Hey everyone, i'm a guy, very gifted by nature, i'm new to camming but I would prefer to do it with someone or at least part of the time. The problem is where do people find other cam models to do content with? Are there some websites? apps? Do they just make posts on forums like this? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
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to make a long story short .... you don't
Could you explain a little why you say this? I have friends that do B/G content together and it seems to be working pretty well for them. If I was to do it alone as a guy the content would be a lot less interactive than what can be accomplished as a duo.
Someone had to say it…? A male co-cammer is more of a liability than a benefit. For content, maybe after you’ve established your own collection of high quality content and a large fanbase? Meet on social media or go to industry events, and I hope you got game beyond your dick cuz I feel like every man is asking this. I’ll wager for most, your penis size, if that’s what you mean by “gifted by nature” isn’t as enticing a gift as you think it is.
Just hire someone, it’s amazing how easy this question becomes when you pay sexworkers fairly for their value.
I've seen it thousands of times on Chaturbate -- a guy gets involved and suddenly thinks he's a fucking pimp. Directing and demanding. You're a minus, not a plus.
Alright, I think I struck a nerve or some trauma for some people... I don't think it's fair to generalize and say a male is automatically going to be a "liability" or it will get to their head and think their a "fucking pimp" but I do appreciate the input.
I do agree that I've heard/seen a lot of guys wanting to do this but unlike most of these guys I have the face, body, I'm an extrovert and I have a thick 9" cock (that I can actually put a measuring tape beside to prove it unlike most guys that add a few inches to their real size). I've also been invited by a couple on several occasions to their cam nights and found it quite fun. (I also don't think they would've invited me again if I was an eyesore or a "minus")
I do agree that I've heard/seen a lot of guys wanting to do this but unlike most of these guys I have the face, body, I'm an extrovert and I have a thick 9" cock (that I can actually put a measuring tape beside to prove it unlike most guys that add a few inches to their real size). I've also been invited by a couple on several occasions to their cam nights and found it quite fun. (I also don't think they would've invited me again if I was an eyesore or a "minus")
Why don’t you ask your friends how they went about it then?
It’s as fair to generalize about men as it is for you to assume my opinion is some sort if trauma response.
You either build genuine long term relationships or you pay the models, it’s incredibly easy if you are willing to compensate them fairly, which is an appropriate and common thing to do.
From what I’ve seen, most models don’t actually find collab partners directly on cam sites themselves — it’s usually through X, Reddit, or niche communities where people are more open to networking.
Location-based stuff is tricky because most people don’t publicly share where they are for obvious privacy reasons, so it tends to happen more through DMs after some trust is built.
Location-based stuff is tricky because most people don’t publicly share where they are for obvious privacy reasons, so it tends to happen more through DMs after some trust is built.
You mentioned you're new to camming. The models who have responded are not new at all. From their comments, I don't sense you struck any nerve or trauma. They are being very straightforward from their experiences. You're just not hearing what you wanted to hear.
You were hoping & anticipating getting some specific information for your search. Some suggestions were offered.
You brought up that you are "very gifted by nature" & you heard back that it might not be the biggest selling point (pun intended.) It wasn't a personal attack. You took offense & had to elaborate on your attributes further.
You might not be getting the detailed information you wanted but try to appreciate the realistic viewpoints that have been offered & Good Luck.
Had a few male partners give it a try on my show.... ended badly. Long story short, my friends make bad cam models.
damn thats good. lol
nah theres some good advice here. Start building that following. Should be easy, as your very gifted by nature.
LMAO but unlike most of these guys <inserts the most "most of these guys" response>
damn thats good. lol
nah theres some good advice here. Start building that following. Should be easy, as your very gifted by nature.
Also being a third and a guest in someone's home has an entirely different power dynamic than one woman and one man together in their respective homes.
As a woman, making content with a random man is a liability.
From a business standpoint, most women make more money from solo content. A lot of repeat customers don’t want to see their favorite content creator having sex with a guy. It makes zero financial sense to involve a random man in your content when it may not sell well, could lose you customers and you still have to compensate him.
From a safety standpoint, it’s incredibly risky to bring a man you don’t know into your house, or even meet up at a separate location, to have sex with who will also now know your legal name (because if you’re posting the content you’re going to need her legal information for a 2257 form which is legally required when producing and posting adult content). This honestly shouldn’t have to be said. Just because you want to do this for money doesn’t set you apart from any other man either on a dating app or in a bar who wants to just have sex. You may be the nicest dude in the world, but no woman is going to immediately know that and women need to protect themselves from danger. And it can be very dangerous to fuck a random dude.
And if women did want to create content with a man, most content creators have boyfriends/husbands/friends they can do it with.
If you’re dead set on doing this, then make a name for yourself solo in the industry. Cam and create content as a solo creator. Go to industry events. Have a strong social media presence. Essentially, network while also making yourself known in the industry as a trust worthy guy who is also bringing his own sizable audience to the table, because the size of your audience (which would mean more exposure for anyone you do content with) matters a lot more than the size of your dick. And if you do find someone to make content with, make sure you’re also familiar with camera work, lighting, staging and acting, so she’s not carrying the burden of all that while you’re reaping the benefits of getting paid to have sex with a hot woman. Make sure you know what you need to legally post any content made. And most of all, keep up to date std test results on hand.
Yes, thank you for explaining in detail why the majority of camgirls simply avoid these situations, and why my recommendation is to keep it professional. Like it’s really not a big deal to pay a model, pro photographers do it all day every day, and if you aren’t a pro, why the hell would I want to work with you? Now you’ve come here as a newbie who hasn’t done the research, go on the offensive when given concrete advice, give an unnecessary dickbrag, say how you are not like the other guys yet behave in a manner that any experienced cam girl has seen 1000s of times. How do ya’ll get a copy of the exact same script?
I think the sort of online meetup space you are asking to find doesn’t exist, for reasons that you would likely understand if you worked hard enough to understand the industry yet. So you either get lucky and meet swingers who do online stuff, network in industry spaces, or obviously the fastest way is to hire a model for a day of shooting and performing now and then to build your content catalog. I’ve done both - worked with people I’ve met organically and those I’ve hired, why can’t you?
I think the sort of online meetup space you are asking to find doesn’t exist, for reasons that you would likely understand if you worked hard enough to understand the industry yet. So you either get lucky and meet swingers who do online stuff, network in industry spaces, or obviously the fastest way is to hire a model for a day of shooting and performing now and then to build your content catalog. I’ve done both - worked with people I’ve met organically and those I’ve hired, why can’t you?
Thanks for taking the time to explain this. Your answer helped clearing things up for me.
I really appreciate the detailed response, this helped me understand the issue much better!
I did but they found each other organically which is great, but in practice it’s often slower and less predictable than other approaches.
Most times, "couples" accounts work best when it was an organic connection. It's pretty obvious when strangers are trying to make something work (in my opinion) so trying to force it may not work out the way you hope. But it seems you were given some good answers above, good luck to you.
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This isn't for OP (this is for the real baby models actually doing their work and research).
I see this more and more often these days from young guys like this, and I want to label it for what it is. This is an example of gaslighting.
That specific sentence (above) is something I read from Losers all the time, when they don't get what they want. They immediately try to turn it around, lash out, and gaslight. It's a sign of immaturity, and possibly worse. I just want to make sure anyone who reads this thread recognizes that. Since all of us who broadcast have to deal with this kind of toxicity in simple conversations, more often, in this industry, than the everyday worker in other fields.
They always use the word "trauma" it's textbook passive-aggressive, gaslighting, parroting
When someone comes into your room, or tries to slide into your DM's and reacts and talks like this, block them immediately. These types of people drag your room down, and tend to carry a ton of negativity.
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I would never work with someone who said shit like, i immediately saw it as a red flag.This isn't for OP (this is for the real baby models actually doing their work and research).
I see this more and more often these days from young guys like this, and I want to label it for what it is. This is an example of gaslighting.
That specific sentence (above) is something I read from Losers all the time, when they don't get what they want. They immediately try to turn it around, lash out, and gaslight. It's a sign of immaturity, and possibly worse. I just want to make sure anyone who reads this thread recognizes that. Since all of us who broadcast have to deal with this kind of toxicity in simple conversations, more often, in this industry, than the everyday worker in other fields.
They always use the word "trauma" it's textbook passive-aggressive, gaslighting, parroting
When someone comes into your room, or tries to slide into your DM's and reacts and talks like this, block them immediately. These types of people drag your room down, and tend to carry a ton of negativity.
After sales skills, probably the next thing most models should study is how to recognize and challenge verbal and mental abuse.
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