The Insider said:
My feeling (and i reiterate, it is simply my feeling) is that if I had a vagina and was young and anticipated I wanted children in the future I would feel that it wouldn't be a good idea to keep putting larger and larger things inside me. You run the risk of perforating the vaginal wall, scarification of the cervix & uterus.
I Just wanted to know how does it all come about?
I'm glad you're mentioning all of this, because the vagina can be a little mysterious, and it's good to know how some people perceive it. And there are so many great responses here.
Just remember that it's built to handle a baby but spends most of its lifetime in a neatly compact state. It's surprisingly adaptable.
So, how does it come about, someone's use of big toys? I'm assuming we're not talking about a tip-for-bedpost situation, and since I can't generalize how other women feel, I'll use myself as an example. For me, it's pleasure.
When I'm turned on, sensation shifts throughout my body. If I rub my clit while I'm doing my taxes, it will hurt, but if I'm close to orgasm, that same pressure and intensity will make me come. And since the clit is one tiny part of a large, deep, complex system, a similar thing happens inside of my body. When I insert a tampon, I have to angle my body just to get it in, and even then, that one-inch nub of cotton will be uncomfortable. When I'm in the throes of passionate fornication, I'll wrap my legs around his hips to pull him deeper.
I'm very into penetration (not everyone is), and there are several areas of sensation. My gspot feels great pretty quickly, but deeper areas don't wake up until I'm clawing at the bed sheets. And, like my clit, some of those areas feel uncomfortable if that penetration is too deep too soon. But over time, what felt too deep before can suddenly feel like everything I've ever needed and wanted.
And that depth is relative. Vaginas adapt, so for me, a 4-inch dildo can feel way too big if I push it in before I'm fully aroused, but that same 4-inch dildo will feel absolutely perfect when I want to come. If I start with something larger, the same thing will happen. If I move up to something even larger, again, the same thing. It might take more time to be able to handle it, and it might be more intense since I'm testing the limits of my body for the pleasure-pain of just-too-much, but how much pleasure I feel and how much I can take depends on my arousal and what my vagina has already adapted to accommodate. Once I'm done, and that arousal fades, everything goes back to where it was. I can use a large toy and still go out of my mind with lust when someone slides their hand between my legs and uses just the tip of their finger.
It's kind of amazing if you think about it.
