There is one model I do shows with who loves to do cam2cam too, she doesn't mind if it's erect dick or face. But I must admit, I do like it when a model prefers not to be staring at a dick. I like when a model enjoys more seeing that she makes me enjoy (just from facial expressions). This model I just mentioned is one who is like this, as well as a few others, and it's always nice
Yeah well it's good to be honest about what you like. Although I do offer that, that is with long-term regulars only. Who I already have a relationship with. I can't act like I'm turned on by random guys, I just met, putting the camera on their face. It just won't work for me. Unless they look a very specific way.
So I'm upfront about it so it's not to waste their time or mine. I think the guys that like that, in my room, just don't put their cameras on until they get to know me, and we talk about it.I probably should have specified I am talking about like first meeting, right off the bat.
From my point of view it takes so much more energy to act. And it is so awkward if I'm not turned on, trying to pretend I'm turned on. Even worse, if I'm actively turned off. So it's just a case of different sexualities. I think you've said before that you are the type that is really into getting to know people first. I'm kind of the opposite of that, but also similar in ways too. But to me, getting to know people takes a long time, and I don't just hand my trust out to every single person ,that pops in my room trying to put me on the spot, and interrogate me for free. Lol which is what many of these guys try to do . Sorry to put it so cynically. But I spend the majority of my free chat time being interrogated by low spenders these days, and it burns me out. I could have been editing and doing creative stuff, during that time instead.
I had a guy for a few years who I really liked, who never put the camera on his dick (only face and torso). But I started to like him a little too much, if you know what I mean. Sorry if tmi, but I just try to be as transparent, as possible, with people. Especially when money and time are involved. Risk averse. It's blunt, but it saves both parties time and energy.
It's kinda like these guys that I've never met before wanting to jump right in with cock worship or hard ore shows. That's not a first date thing for me, although I do offer it. But again, I think a lot of social and relational nuance is lost on a lot of people. Sadly.