I haven't seen my mother in 3.5 years, due to me moving out of the country. I will be coming back to the states to live with her until I find a place. I want to tell her what I do so there are no awkward moments later. The question is how? My mother is kind of the judgmental type and I want this to go as smoothly as possible. Any suggestions? At this point I honestly have no idea how to even approach it.