.

Sorry to hear you're going through this, and wish you all the best of luck. I second the comments about talking to the financial aid and seeing what they can do for you. Same with bringing it up with your regulars. Some can be very willing to help. I don't recall if you're on CB, MFC or something else. With MFC, there's goals you can put up on MFCShare that members can contribute to. Kind of a crowdfunding of sorts if you look at it that way.
 
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I needed to pop in here and thank all of you that responded with such kind words and reassured/inspired me to keep going. The first few weeks were hard, with the change of routine and the style of my shows but a month in - not doing penetration hasn't really hurt me that much - it has actually HELPED! My money is about the same and my body/vagina are nowhere near as grumpy as they used to be!! AND my sex life has improved tenfold! (No penetration of course but when the previously short sessions (my issue not his) turn into 4 hours of me being able to feel my vagina again I consider that a WIN!) Sorry if TMI but I am SO HAPPY!

Sometimes the things you think will be bad for you are a blessing in disguise! Even after my surgery I will not do penetration on cam anymore and will save my lady parts for my husband to enjoy!

Thank YOU! :h: