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Would you be willing to date a guy that dislikes having anal sex?

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  1. Guy

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    Would you be willing to date a guy that dislikes having anal sex?
     
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    Of course. And the same goes for a lady as well. Not everything feels good to every single person, and I respect that. All bodies are hardwired differently, and everyone has their own limits. Andthe fun thing about sex is that there are soo many different ways to play that ruling out a single act on one partner does not have to impact the amount of fun at all! As long as our other kinks/fave play activities mesh well, it wouldn't impact our relationship at all.

    He or she can dislike engaging in any sort of sex act they want, and that is cool with me. So if they don't enjoy anal, it is not a big deal. As long as they don't judge or disparage others who might enjoy it themselves. Thaaaat is something I can't be comfortable with.
     
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  5. Miss_Lollipop

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    No I wanna put it in his butt or no go
     
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    Im talking about women reciving anal sex.
     
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    I hope this is a thing especially if I ever end up in prison :wideyed: I don't want a reputation for being a prison tease for playing hard to get but I also don't want to go home with a butthole that looks like a ring doughnut :hilarious:
     
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    This seems like it a strange deal breaker.

    Anal isn't for everyone, whether girl or boy. There are a million other things to do, and really that can be done solo too.

    Is there something that makes you ask?
     
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    I would have said yes a few years ago, but im a total butt slut at this point and love it too much to not have it as part of my active personal sex life....just being super honest....BUT also my current partner takes whatever i take in my ass, in his...its something we enjoy:)
     
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    Considering the only reason I would date a dude would be if he needed a beard it wouldn't matter.
     
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    Agreed, and well said @paige_orion . Far too many aspects to making a relationship work to base it on a single sex act as to whether or not it continues. Find what works for both parties (or more if the case), and go from there. If it's something don't necessarily agree on, discuss it. Who knows, sometime in the future, one of you might change your mind.
     
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  12. AwesomeKate

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    I am super turned off about anal sex. Seeing butt holes all gaped open makes me feel nauseated and i have to look away. I hate the thought of something or someone going in there and tearing the place up. I wouldn't date a person who needed to be inside my butthole.
     
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    I relate to this so much! Gaping buttholes has ruined many a good porn scene for me LOL. As to the question at hand I personally don't desire anal sex. I would likely have issues dating a woman that wanted to do this regularly.
     
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    I'll agree that it's really not my thing to look at, and it's kind of ruined a few scenes for me as well. It's not something I highly desire, nor seek out to do. If I'm with a woman, and she wants it, I'd most likely oblige and do it with her (give, not receive. Sorry, one way only) occasionally. To me, just doesn't seem to be all that many make it out to be.
     
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    My husband hates anal and I want nothing near my butt so it works out perfectly. I feel like a lot of women don’t really care for anal much in the first place. I mean of course many do love it, but many also are the complete opposite.
     
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    Yes...

    If anything that's a plus for me, dicks in the butt are fucking painful.
     
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    My last date was an anal personality. No anal sex would have saved that unfortunate and sad relationship :)
     
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    My thoughts mirror this haha.

    Overall I'm fine if they dl like it, and i guess some girls like it too. But its just easier if I don't have to fight about it
     
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    I would never date a guy no matter what he likes. :D
     
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    Um, we both have buttholes. If he wants to put it in mine why wouldn't I get to do the same thing to his
     
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    I would.

    As long as I'm allowed to fuck my ass when I fap... I would be cool with it.
     
  22. paige_orion

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    Dude, it's only fair! Seriously though, the number of boys I used to date who tried to pressure anal - yet when I turned it around and asked why I didn't get to put a dildo up theirs, they got super offended. If you can't handle the idea of experiencing something yourself, you have zero right to beg and pressure someone else into doing it for you.
     
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    I have the feeling that the ubiquity of porn and the constant push for novelty has skewed the perception of what people are actually into giving or receiving. The things that might give us a thrill to look at while we're jacking off might not actually be things we'd be into doing or having done to us.
     
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    My ass is an exit only. So if a dude wants anal SORRY not happening. My husband knows its never going to happen and does NOT care. I do way cooler things than anal.
     
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    Not arsed (no pun intended... really) about anal, so yeah
     
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    Sometimes I think liking/wanting anal is a meme right now. People think it's sexy to be allowed inside a person's ass and people think it's sexy to let someone inside.
     
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    Tried it. Not for me. Over it. Husband jokingly asks for it sometimes but knows its not happening lol.
     
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    They were probably afraid they might catch the gay, lol. If you're open-minded & comfortable with your sexuality, experimenting with butt plugs or anal toys by yourself or with a close partner could lead to pleasures you never imagined. Or not.
     
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  29. SaffronBurke

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    This. If you're a dude and a lady friend puts something in your butt, that's still a completely straight sexual encounter. Butt stuff isn't just for gay dudes, straight fellas got prostates, too!
     
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    I never cared for anal sex Kate and I hope I never have to do it myself
     

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