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Does positive thinking work?
Wishful thinking is a not the same as positive affirmations so how one can sabotage and disappoint webcam performer's activity?

I'm on this particular forum, ACF board since I was young enough to see and notice that nothing will change.
Webcam performers will encounter the same big issue "working hard for less I worth" ... I think 40% of the content of this huge community is related to the same issues, less tips, hard work, not enough revenue.
By now it is impossible to think that from all those who posted their frustration (because it affects on so many levels) have not found a solution... the problem is the same, persistent, annoying, uncomfortable, dramatic ... so on.
Has anyone found a solution?

What if the solution is in fact inside the problem? What if we need to see the problem from another perspective?
Are you able to "redefine" the issue of not getting the money you want into a message like "what is happening, why I don't get the income I want, what is stopping those bucks reaching my wallet?"
Limited ideas will be these type of self-answers:
- premiums are cheap bastards and more freeloaders rather than good guys who appreciate my efforts
- I might do all these wrong

Well, porn didn't changed, same emotions, feelings, excitement are playing their part, yes more colorful yet nothing changed so what/why doesn't work as I want?
Change in perception, change in perspective. Once you can do that, you'll know how to act, think and do to get more from your online activity.

Who am I to give "lessons" ?
Well, I don't give any lessons, those are for you to discover but for a guy who's worked with literally thousands of webcam performers I guess I have enough experience to have the courage to type and own what I've learned along the way.
And yea, I do apply the same concepts on my personal life too and for those who don't know, I'm the co founder of Camgirl Cloud platform, two international successful business and still expanding with a 3rd...
No, I'm not a billionaire, but I am happy.
 
What if the solution is in fact inside the problem? What if we need to see the problem from another perspective?
Are you able to "redefine" the issue of not getting the money you want into a message like "what is happening, why I don't get the income I want, what is stopping those bucks reaching my wallet?"

Well, porn didn't changed, same emotions, feelings, excitement are playing their part, yes more colorful yet nothing changed so what/why doesn't work as I want?

A self-development YouTuber I listen to defines rejection as "optimization data". Instead of taking it as a commentary on self-worth, it's simply an opportunity to discover where there could be improvement. Takes inner work to change our beliefs however!

What do you think are the emotions, feelings, and excitement that have been a feature of porn forever?
 
A self-development YouTuber I listen to defines rejection as "optimization data". Instead of taking it as a commentary on self-worth, it's simply an opportunity to discover where there could be improvement. Takes inner work to change our beliefs however!

What do you think are the emotions, feelings, and excitement that have been a feature of porn forever?
Rejection is just one "face" of the usual issues we have to deal with. Among that are self-doubt , self-sabotage, self-trust, the need of being validated by someone else or somebody else and the list is kind of huge if you try to connect the dots and list them all.
But ALL this are meant to send a message, to teach us a lesson, helps us evolve and expand.

About innerwork, true, but the easiest, fastest and simplest way is to do the first step, awareness of who you are. Next step is to trust and believe that all you do from "intuition" is the best choice, the easiest path. Analytical mind, put it on hold for a while and stuff gets into perspective much more faster, clearer and more beneficial to the end purpose. That's it, people write books about what i've typed in one paragraph.

And to answer your question about what I think about emotions, feelings ... well, is quite literally and I can define them in two categories.
The primary category which is based on physical impulses, needs, the "animalic" one, the second category is more on energetic/emotional side rather than physical.
1 - domination, the actual act of intercorse, masturbation and all the physicalities which come with this
2 - the emotional / energetic ones are more elevated, involves a more deeper class of feelings and emotions like love, attachment, the energy released during and at the excitement peak point in a very conscious manner. Even manipulation of that particular energy which if I remember well is named kundalini.

So porn consumers are searching to fulfill both physical and emotional need. Or at least one of them depending on their emotional state in relation to the subject of their porn source (a premium falls in love with a webcam performer, a webcam performer is sexually and emotionally dominating a sex-slave feelings and body)...
Trough the act of masturbation as most consumers or by attachment which involves so many aspects (dominatrix /femdom , sex pet-slave and so on)
Of course not limited to what i've typed but in rough lines kind of draws the big picture.

But all that are kind of specifics, porn consumers don't care much about "behind the scenes" and prefer the "satisfaction guarantee as fast as possible as long as possible as fulfilling as possible, as cheap as possible as effortless as possible"
 
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