Taking a model on a vacation

[Nick1218]

Hi
I am a dedicated mod of a model and stay with her 25 hours a week for no gain at all. I multi task my job and work around her schedule as my job has flex hours. I just love this mod. But I have no notions of any kind of real world relationship. There are several factors which would make that impossible and I am fine with that, as I am sure she is. One of the several reasons is a huge age gap. And she has seen me in video chat, she is well aware of who I am.

Nevertheless she treats me really well, is extremely kind and friendly to me and very flirty. She doesnt even need a mod.

Lately she has been mentioning how badly she wants to travel and has never seen the ocean. I live near the ocean, but 6000 miles away. I said one day she should visit me and Ill buy her the plane ticket and she can stay with me, I have a spare room. I would never suggest she would owe me anything for coming. Of course Id jump at any chance, but I would be mentally prepared for nothing to happen. Trouble is she is in Russia and getting a Visa is extremely hard right now. So she asked about a neutral site and the Bahamas and Jamaica are places she can go. I am not wealthy, I am no sugar daddy but I can take two years of my personal travel amount in my budget and just do this instead.

I am about to spring the offer on her. Is there anything I should consider first? Anything to be careful about?

 

[Vixxen81]

Yeah not doing this. First, I don't know what site she's on but every single site has a "No meet up/no in person" policy so the line never crosses into escort/prostitution territory. If someone reported your comments or the chat AI picks up on the conversation, congratulations she's lost her job. And no it does not matter what your intentions are.

She doesn't want to meet you. Russia's coast line is 53% of the Arctic Ocean including 4 different seas.

 

[Nick1218]

Yeah not doing this. First, I don't know what site she's on but every single site has a "No meet up/no in person" policy so the line never crosses into escort/prostitution territory. If someone reported your comments or the chat AI picks up on the conversation, congratulations she's lost her job. And no it does not matter what your intentions are.

She doesn't want to meet you. Russia's coast line is 53% of the Arctic Ocean including 4 different seas.

Thanks Vixxen. Im not talking to her on the site. I dont think she wants to lounge on the arctic ocean. I know where she lives. I know a lot about her and she knows a lot about me.

 

[rockin_rod]

Bad idea. If she hinted at travel, it's probably in the hope that you will offer to fund it for her, not join you for a shared experience.

ETA: another huge consideration is how you would communicate. I'd bet that you use a translator app when you write to each other, but how weird would it be to have to rely on that method when in each other's company?

Further edit: damn it, I just replied in A-a-M....... sorry. See signature

 

[Nick1218]

Bad idea. If she hinted at travel, it's probably in the hope that you will offer to fund it for her, not join you for a shared experience.

I am funding it. I say so in my post. I am cool with that.

 

[AmberCutie]

I am funding it. I say so in my post. I am cool with that.

Funding it... for her to go on by herself or with a friend of her own

 

[Nick1218]

Funding it... for her to go on by herself or with a friend of her own

her and me, together, just us

 

[AmberCutie]

her and me, together, just us

If I was hinting at a big spender in my room, or at least a member that I'd gotten very friendly with that I assumed had the means... if I mentioned wishing I could go on a vacation, I'd be hinting at the fact I want that member to tip HUGELY in my room so I can take a break -or- that I want them to gift me a buncha money that I could spend on a vacation... by myself or with a friend of my own.

 

[Vixxen81]

If I was hinting at a big spender in my room, or at least a member that I'd gotten very friendly with that I assumed had the means... if I mentioned wishing I could go on a vacation, I'd be hinting at the fact I want that member to tip HUGELY in my room so I can take a break -or- that I want them to gift me a buncha money that I could spend on a vacation... by myself or with a friend of my own.

Exactly right.

Convo would go like this:

"Okay so I just bought my ticket for the 9th of November and I booked a room at [X] hotel. Here's the room number, 3042." The hint in this lie is you don't get a room number until you check in to the hotel. And quadruple the fun that a hotel will not tell you which room a guest is in, you have to know the room number.

Reality: I booked that shit a week from now and I'm peacing out to the beach and when I come back I'm lying to your face about where I was. My grandmother died (22 years ago).

 

[AmberCutie]

Convo would go like this:

"Okay so I just bought my ticket for the 9th of November and I booked a room at [X] hotel. Here's the room number, 3042."

Mine would be more like

"There's supposed to be such sweet weather coming up in the Bahammas in a few weeks. I'm so burned out from putting in so much time and making so much content lately, I'd just die to be able to go spend a few days there and get some tanlines."

[interpretation: "you know how hard I have busted ass lately and I know you've enjoyed all the time I've spent online/all my new content, maybe you could drop a huge $$ and allow me that time off... and hey you love tanlines and you know I will shoot a few pics and clips while I'm there even though it's vacation"]


and I would not even dare tease with an exact location, especially not a room number

 

[Vixxen81]

Mine would be more like

"There's supposed to be such sweet weather coming up in the Bahammas in a few weeks. I'm so burned out from putting in so much time and making so much content lately, I'd just die to be able to go spend a few days there and get some tanlines."

[interpretation: "you know how hard I have busted ass lately and I know you've enjoyed all the time I've spent online/all my new content, maybe you could drop a huge $$ and allow me that time off... and hey you love tanlines and you know I will shoot a few pics and clips while I'm there even though it's vacation"]


and I would not even dare tease with an exact location, especially not a room number

I love you.

 

[Nick1218]

If I was hinting at a big spender in my room, or at least a member that I'd gotten very friendly with that I assumed had the means... if I mentioned wishing I could go on a vacation, I'd be hinting at the fact I want that member to tip HUGELY in my room so I can take a break -or- that I want them to gift me a buncha money that I could spend on a vacation... by myself or with a friend of my own.

that isnt whats happening Amber, not even close. But Ill be on the alert, thanks.

 

[Lilly_____]

that isnt whats happening Amber, not even close. But Ill be on the alert, thanks.

Your model friend is telling you that she is tired and needs sone rest. She's not telling you she needs some rest with you. If you care about her resting, pay for her to rest, but don't use this as an opportunity to have her at your house. It wouldn't be restful for her to do so anyway.

 

[Nick1218]

Your model friend is telling you that she is tired and needs sone rest. She's not telling you she needs some rest with you. If you care about her resting, pay for her to rest, but don't use this as an opportunity to have her at your house. It wouldn't be restful for her to do so anyway.

do the people posting here actually read the posts to which they are replying? Your reply suggests you did not. But thanks for your comment

 

[Vixxen81]

I couldn't tell an OF sub that the picture he was looking at was me about to meet my in laws for the very first time.

 

[rockin_rod]

do the people posting here actually read the posts to which they are replying?

Yes. In short:
Age gap.
Different countries.
Language barrier.
You say that you dedicate your time for no gain.
She treats you well and is flirty (wow, treating a tipper well and flirting? on a cam site?)
She wants to travel.
You're willing to invest 2 year's worth of your own travel budget to get her to come stay with you.
You have no expectations.

Hmm. Gotta see how this looks from the flip side. Surely?

 

[Vixxen81]

I planned an entire motorcycle trip for a guy from Australia in America and had the receipts to show he was here and he NEVER once asked me to meet up with him.

 

[AmberCutie]

that isnt whats happening Amber, not even close. But Ill be on the alert, thanks.

You're welcome, that's what we are here for: to bring a dose of reality to those who might need to hear it.

 

[Lilly_____]

do the people posting here actually read the posts to which they are replying? Your reply suggests you did not. But thanks for your comment

I actually went back to re-read and made sure I got it right.

But I'll change it to what you came here for, and what you want to hear, and what you're going to do anyway:

Take her on a trip, it's gonna be lovely. She's obviously in love since she flirts so much. You're both gonna have a great time.

 

[AmberCutie]

do the people posting here actually read the posts to which they are replying? Your reply suggests you did not. But thanks for your comment

We read it, and hundreds of others of very similar mindset since this forum was founded in early 2010.

Speaking of which: no I will not delete the thread, it will add to the collection of threads to point newcomers to when they think their "favorite model" or "model friend" might want to get together (sexual or not) or may want something more than an online-only financial relationship.

 

[mira_leo]

Do it. Prove us all wrong.

 

[misterical]

do the people posting here actually read the posts to which they are replying? Your reply suggests you did not. But thanks for your comment

Did you read the post you were posting? Come on man, do you really think this Russian model wants to go on vacation with a much older guy from halfway across the world who she met on a camsite? At best, she is hinting at you to pay for her and her boyfriend (yes she will likely have one even if she's told you she's single) to go for a break somewhere or maybe she's just venting and doesn't want you to do anything.

Dude, it's time to unscrew your loved up head, go into the closet, retrieve your sensible head and screw that on instead.

The cam world is a fantasy. Yes you can be friends. Yes you can even love each other (in the sense of caring for one another, not romantic love). However, if this situation would seem too good to be true in the non-cam world then stop and take a moment to think how it translates into a world where people are paid money to act like they love you and want to be with you.

There is a world of pain and hurt waiting for you here, both emotional and financial.

 

[misterical]

To be honest, are you sure you are just not struggling to differentiate between cheeky banter and reality. I visit the same model all the time and we both periodically joke that we'd rather be sitting on a beach. Sometimes we even go as far as specifying what beach and I'll joke about bringing her cocktails from the bar. It doesn't mean she wants me to pay for her to go there and be kept captive in my underground weirdo lair.

 

[Maxi]

I think it’s a great idea. You should send her the money immediately.

 

[AudriTwo]

I really doubt you spend 25 hours a week with nothing to gain while trying to score a vacation with her.

Obviously you are trying to gain her affection and attention.

 

[NotYou]

do the people posting here actually read the posts to which they are replying? Your reply suggests you did not. But thanks for your comment

I think the better question is: have YOU read your own post?
The fact we have all read it and come to the exact same conclusion as one another early shows either we DO understand, or you have written and explained it completely wrong for us to understand.
I for one, read your whole post before I read any other comments and I formed my own opinion and understanding based on what YOU wrote. That conclusion was pretty much the exact same as everyone else has already stated. Maybe you need to go re-read your own post for us.

 

[misterical]

I really doubt you spend 25 hours a week with nothing to gain while trying to score a vacation with her.

Obviously you are trying to gain her affection and attention.

I'm lucky if I put in 25 hours of diligent effort into the job I get paid actual money to do.

 

[darcyduke]

Your model friend is telling you that she is tired and needs sone rest. She's not telling you she needs some rest with you. If you care about her resting, pay for her to rest, but don't use this as an opportunity to have her at your house. It wouldn't be restful for her to do so anyway.

This. So much!

 

[misterical]

Hi
I am a dedicated mod of a model and stay with her 25 hours a week for no gain at all. I multi task my job and work around her schedule as my job has flex hours. I just love this mod. But I have no notions of any kind of real world relationship. There are several factors which would make that impossible and I am fine with that, as I am sure she is. One of the several reasons is a huge age gap. And she has seen me in video chat, she is well aware of who I am.

Nevertheless she treats me really well, is extremely kind and friendly to me and very flirty. She doesnt even need a mod.

Lately she has been mentioning how badly she wants to travel and has never seen the ocean. I live near the ocean, but 6000 miles away. I said one day she should visit me and Ill buy her the plane ticket and she can stay with me, I have a spare room. I would never suggest she would owe me anything for coming. Of course Id jump at any chance, but I would be mentally prepared for nothing to happen. Trouble is she is in Russia and getting a Visa is extremely hard right now. So she asked about a neutral site and the Bahamas and Jamaica are places she can go. I am not wealthy, I am no sugar daddy but I can take two years of my personal travel amount in my budget and just do this instead.

I am about to spring the offer on her. Is there anything I should consider first? Anything to be careful about?

Maybe you should do it and see if you can get a TV crew to film it. It would be the most cringworthy, awkward TV since Mike and Ximena on 90 Day.

 

[Danigirl]

Wait, how many monitors do you have OP