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I understand camming can be emotional, it can be intimate it can be abusive and it can trigger feelings of unease because of the types of people.

Theres a model i like and usually if i enter her room and talk to her i am usually thinking about her , i put her mind at ease make her feel safe and comfortable , and this is were the jealousy of other viewers comes in they create hostility for her and for other viewers

This seems to be kind of a problem in these rooms the sense of entitlement with some of these guys

Obviously the model doesnt really care and just wants to get paid . But at the same time i like trying to be nice to her as she smiles and looks almost like she is wounded when someone is genuine w by the work and some human decency is nice i like to speak to her on a human level even if its just something like her makeup and dudes in there are just thinking about there own sexual gratification and they get jealous when viewers actually seem to connect with the model i cant stand that shit . Im guessing this is just part of the job and models are just collecting paper but must be incredibly annoying to get into a vibe and constantly have guys creating hostility in a room . I basically think the only approach is the tipping system and dudes who are just there to talk and or create hostility need to stfu

Its like your talking to a model and she obviously appreciates were your coming from and dudes get insanely jealous even that brief few moments your communicating they cant stand it and start trying to attack people but they are just stressing out the model i cant stand those guys they think its a dating site
 
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Theres nothing more annoying in those rooms when a guy trys to diminish a conversation you having with a model and then turns around and basically repeats the same thing the attempts to create hostility in these rooms would boil your blood especially since those guys never tip they seem to have no idea how cams work and just there to piss everyone off
 
I understand camming can be emotional, it can be intimate it can be abusive and it can trigger feelings of unease because of the types of people.

Theres a model i like and usually if i enter her room and talk to her i am usually thinking about her , i put her mind at ease make her feel safe and comfortable , and this is were the jealousy of other viewers comes in they create hostility for her and for other viewers

This seems to be kind of a problem in these rooms the sense of entitlement with some of these guys

Obviously the model doesnt really care and just wants to get paid . But at the same time i like trying to be nice to her as she smiles and looks almost like she is wounded by the work and some human decency is nice i like to speak to her on a human level even if its just something like her makeup and dudes in there are just thinking about there own sexual gratification and they get jealous when viewers actually seem to connect with the model i cant stand that shit . Im guessing this is just part of the job and models are just collecting paper from but must be incredibly annoying to get into a vibe and constantly have giys creating hostility in a room . Im basically think the only approach is the tipping system and dudes who are just there to talk and or create hostility need to stfu

Its like your talking to a model and she obviously appreciates were your coming from and dudes get insanely jealous even that brief few moments your communicating they cant stand it and start trying to attack but they are just stressing out the model i cant stand those guys they think its a dating site
there are a lot of reasons a model might feel burned out or seem unhappy. One of those reasons certainly can be creepy users but most of us understand we are, in a way, signing up for that type of treatment when we join. My best advice to you, a fan, is to tip as often as you talk. If you're trying to "cheer her up" with a bunch of messages and no tips then she's not going to be cheered up, she will just consider you a headache.

Also, the dudes being there for their own sexual gratification isn't necessarily wrong as long as they're paying for it. It isn't a dating site, as you said. Model nor user has any obligation to care about one another, but being kind and understanding that you're talking to a real human is so important so I understand your frustration with guys who are boldly misogynistic yet never tip.
 
If she worked for a extended period of time as a model she have thicker skin than you'd think. They're there to give a service in exchange for money, it's not that deep, if she's unhappy it's because she's tired of people who think they work for UNICEF and i'd say white knights annoy them the most as they expect them giving humanitarian aid because they have been kind to her.
 
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I don't think it should be surprising to walk into sword fighting contests on CB. Male humans seem to take great delight in hitting each other in the balls both literally and metaphorically. Human males have phrases like "bro code" and "cockblocking" and "friend zone."

Human females don't wail into each other's tits or pelvic bones to see if they can take the pain and not puke. Human females don't do any of the things guys do to each other.

We have other ways of being sinister, mostly emotional abuse toward each other...but guys really ratchet that machismo up to the Nth degree and more so when money is involved.
 
If she worked for a extended period of time as a model she have thicker skin than you'd think. They're there to give a service in exchange for money, it's not that deep, if she's unhappy it's because she's tired of people who think they work for UNICEF and i'd say white knights annoy them the most as they expect them giving humanitarian aid because they have been kind to her.
I saw this patient earlier and I diagnosed a chronic case of "Nice Guy Syndrome".