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    Questions from a (hopefully) self-aware member

    Great points. Thank you!
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    yes it matters, I wouldn’t have written the post if it didn’t. This doesn’t mean it matters the most, but it matters to me. Specifically, it matters to me if she was being genuine and was thus genuinely hurt. I’m not saying that if so, I’m going right back to what I was doing. Just that in a...
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    absolutely. It’s a well-researched and proven strategy to make the person psychologically separate the mental awareness of spending money from the physical act, which starts with changing the currency to something unique and unfamiliar (poker chips, cam tokens). Then to alter the denominations...
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    Thought I would follow up on this, especially after reading the other recently updated thread. I appreciated everything said in this thread. It was all supportive and helpful in one way or another which, given it’s the internet in 2020, feels like its own miracle. So thank you, especially Amber...
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    Thanks to everyone who took the time to read and reply especially @EliMarie717 and @ForceTen. Glad to know I’m mostly on the right track and have some good additional thoughts as well. And more to think about than I ever anticipated. @AmberCutie thanks and awesome work, great to have this as a...
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    Questions from a (hopefully) self-aware member

    I Ricky-Gervais’-Michael-Scott level cringe imagining telling a model I love her. Even if I meant it I don’t think I could do it for fear of her seeing it and laughing hysterically. It’s be awesome if my name was Trace Monday. Pretty badass name if I say so myself.
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    same. And because literally every girl uses it, I like to use it as basically another element of conversation to, like I said accentuate a comment or joke. I think it’s funny, and the girl seems to too, to reply to playful snark or a bold claim with nothing but a buzz or two. It becomes part of...
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    Questions from a (hopefully) self-aware member

    No apology needed, I enjoyed your exchange. My experience with online conversations basically consists of twitter and a few sports message boards and I’ve been pleasantly surprised at how cordial everyone is and the apparent real efforts to understand and empathize with others’ points. Almost...
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    Yeah sorry, I once again wasn’t clear enough. I didn’t mean like a take 15, I meant more like she’s in free chat after being in private for awhile, we’re talking, and she’d of course appreciate the money but all things being equal could go without the physical buzz for a bit. In that situation I...
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    Right, agreed. I was also asking in the context of just general tips/buzzes in free chat. I mentioned in another reply that I only use one site, and buzzing the toy is the basis of the tip system. I’m guessing based on what I’m reading that this may not be the case with other sites. so I like...
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    Questions from a (hopefully) self-aware member

    To your points in order— Yes I can sleep at night. My reluctance to share with her stems from what I believe would be her view of it, as you put it, a threat to the relationship, no matter how I tried to convey my side. And again I acknowledge she might be right about that. The bottom line is...
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    thank you for sharing and for your thoughts.
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    Questions from a (hopefully) self-aware member

    I might not have been clear enough on what I meant by that. What you quoted was in the context of my initial dive into the camming world. I’ll admit I was initially not just awed by the opportunities the site provides, but very much bought what the girls were selling in terms of how unique and...
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    thank you as well for your thoughtful reply. (And if there are more replies...this applies to those as well without saying it every time...) Honestly I’m not sure how exactly you took my OP with respect to morals and my relationship. I only meant to say I love my wife immensely and want to...
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    Questions from a (hopefully) self-aware member

    thank you for the thoughtful reply. I don’t do c2c. Partially because I only access the site on my phone and am not sure if c2c is possible. But mainly because I’m really just not interested in that. I never volunteer my relationship status and don’t want it to be a part of the experience. But...