Best/Most Satisfying Private

[RogueWarrior]

Members/Models: What is the best/most satisfying private you've ever had? History, buildup, circumstances, the more details the better..........

I really don't take many models private, or very often. I've only taken a model private 5 or 6 times.

Recently I was in the room of a model with whom I am not a regular, but do frequent her room more than occasionally. She's not bubbly, talkative but rather just full out sexy.

She was being her normal sexy self and one or two other premiums were tipping, rather sparsely. But there was just something about her that night. I knew I wanted more, but I'd be damned if I was going to let the freeloaders in on it. So I pm'd her asking if she was open to privates.

"Sure," was the response, "what do you like?" I told her I was just enjoying her being sexy, to just continue that in private and take it where it may go.

It was amazing. No chitchat, no questions, no directions, no toys, no close-ups, just pure unadulterated sexiness. After about 15 minutes, it was over. I can only speak specifically for myself, but unless she was lying, we both left satisfied.

I know that may not be for everyone, but it definitely was bliss for me.

 

[dustinxxxizzle]

I'm mostly a guy who enjoys going private, so I've had many over the years. Some of them were spontaneous, but most of them tend to be with the same few girls. In the end, I think I've had so many satisfying moments that it feels slightly hard to just narrow it down to one. However..

Not sure how much of this is because it was so recent, but my last private with a stunning ACF girl was definitely extremely satisfying. The girl I was having regular privates with every month mentioned to me that she might have trouble camming for the foreseeable future, so I decided to do something I hadn't done in a while- hop around and meet some new girls on MFC, maybe find somebody new to take private. As much as the thought of having a spontaneous private with a new girl excited me, I was also pretty nervous, because not all girls are receptive of my likes, which I totally understand. So I was looking around when I spotted a girl I not only recognized from here, but remembered that I had actually had an enjoyable private with her previously on MGF! So I entered the room, which was going quite slow, reintroduced myself in a tip note and eventually asked if she would be up for a private, which she accepted.

I wasn't sure how the private would go, so I started out with 900 tokens. What happened was pure bliss! She remembered me and what I enjoyed and asked what I would like to do. She dressed up in an outfit I kindly requested and after I provided a few details I left the rest to her and she seemed to know everything that I liked! What's more she made the entire experience feel interactive, something that I felt was missing somewhat from my most recent privates, and she seemed to be having a ton of fun with it. I know I'm being vague, but I'd feel somewhat awkward telling every detail of the private. Let's just say I extended the private with another 900 tokens when I saw that we only had a few minutes left, and it was definitely the right decision, Extremely satisfying!

 

[Anonymous]

Members/Models: What is the best/most satisfying private you've ever had? History, buildup, circumstances, the more details the better..........

Just a heads up. Some people on here might be a little uncomfortable giving details about their past private shows (especially if they're toy shows with a fave model they admire/respect) since they are, after all, private shows. But it's a good idea how you went about it and withheld the model's name.

 

[Shaun__]

I one that was wonderful, but like Fox said very personal.

 

[UncleThursday]

I talk to one model pretty regularly, almost every day before work. I'm hardly ever in her (or any model's, for that matter) room. I just send funny little PMs now and then and she responds now and then. I've grouped with her a bunch of times. Then a little while back I decided we should just have sexy time to ourselves.

I knew she would turn me on, she always does, so I made sure to have plenty of tokens. We started off with the chit chat while she stripped down, then I asked her if she had little socks (my anti-foot fetish) which she did. Then she showed that the soles of the socks matched her hitachi head in color. :lol:

No directing, I just did the dirty type while we played. She came and then switched positions (and toys), so I changed my dirty type to match it... and we just kept going. She seemed really into it, moving herself in the way I was typing dirty to her. God, it was so hot. She came 3x total before I couldn't contain myself any longer. The way she got into it, her soft low moans, just how pretty her face is when she really is enjoying herself... I've watched that archive a bunch of times since then. And it's my longest private to date... 35 mins 53 seconds.

But it was SO worth it.

 

[UncleThursday]

Members/Models: What is the best/most satisfying private you've ever had? History, buildup, circumstances, the more details the better..........

Just a heads up. Some people on here might be a little uncomfortable giving details about their past private shows (especially if they're toy shows with a fave model they admire/respect) since they are, after all, private shows. But it's a good idea how you went about it and withheld the model's name.

I don't think it needs to be excruciatingly descriptive in details. Just saying what helped make it a great private. No names, no details. Just what happened to make it great, whether it was because of who it was (personal favorite, for example), or how much into it the member and the model got.

None of us want to give away all our great private secrets, but maybe we want to share what helps make a great private for us in case we take any of you ACF models private.

 

[Crumb]

my best private in the way that it is my most memorable....
(all the quotes are paraphrased from my recollection)
I'm a regular in one girls room and she plays electronic/club music quite often, one day I'm in there we are chatting and I mention that I'd like to see her dance, not sexy strip dance.. but dance as if she was in a club with clothes on. Naturally she said no, cause I was out of tokens at the time, and she didn't really want to then, but i said... "one day, you and me, in private, you're going to dance!" lol but to this she said, "only if you dance with me" me on cam .. dancing, yeah right lol
my only reply was "nope, not going to happen... cause I can't dance"
about once a week I'd remind her, I have tokens that I wanted to do the dancing private and still she'd say no, only if I would dance with her. finally I relented one day, turned on my cam and said "let's dance"
I hit the private button, and for 3 songs, we danced, me in my awkward white boy booty shaking dance :dance: and she was looking good, til I was tuckered out and had to stop. I kept private going a little bit longer chatting with her til I ran out of tokens.
I had fun that day and so did she. We were both laughing, mostly at me I think... but I did warn her I couldn't dance.

 

[LilyMarie]

I think my favourite private show took place a couple of hours after the new year started
The guy was in my room for the first time I think, and he basically said "let's see how often you can cum", lol. I think there was also some chatting involved at the end, but I don't remember. It's too bad models don't have an archive like members do. The private ended up being 62 minutes long.

Oh and in September, I think, there was a similarly long bath show which pretty much just involved chatting about anything and everything until the water got super cold That was nice, too.

But I have to say I really like all privates in which the member lets me do things that feel natural to me and that I actually enjoy, rather than shooting directions at me. I'm really thankful that mostly nice, considerate members end up doing privates with me!

I have a short PM talk with everyone who's interested in a private and I never accept a private from someone I haven't spoken to. I suppose that makes it easy to avoid unpleasant surprises and 3 minute guys.

 

[Anonymous]

I don't think it needs to be excruciatingly descriptive in details. Just saying what helped make it a great private. No names, no details.

Agreed.

 

[GingerOwnsChris]

I may be a boring old fart, but my secret to success is sending a script of the show in advance. Only by being very clear and descriptive about what I want, can I get my most satisfying shows. In my scripts, I explain everything: from what I would like her to wear, do, and say, and what camera angle to use, to what I will be feeling and thinking at the time.

It only worked well with a handful of models. The model has to take the time to read my scripts; she must work hard to tailor the show exactly to my specifications; and she also has to be a great actress. Not every model will do that, and I am ever so grateful to the admirable performers who did. After all, I think that I keep paying for shows because they help me to satisfy my cravings for certain fantasies, so that I can go on with my life without that burden in the back of my head.

 

[AllisonWilder]

The shows that stand out as best or most satisfying for me are the ones where I'm not being directed all over the place. The privates where the guy says that he just wants me to take my time, work myself up and enjoy an orgasm. No rush, no pressure, just a girl doing what she does while a guy enjoys it and himself in the process.

 

[AmberCutie]

I may be a boring old fart, but my secret to success is sending a script of the show in advance. Only by being very clear and descriptive about what I want, can I get my most satisfying shows. In my scripts, I explain everything: from what I would like her to wear, do, and say, and what camera angle to use, to what I will be feeling and thinking at the time.

It only worked well with a handful of models. The model has to take the time to read my scripts; she must work hard to tailor the show exactly to my specifications; and she also has to be a great actress. Not every model will do that, and I am ever so grateful to the admirable performers who did. After all, I think that I keep paying for shows because they help me to satisfy my cravings for certain fantasies, so that I can go on with my life without that burden in the back of my head.

One of my greatest fears if I returned to doing privates is having a regular do this and having to say no. The whole scripted thing scares the heebees out of me. I like the laid-back style of private where the expectations aren't through the roof.

But I'm glad it works for you and the girls you frequent.

 

[AlexLady]

Some guys come to camgirls to fill specific fantasies, some come to see girls in pleasure. Once it becomes a script and not a request, you turn the girl into an actor like you said. Acting, by the way, is faking, at least so some degree.



If you like watching girls fake, woo... whatever. Some girls don't mind making it 100% about you; that's why you pay them, right? Some girls think it's your right.


I have a bit of respect to girls who put the member first, but I'd never do it, no matter the pay. I don't want camming to be an unenjoyable thing to dread and regret. Not every girl would feel that way about faking, but I would. When I "retire," I'm going to look back and smile at all the happiness and great people I met, not selfish perverts who exploited my desire for their money by having me do things that I have no pleasure in.


I don't know how you can put your cock first; most guys want more than just sex when they come to camgirls. I always thought people like you would be better off going to recorded porn.

 

[GingerOwnsChris]

One of my greatest fears if I returned to doing privates is having a regular do this and having to say no. The whole scripted thing scares the heebees out of me. I like the laid-back style of private where the expectations aren't through the roof.

But I'm glad it works for you and the girls you frequent.

I certainly understand the risk of freaking the model out, but my requests have usually been rather softcore and vanilly (until I found Ginger ) In the scripts where I asked the girls to masturbate, only the foreplay was scripted, but I give them carte blanche for the explicit part, maybe just requesting a certain camera angle. The point is, I want to be really, really detailed and explicit about what I want, and that makes for the perfect show. The girls that it worked with actually really enjoyed it.

I guess, in the erotic fiction spirit of this thread, I should do my part and explain with a juicy example. Here is an actual script (the model's name has been changed). Granted, the amount of vanilla in this script almost makes me sneeze, but I would not want to post the more explicit ones.

Hey Sarah,

I have noticed that when you positively respond to my requests, my vocabulary shrinks down to the single word "awesome". So here it comes... Awesome!

You see, I have a huge fetish for female arms and shoulders. And it is so huge that I don't need to see anything else to enter the wonderful state of mind where my brain turns into overcooked squash. And forgive my being frank, but you have the most delightful arms. When I see you in a sleeveless shirt, I look like Homer Simpson when he thinks about donuts. I thought maybe you could act out a little fantasy that I have, and tease the crap out of this fetish of mine?

My fantasy takes place on a train that I use for daily commute. The seats on the train are similar to those in an airplane, all rows facing in the same direction, with tall backs, so there is a bit of privacy: you only see the neighbor to your left or right.  I am sitting in one of the two seats in the back row.

One station down the road, a girl gets on the train and takes the seat to the left of me. She nods to me for a greeting and starts reading a book. In a minute, it gets too warm for her, she takes off her jacket, and my heart jumps when I see that she is wearing a sleeveless top underneath it. I am shy and I won't talk to her, but I can't help but sneak a peek at her beautiful arms once in a while. 

In a minute, the girl notices that I am watching her, and, pretending that she is still unaware of my interest, she continues to read, but starts stroking her right arm (the arm facing me), from elbow to shoulder, with her left hand. I am terrified and excited, not knowing whether to talk, or to turn away, but I keep looking. Gradually, she starts getting more explicit, running her hand to her neck and hair, and then, finally, touching her breasts over clothes. 

At this point, it is obvious that she is putting on a show for me. Then she looks straight at me and whispers: 'Now it is your turn'. And as I shove my hand under my pants and start masturbating, she continues stroking her arm and pretends that she is reading, because we are in public and cannot be seen doing this! 

She gives me 2 minutes to wank, while she is stroking her arm and, occasionally, touching her breasts, and then she pulls the right-hand side strap of her top down, which leaves her shoulder bare. And this is exactly the final straw that my brain needed to explode. She turns to me again and whispers, "Now you come". And I have an orgasm right there, on the train, with my hand in my pants. 

Then she pulls the strap of her top back up, gives me a "you are cute" smile, picks up her bag and jacket, blows me a kiss and gets off the train.

So, Sarah, here is the story. Is it something you would like to perform? Obviously, I am not asking you to ride the train to do it; please do it at home! (I do have imagination, you know, and I know you have great lighting at home :) But when you "board the train" and take the seat close to me, I would like to see you from waist to the top of your head (i.e., you need to be quite close to the camera). You will be sitting with your side turned to the camera, not facing it. And if you do prepare the props (the jacket that you are initially wearing, the bag with the book, the top in which you can pull a strap down to show a bare shoulder), I would really get a kick out of it. I think, a total of 5-6 minutes would make it an enjoyable clip.

What do you think about that? I think this must be on the "easy" side for you to perform.

Greetings,
Chris

P.S.: I was thinking whether to ask you to wear eyeglasses, but could not decide. Surprise me :)

She did it to a T, had fun, and I got this little fantasy out of my system.

 

[AmberCutie]

Props to her.

I personally would run for the hills.

 

[caireen]

Some guys come to camgirls to fill specific fantasies, some come to see girls in pleasure. Once it becomes a script and not a request, you turn the girl into an actor like you said. Acting, by the way, is faking, at least so some degree.



If you like watching girls fake, woo... whatever. Some girls don't mind making it 100% about you; that's why you pay them, right? Some girls think it's your right.


I have a bit of respect to girls who put the member first, but I'd never do it, no matter the pay. I don't want camming to be an unenjoyable thing to dread and regret. Not every girl would feel that way about faking, but I would. When I "retire," I'm going to look back and smile at all the happiness and great people I met, not selfish perverts who exploited my desire for their money by having me do things that I have no pleasure in.


I don't know how you can put your cock first; most guys want more than just sex when they come to camgirls. I always thought people like you would be better off going to recorded porn.

I think this really depends on how you view camming. Obviously cam girls want to make ourselves feel good too, but for some girls, its not ONLY about that. I think there are two ways that people approach a private show: they want to see how *I* make myself cum/feel good, or, they have a specific fantasy in mind that they are looking to play out. Any girl can say no to any kind of show, and I don't think the second kind of private-requester is necessarily a 'selfish pervert' exploiting our desires for money. I think they are people who are willing to pay a lot of money to satisfy a fantasy that they may not have the opportunity to satisfy in their 'real' life. I do lots of kinds of shows- some I totally enjoy, some are mostly tailored to getting the viewer off, and I'm okay with that. I respect that people have pretty unique preferences and I see it as part of my job (and I think each cam girl creates her own job description) to help some of those people play them out. I'm not gonna hurt myself, or do something I absolutely hate, but some things are okay by me. Even if they don't make me cum.

 

[GingerOwnsChris]

I personally would run for the hills.

Really, Amber? Is it because of the very idea of a scripted show, or does this specific script creep you out?

 

[mynameisbob84]

She did it to a T, had fun, and I got this little fantasy out of my system.

This sounds more like a custom vid to me. Once you take away the spontaneity and the (natural) interation between member and model that a private affords, you're essentially left with a video (a video where you know exactly what's coming next in this instance).
There's certainly nothing wrong with what you're doing but I do wonder if you're not depriving yourself of the things that make privates so unique (the aforementioned interaction and spontaneity, as well as that intimacy which gets lost when you're both reading from a script) :twocents-02cents:

 

[AmberCutie]

It's having someone script out a show, ESPECIALLY to that level of detail.

As has been noted above, acting is something a person has to be comfortable with. I'm a cam girl, not an actress. If anyone sent me something that detailed (which has happened, but luckily from people that I didn't know so turning them down didn't effect me at all) I'd be put off by the expectation of going that far above and beyond simply pleasuring myself.

She did it to a T, had fun, and I got this little fantasy out of my system.

This sounds more like a custom vid to me. Once you take away the spontaneity and the (natural) interation between member and model that a private affords, you're essentially left with a video (a video where you know exactly what's coming next in this instance).
There's certainly nothing wrong with what you're doing but I do wonder if you're not depriving yourself of the things that make privates so unique (the aforementioned interaction and spontaneity, as well as that intimacy which gets lost when you're both reading from a script) :twocents-02cents:

I totally agree with this, too.

I'm not saying you're doing anything wrong, just that I could never imagine doing that, and I am sure many girls feel the same.

 

[MadisonLeigh]

I guess I am in the minority, here! I do love privates where the member just lets me do my thing, but I actually really like doing the specific fetishy stuff as well. I guess because most of the members who are into things like that (like the arms thing) are usually very appreciative and happy that someone is willing to indulge their fetish, and in turn that makes me feel good, even though it doesn't get me off. I wouldn't do something that disgusted me or hurt me, of course, but harmless fantasies can be fun to act out. I enjoy acting, and it's something a little different than just straight up masturbation shows all the time. ^___^

 

[dustinxxxizzle]

She did it to a T, had fun, and I got this little fantasy out of my system.

This sounds more like a custom vid to me. Once you take away the spontaneity and the (natural) interation between member and model that a private affords, you're essentially left with a video (a video where you know exactly what's coming next in this instance).
There's certainly nothing wrong with what you're doing but I do wonder if you're not depriving yourself of the things that make privates so unique (the aforementioned interaction and spontaneity, as well as that intimacy which gets lost when you're both reading from a script) :twocents-02cents:

Yeah, that was more like a custom video. If you do go the private route, I think you should try to strike a balance. As somebody who also has a fetish, I find my most satisfying privates are letting the girl know what I like and letting her run with it herself while throwing in some requests here and there. I usually have specific ideas of what I want, albeit not in such detail as you seem to, but the beauty of a live experience with a cam girl is seeing her take those desires of yours and throwing her own spin on it. If you make it too scripted, you lose that uniqueness she'll bring to the table. Just my 2 cents.

 

[Evvie]

I may be a boring old fart, but my secret to success is sending a script of the show in advance. Only by being very clear and descriptive about what I want, can I get my most satisfying shows. In my scripts, I explain everything: from what I would like her to wear, do, and say, and what camera angle to use, to what I will be feeling and thinking at the time.

It only worked well with a handful of models. The model has to take the time to read my scripts; she must work hard to tailor the show exactly to my specifications; and she also has to be a great actress. Not every model will do that, and I am ever so grateful to the admirable performers who did. After all, I think that I keep paying for shows because they help me to satisfy my cravings for certain fantasies, so that I can go on with my life without that burden in the back of my head.

I feel more comfortable with a bit of direction, but for me, closely scripted scenes just intimidate me.

I was sent a script once (for a custom video) where the guy gave me a costume, specific lines, and a timeline kept by the minute.

I don't have anything against elaborate fantasies, but they freak me out. I get very nervous that I won't deliver what's intended and the member will get upset with me.

 

[BettyBallistic]

I am sometimes intimidated by roleplay or very specific fetishes and do turn them down occasionally. However, some of my favorite privates are catering to some rare fetish. I like some weird things, and I would be really sad if I had a fetish that no one would be willing to explore with me or that I couldn't find material for myself. So, more often than not, things like the arm thing would be fun for me. A lot of the guys into something most of us would consider strange end up being very grateful, generous, and awesome regulars. My favorite privates to date involve things like barking like a dog, sitting on my ass in front of the camera eating swiss rolls with my mouth wide open, and putting on mascara super close to the cam.

I also cater to men into humiliation and degradation, and I have almost no limits. My first private where I did this, I logged off confused and hurt, and I cried. He was nice and thanked me for what I did because he knew it wasn't easy for a lot of girls, and told me that I was actually quite lovely once it was all over. I couldn't figure out why I felt so bad about it. After a lot of thinking, I realized that I was helping someone get satisfaction that they can't get many other places. The guy obviously doesn't think I'm a worthless fat pig, or else he wouldn't be paying by the minute to jerk off to me. It's just his kink. I now have a lot of regulars like this, and they are some of the coolest and most respectful men I know outside of roleplay. I'm actually starting to enjoy it.

I'm not entirely selfless though, some of my other favorite privates involved getting myself off while a regular of mine (who happened to be hot and wear glasses *swoons*) talked dirty to me and let me do whatever pleased me.

 

[AmberCutie]

She did it to a T, had fun, and I got this little fantasy out of my system.

This sounds more like a custom vid to me. Once you take away the spontaneity and the (natural) interation between member and model that a private affords, you're essentially left with a video (a video where you know exactly what's coming next in this instance).
There's certainly nothing wrong with what you're doing but I do wonder if you're not depriving yourself of the things that make privates so unique (the aforementioned interaction and spontaneity, as well as that intimacy which gets lost when you're both reading from a script) :twocents-02cents:

Yeah, that was more like a custom video. If you do go the private route, I think you should try to strike a balance. As somebody who also has a fetish, I find my most satisfying privates are letting the girl know what I like and letting her run with it herself while throwing in some requests here and there. I usually have specific ideas of what I want, albeit not in such detail as you seem to, but the beauty of a live experience with a cam girl is seeing her take those desires of yours and throwing her own spin on it. If you make it too scripted, you lose that uniqueness she'll bring to the table. Just my 2 cents.

Your 2 cents are very well said! I am by no means saying that fetish and specific requests shouldn't be made or fulfilled in a private. I am only pointing out that a word-for-word, movement-for-movement script seems mucho-overkill for what is supposed to be a live, interactive experience. Cam girls thrive on flexibility and making their own performance, so to speak, so to get a script as if you're acting out a scene in a porno movie just seems off-par. I'm sure there are cam girls who will do these, and enjoy them, but taking away the freedom and unpredictability of a private takes something away from member and model, IMHO.

 

[BettyBallistic]

I get very nervous that I won't deliver what's intended and the member will get upset with me.

This is very well said. I feel this way about a lot of roleplay and scripted privates. Thanks for putting it into words.

 

[GoddessAiren]

I think this really depends on how you view camming.

It's not an uncommon thing for a specific fantasy or scene to be discussed beforehand between people, especially when it comes to fetishes or BDSM. I do mostly fetish and Domme cam shows, and while I don't always "get off" physically it doesn't mean I don't have fun or get something out of it besides money. I don't find it to be "creepy", nor do I feel "fake" participating if I'm genuinely enjoying myself. This being said I would never do a show that I would not enjoy or feel comfortable doing.

I don't see anything wrong with his request. He was polite and respectful about it and to be honest I don't see it to be any different than being in a "vanilla" private show and having a member request certain toys, outfits and positions before it starts.

This is just my personal perspective coming from a more "fetish" orientated model.

 

[ThePioneer]

I'm really shy so privates for me can be awkward. Beforehand, I'll be asked what I want and I usually respond with something along the lines of "whatever you feel comfortable with". It's interesting to see what models come up with when you let them do their own thing.

But I would have to say some of my favorite privates all start off with just talking, laughing, and doing random stuff like look at pictures of cute animals for several hours followed up with a little bit of pleasure.

 

[RogueWarrior]

Members/Models: What is the best/most satisfying private you've ever had? History, buildup, circumstances, the more details the better..........

Just a heads up. Some people on here might be a little uncomfortable giving details about their past private shows (especially if they're toy shows with a fave model they admire/respect) since they are, after all, private shows. But it's a good idea how you went about it and withheld the model's name.

Sorry, should have stated with more clarity. I meant details in regards to the history with the model/member, buildup to the private and circumstances that led to the private. Not necessarily specific details about the private. That, after all, is why it's private.

And I don't mention models or other members names unless it is a direct response or in some kind of a (positive) list. That is just bad form to me.

 

[LadyLuna]

On the topic of scripted privates... depends on the script. Too detailed, and I get scared that my performance won't be good enough. Some flexibility is required for me to be comfortable doing it.

As to my favorite... background is needed.

I used to do dnd on skype with some of my MFC friends. One of them has a huge catgirl fetish, and the others know this. So one of the others bought me a cat maid costume, with specifications that I wear it on a night when the one with the fetish was in my room, and tease the hell out of him. The target took the bait beautifully, and the ensuing private was one of my favorites.

Then again, any private I've had with this particular individual is safely in the real of "one of my favorites". To be clear- he's not the only one who has that distinction.

The things that make a private one of my favorites is something incredibly rare. Someone who has had a friendship with me which included non-creepy sexual overtones for long enough for me to be comfortable with the fact that they appreciate me for who I am, and know there is no way in hell we will ever meet up, no matter how much either side talks about it or speculates on what would happen. It's REALLY rare for me to find someone I get that comfortable with though.

 

[Anonymous]

One of my greatest fears if I returned to doing privates is having a regular do this and having to say no. The whole scripted thing scares the heebees out of me. I like the laid-back style of private where the expectations aren't through the roof.

But I'm glad it works for you and the girls you frequent.

^THIS.^

The whole "I have a script for you" thing scares me too. I don't want to do a private show where I'll be thinking to myself "Boy, I hope I'm doing this the way that he wanted." LOL.

But yeah, thumbs up to the models who are willing to do that and give him exactly what he wants.