The biggest lie - camgirl be single

[BrandonHeat]

Hi there,

iam new here.

Iam in a REAL relation with a girl which works on MFC with Camscore above 7.000. Iam not a costumer of any cam site and never was.
She earns well, around 500-1000 dollar the day. (even if i spoof my ip - living in russia).

She works in a studio not at home. Anyway, my question:

Why 80% of camgirls lie about ther status? Why u do, if u do?

My GF say she lie about this, cause its not her buisness and she can earn more, becaus alot of fanboys fall in love with her and she make them feel like they will meet and such. Alot of people just come because they guess they mean alot for the camgirl.

But hey, lets be honest, my gf and her friends who work there too laugh about ther costumer, in breaks. Some funny storys she tell me my self and we laugh alot about that.

Just i remember girl who stoped work at mfc becuz she will marriag and she get insane big tip for that.

Its understandable to lie about that, but sometimes it disturb me some that she says like there is no one in ther life, like i dont exist for her.

Btw, she will kill me if she would know i register here, she hates everything i do about her work (even when we did deal about limits which she shouldnt pass - pervert, disgusting ones )

So how about u girls ? got bfs but hide it ? Maked deals with ur bfs or u do all and its not ther buisness?

 

[AnaVictoriaXO]

If a model is lying about whether she has a man or not she certainty isnt going to admit to it here FYI

 

[JoleneBrody]

okay... let's be honest here...

First, It's none of your business if other cam girls are misleading or withholding information from members on MFC about their relationships... Most members honestly would prefer not to know! It's all fantasy, here. Married dames don't fit everyone's fantasy...
Secondly, it's impolite, rude, and just fucking mean to refer to MFC members as customers! They are MFC's "customers"... they are our "members"... often, our friends.

You, your girlfriend, her co-workers (don't get me started on how I feel about studio models and the fucked up head games they play with members) are truly terrible people for making fun of our MEMBERS. They are no lesser people than you! If you want to split hairs, how are members any lower on the totem than models?

Finally, if your girlfriend would "kill you" for signing up on this forum as you say... it appears that you both have trust issues! You are betraying her trust. You feel she is betraying your trust (I reference your other thread in this forum regarding her lying about having orgasms at work). Break up with each other. You'd likely be doing one another a huge favor.

 

[JoleneBrody]

If a model is lying about whether she has a man or not she certainty isnt going to admit to it here FYI

Yeah... what she said, too!

 

[Sweetsam]

Agree!

okay... let's be honest here...

First, It's none of your business if other cam girls are misleading or withholding information from members on MFC about their relationships... Most members honestly would prefer not to know! It's all fantasy, here. Married dames don't fit everyone's fantasy...
Secondly, it's impolite, rude, and just fucking mean to refer to MFC members as customers! They are MFC's "customers"... they are our "members"... often, our friends.

You, your girlfriend, her co-workers (don't get me started on how I feel about studio models and the fucked up head games they play with members) are truly terrible people for making fun of our MEMBERS. They are no lesser people than you! If you want to split hairs, how are members any lower on the totem than models?

Finally, if your girlfriend would "kill you" for signing up on this forum as you say... it appears that you both have trust issues! You are betraying her trust. You feel she is betraying your trust (I reference your other thread in this forum regarding her lying about having orgasms at work). Break up with each other. You'd likely be doing one another a huge favor.

 

[AnaVictoriaXO]

well said jolene!

 

[JoleneBrody]

I'm sorry if I got a little preachy there...
I've lost a good regular (not a big tipper, I don't miss his tokens... but a good guy) to a studio model from an undisclosed :roll: location. He thinks she is "the one" and that they are in love... it's just fucked up to play with people's emotions like that...

 

[AngelicTease]

I don't lie about being married but I also don't tell the truth either. I leave that option blank on my profile, and if people ask if I have a boyfriend, I say no... which is the truth, I don't have a boyfriend, I have a husband lol! I only tell people if they ask me, or if someones getting on my titties asking about meeting and stuff.

I don't think I could pretend to be single/pretend to be up for meeting guys of MFC, I'd feel super guilty for it! Surely that'd just lead to pysco stalker weirdos anyway? Eeeek.

 

[BrandonHeat]

wow, chill out ^^

Honestly its not really mean, sorry, but i can only laugh about people who pay for attention and sex, really.

Sure its ur own choose when u want to see them as friends and known people, i see them all as loosers - since they pay for ther attention and love, which is actually really poor, really.

And actually sure its not my buisness they have bf or not, and i really dont fucking care, thats why i ASK in a CAMMODEL forum about truth. Thats really no reason to get so fucked up, since all i do here is asking normal way...

And really, i dont need annnnnnnny advice for my relation, because THATS really not ONE of ur buisness, since this board is about camgirls and not about my relation...

 

[AngelicTease]

Umm I think you made it about your relationship when you made this topic and the other one?! If you don't want people saying stuff about your relationship, don't talk about it!

It's like posting a super cute picture of a cow, and then not letting people comment saying how cute it is! Pffft.

 

[BrandonHeat]

U are right, i agree My bad!

 

[AnaVictoriaXO]

Honestly its not really mean, sorry, but i can only laugh about people who pay for attention and sex, really.

Sure its ur own choose when u want to see them as friends and known people, i see them all as loosers - since they pay for ther attention and love, which is actually really poor, really.

A lot of these men are wealthy, very attractive men, or men who are very happy in their relationships that dont NEED to come to camsites and "pay for attention and love" You see them as losers. There are MANY people that think what your girlfriend does for a living is a disgusting and disgraceful thing to do but you accept it and love her and respect her right? Who are you to judge. There are a lot of great guys here who maybe happened to stumble upon a cam site while looking up porn and happened to enjoy the company of a nice beautiful woman on cam and like to show there appreciation. Whatever, the point is if you dont know what your talking about then either keep your mouth shut or say it in a way thats not insulting. A lot of us models are genuine and care about them

 

[BrandonHeat]

She didnt had a choose to start this work or not, thats russia. not USA or something.

I dont judge her for that, but really, i CANT understand people who need SOOOO much attention from a girl, that they are ready to pay.

As what i know, some of her fanboys spend ALL ther free time in ther chat, sit there all day/night, the 9 hours she work. Sure, some might be cool, kindly, well looking and just bored or up to a nice talk, but most of them are rude perverts with disgusting fantasy - and THEY can ABSOLUTLY be judged. How guys can make all ther free time turn around sex and everything, as long u are on MFC in ther chat, u always will see sexual behave, dosnt matter the girl is in completly clothes or not, it still will be the "porn" tingy somehow, since most of them say just rude stuff in chat.

Sure she have fanboys too, who pay alot just to talk to her and who are really kindly. She likes them more then other, but its still just work. She do this all between her worktime and dont have aaaaaaaaany contact with them in her free time - how then member can think about love and about ohhh she likes me so much.

I mean most poeple must now that this all is fake, they pay for the moment and will be forgotten anyway...

 

[AnaVictoriaXO]

yes, i agree, there is always the sexual thing there, but to say they are all losers is too harsh. Theres men that seemingly have no lives lol but there are the men who have normal lives and just happen to have time off when a certain model is typically on. A lot of models and members do develop a online friendship. Sure there are dicks but i wouldnt say "most" of them are rude and have disgusting fantasies (yes a lot do lol) and we can all agree that the ones who fall in love are a bit...odd or maybe just extremely lonely or something. You say you dont frequent cam sites or watch your girl live so how do you develop such a strong opinion and "know" all this?

 

[BrandonHeat]

i watched her over some time and sit in her chat. I saw who this guys behaved and how she behave

Ye, not nice.

Anyway, just right now we had big quarrel about this, 2 min ago - since i ask her to hold some back at public chat and she dont want to do this for me.

 

[mistahbah]

It's like posting a super cute picture of a cow, and then not letting people comment saying how cute it is! Pffft.

Show cow bb.

/obligatoryMFCcomment

 

[AngelicTease]

It's like posting a super cute picture of a cow, and then not letting people comment saying how cute it is! Pffft.

Show cow bb.

/obligatoryMFCcomment

Lol! Here you go.

 

[Keithy]

I was going to comment on this thread, but I decided to just go take a dump instead since it's about the same.

 

[Jebbaz]

tl;dr on most of this but I will say two things.

1. OP, is English your first language?

2. Who cares if a girl has a man? Doesn't affect the job, or the relationship with the members. Provided the members are intelligent that is.

 

[mistahbah]

It's like posting a super cute picture of a cow, and then not letting people comment saying how cute it is! Pffft.

Show cow bb.

/obligatoryMFCcomment

Lol! Here you go.

I feel the overpowering urge to comment on its cuteness... but somehow... feel... restricted....

 

[AlexLady]

Every cam model has to decide how much she wants to be a fantasy, and how much she wants to be herself.

I avoid fantasy as much as possible unless it's with someone who I know is on-the-level with me; I feel like it people and it would cause more stress to me to have people feel like they can marry/fuck me. I couldn't think of leading someone on that they should keep spending more time with me -just- because they want to be with me. It feels creepy and wrong all over, but yet, I have to have some fantasy to give myself privacy. For example, I don't really live on the internet.

On the other hand, a lot of girls get off on the fantasy part. I understand it completely because there are plenty of models who enjoy the fantasy bit.

Lieing to and manipulating people could come accost differently of course IF both parties are clear it's a fantasy. That's when you do it just for fun, hell, couples do it all the time. It's called role playing.

It sounds like your girl made the decision early on to go with the more fantasy side, but she might or might not make things clear. Then again, intentionally being clear all the time would ruin the fantasy, right?

A lot of girls feel like it's what camgirls are "supposed" to do.


It is a good thing that you posted this, it can give you some thought on it before you talk to her about it. The only person who can tell you why or help you feel better about it is her after all.

You can't make her change it and hurt her business, but you can at least understand it better. Tell her how you feel about it so she can ease your stress over it.

 

[Mikeythegeek]

A couple of additional points:

1- It was mentioned that this model works in a studio. It's possible that she didn't decide to lie about her status. She was told to by the studio bosses.

2- I'd bet that the percentage that was thrown out there, 80% of studio models lie about their status, isn't accurate. Maybe 80% of studio models lie, but not 80% of all models. Some models do that because they think it will mean more money for them in the long run. Some do it because they think it's nobody's business. And some do it because they're told to by someone (studio boss, their boyfriend/husband, or someone else).

 

[LilyPink]

I wish I had lied and told 'em all that I'm married!!

 

[Bocefish]

She didnt had a choose to start this work or not, thats russia. not USA or something.

I dont judge her for that

Sounds like you judge every other model that chooses to do this along with every person that visits cam sites.

Explain more why she has no choice but to be a cam whore, I don't understand. Do they pick women off the street in Russia and force them to do this?

 

[AmberCutie]

tl;dr on most of this but I will say two things.

1. OP, is English your first language?

2. Who cares if a girl has a man? Doesn't affect the job, or the relationship with the members. Provided the members are intelligent that is.

1. I think he said he's in Russia, so I am betting that English isn't his native tongue.

2. There are tons of people who care, unfortunately. I get asked multiple times a day if I am single/married/boyfriended... and ALWAYS (ok, 99% of the time) they act SOOO disappointed when i say I am married. I have no clue to whether they'd spend more tokens on me if I told them I was single, but I know it for some reason makes a difference to them. It's sad. It's not a dating site, and I shake my ass the same way whether I am married or not, so why give a shit? You had no shot with me either way. Not because you're not good enough for me, but because MFC isn't Match.com and I wouldn't meet anyone on there. Build a fucking bridge...

(can you tell this is a heated subject for me?)

A couple of additional points:

1- It was mentioned that this model works in a studio. It's possible that she didn't decide to lie about her status. She was told to by the studio bosses.

2- I'd bet that the percentage that was thrown out there, 80% of studio models lie about their status, isn't accurate. Maybe 80% of studio models lie, but not 80% of all models. Some models do that because they think it will mean more money for them in the long run. Some do it because they think it's nobody's business. And some do it because they're told to by someone (studio boss, their boyfriend/husband, or someone else).

I assume that the studio wants to play up their models being single. Whether we want to admit it or not, there's a certain type of customer on MFC who gets off on the fantasy of thinking that they are going to have the girls fall in love with them and then come "save" them from their studio and marry them.

i watched her over some time and sit in her chat. I saw who this guys behaved and how she behave

Ye, not nice.

Anyway, just right now we had big quarrel about this, 2 min ago - since i ask her to hold some back at public chat and she dont want to do this for me.

If the two of you have come to the agreement that she can continue to work as a cam girl, you've really got to figure out a way to stay out of it. You can't tell her how to run her show. If she's lying about something hoping to make more $ from it, that means you distracting her or telling her to do things differently is interfering with her trying to make more $. It's like her coming to your job (assuming you have one) and telling you how to do it in a less efficient way. You'd disagree, and you know best how to do the job.

If you cant take the heat, get out of the kitchen. (In the US, that means if you can't handle whats happening, then get out of the situation... i.e. break up with her.)

Also, on the note about you calling the members on camsites pathetic and whatnot... cut that shit out. 99% of the world pays in some way, shape, or form for sex. Porn, phone chat, cam sites, Playboy Magazine... it's all the same. People are allowed their fantasy world, and many of them are already successful men (or women) who may already have loving relationships. You don't have to be pathetic and single to enjoy these things.

But anyway, this is my forum and if you continue to trash talk the members that I call my friends, I'll kick you to the curb.

She didnt had a choose to start this work or not, thats russia. not USA or something.

I dont judge her for that

Sounds like you judge every other model that chooses to do this along with every person that visits cam sites.

Explain more why she has no choice but to be a cam whore, I don't understand. Do they pick women off the street in Russia and force them to do this?

I was unclear on this too. Seems he's saying "I understand since she's in Russia that she has to be a cam model... not like those other whores in USA who CHOOSE to be sluts". That's how I took it anyway. I'm not digging the attitude, here.

 

[Eva_ChangeN]

Alot of models, USA and otherwise are either honest or refuse to say one way or another. There are few who flat out lie, and they are usually (from what I have seen) DIRECTED TO BY A STUDIO. I have to agree with what has been said also, and for you to get defensive because someone is being TRUTHFUL with you when you asked...well, my friend, you sound either insecure or immature. About 60-70% of models DO see the guys on MFC as friends and members NOT customers. We spend time chatting on other places that are NONsexual, like facebook, twitter skype and blog sites. MFC is just an easier place for everyone to hang out and watch girls from many places and nationalities having a good time. There are MANY girls who do NOT preform sexually and make great $, there is an ever growing amount of girls being NON NUDE as well. We can control our cam job/careers as we please, and for you to imply/say that your girlfriend has no choice because she lives in Russia is sad. She "could" find another line of work, or work outside of a studio, which is taking %. UNLESS, because of your manner of your posts, you are a producer in her studio and getting territorial because she wants to work or leave your studio instead of be your girlfriend. Hmmm *Cue the insecure "what do you know" postings*

 

[LadyLuna]

In response to the original question (since everything else I might want to say has been adequately stated by everyone else here):

I have a Master, not a boyfriend, not a husband. To clear any doubts about what this means, it means that I live with a man who I serve and obey 24/7 . He is lenient, and doesn't control 100% of my life, even though I have given him that right. I am with him by choice, though sometimes it doesn't quite feel like it. (Sometimes, I feel like the world will not tolerate me if I break it off... and I'm glad of that, most of the time, because most of the time I don't want to)

When I started camming, Master told me not to tell anyone about him. I pleaded my case, and was allowed to tell that I had a live-in fuckbuddy, for security reasons. But he wanted me to proffer the illusion that I was available. I am a terrible liar. It did not take anyone long to figure out that fuckbuddy or otherwise, I am in love with this man. I pleaded my case again, reminding him just how terrible a liar I am over long-term, and he allowed me to admit the true nature of our relationship.

His family doesn't know. My family doesn't know. Only one of my offline friends knows. I told all my friends awhile back and most of them first tried to get me to leave him, and then just became very very awkward in my presence. Only people I've met through camsites know (and by extension, the people on this forum)

So, there you have it- why I lied, and the extent to which I did lie. Even if you've been banned and can't reply anymore, I know you can still read this post.

And yeah, if he hadn't given me permission to tell the truth, I would not have posted this.

 

[Cassidy Nicole]

who the fuck cares if girls have bfs or husbands? like amber said, this is not match.com, most girls are not on there to find true love and live happily ever after, they do it to make a living or because they enjoy it (hopefully both). if you go to strip clubs, while a girl is shaking her ass in your face, do you ask her if they are married or whatever and get upset if she is? who the fuck cares?

 

[LadyLuna]

if you go to strip clubs, while a girl is shaking her ass in your face, do you ask her if they are married or whatever and get upset if she is? who the fuck cares?

DUDE! Topic: "This is an online stripclub, not a dating site" Feel free to steal it!

Also... "I'm a stripper, not a hooker. Let's have some fun in pvt!"

 

[Cassidy Nicole]

DUDE! Topic: "This is an online stripclub, not a dating site" Feel free to steal it!

Also... "I'm a stripper, not a hooker. Let's have some fun in pvt!"

seriously, i consider myself and this job and "online strip club". are you asking strippers if they are married or have bfs?