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  1. Smoothie

    Is this ban by a model 'reasonable'?

    Same. You gotta read the room. I feel like this is way easier on a cam site than it is out in the general population. Unless the model personally initiates a discussion about divisive topics, it’s safe to assume nobody visiting a cam site is there to hear that stuff, in that environment/moment...
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    Cloudflare Check

    I might have been concerned if it was only happening to me, so this thread is reassuring.
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    Cloudflare Check

    Same issue here (Chrome); been curious what’s up.
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    Fall in love with member

    The point about the power dynamic is a very important one, IMO. Keep in mind that you’re the only line of defense you can truly count on to protect yourself. Members should have their own boundaries, but you can’t count on it. The moment you loosen your own boundaries, you’re conceding...
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    (Members + Models) How do you lessen parasocial relationships?

    I’ve seen models take different approaches depending on the situation. One example, which I thought was pretty smart: The member entered the room with his usual flood of compliments and affection. The model asked him in a laid back, non-confrontational way, “Why are you always so sweet and kind...
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    How does someone find my real name?

    One possibility here: it’s not unusual for website analytics to include referral information. Usually that’s a direct referral (meaning you reached Instagram, for example, by clicking directly on a model’s IG button on her CB page). But it can be indirect, too. Depending on the level of...
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    CB Keyword Ban Feature

    I’m wondering about this, too. I’d also be curious to see what the most commonly banned words are, just as a general snapshot of the things models are most interested in avoiding. I’d assume “PM” is near the top of the list, but that’s a wild guess on my part.
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    Things Members Say That Make You Go "WTF?"

    In a CB model’s room today. The model had just told the member politely that it would cost more tokens for her to masturbate: Member: how many ? Member: why cant you masterbate with me i give tokens make you orgasm is all trying to do Member: lol you made more tokens off me than all day Model...
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    What is the most annoying thing a model can do?

    True. Many jobs are half customer service, half something else (mechanic, wait staff, cab driver, and so on). Sometimes people get into their line of work because they’re great at the second thing, but never bother to learn the customer interaction part.
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    What is the most annoying thing a model can do?

    I’ve seen that scenario. And also a few who seemed quite intelligent/experienced but had a hard time talking to customers in a way that didn’t expose that the model thought they were all idiots. Couldn’t correct anyone without unnecessary sarcasm, that kind of thing. It could also be that they...
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    What is the most annoying thing a model can do?

    Ok, I don’t know if this is THE most annoying thing a model can do, but it’s high on my list: Contempt for the audience/customers. I’m not talking about the members that deserve scorn for their bad behavior. I’m talking about contempt for cam site customers in general. Looking down on...
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    Difficult people ?! Or I’m crazy ?

    When he listed all of your different platforms he paid for access to, I was skeptical that he really did pay for it all. But even if he did, he’s expecting an unreasonable level of service. Whatever he did or didn’t purchase, I’m sure you didn’t sell him the right to be an overbearing dick.
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    Things Members Say That Make You Go "WTF?"

    I feel like a lot of the men that broadcast (on Chaturbate anyway) are models in the functional sense - meaning their cameras are turned on and members can tip them. But for all practical purposes, they’re just members/customers that don’t mind being watched. That’s just my take from seeing...
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    What is the most annoying thing a model can do?

    A couple years ago, there was a model that would message me on social media that she missed me, with a frowny face emoji. Except she did it every two weeks, on the same day of the week, at roughly the same time of day, as if on an automated schedule. After six weeks or so, I noticed the...
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    Things Members Say That Make You Go "WTF?"

    Yeah I’m sure it’s very common to be within earshot of people you don’t want to hear the various sounds of a cam show. On the other hand, I think it’s a common courtesy to the model to wear earbuds or headphones if I’m in that situation. If I have people nearby, that’s not the model’s problem...