We're a new cam couple with a few questions.

[LukeAndLayla]

A little background: I started modeling when I was single and did it for a few days before I started dating this guy (Luke). I barely got any experience but it was fun. When I started dating Luke my time kind of got pretty absorbed with him so I just stopped camming. I told Luke about my experience and he seemed really interested and one day he asked to do it with me (yay!).

Anyway, the first time I did it I did it with ICAMZ and their payout is really low (25%). When I started doing my joint account with Luke I tried MFC but they weren't taking any couples and just ended up signing in with ICAMZ again since I didn't even know that I could use streamate directly and be paid 35% opposed to the 25%. My issue now is that I cant just up and delete my ICAMZ account and join streamate because my contract says that for 6 months after deleting my account I cant work with streamate. My question is, do you guys have any suggestions where me and Luke can join with a decent payout at least until my 6 months are up and I can joint streamate directly.

Another question. Has anyone here worked as a couple? My boyfriend is having trouble getting an erection on command. Any suggestions. We've gotten into putting porn in the background and that works a bit to maintain the erection. I'll give him oral every so often also to make sure the erection doesn't disappear.
Sorry that was such a mouthful.

 

[JessieWolfe]

I think chaturbate is another option for you.

I cammed with mr. wolfe for a while on streamate. It wasn't really his thing, hundreds of people watching psyched him out and it was hard to stay hard :O But we make videos together with no issues haha. We did try having porn up while we cammed, but just timing the boners and the whole psychological part made it weird. I dont think i ever used the words "timing the boners" in a sentence before haha.
But anyways, guys think camming is super easy and are all "yea i get to do my favorite thing in the world, fucking you, and get paid for it", but don't really think about the mental aspects of 'timing' their boners and not being able to cum every time they bone.

 

[BiancaBaker]

I also dont live cam with my boyfriend but we make content together. The pressure to get hard and stay hard is quite intense (I am also on Streammate) Most guys want cum shots every show (again not possible). A site like Chaturbate or Kinklive is better for couple camming. Content making is much funner and easier for us- we can take our time and cut out anything needed; if we were live theres really no room for error. Good Luck!

 

[LukeAndLayla]

Thank you for the suggestions,
Yeah, he'll get an erection but pretty much as soon as it is time to use it he'll end up loosing it as he finds most of the scenarios we get put in completely non-sexual and un-arousing for him. I was thinking of doing non penetration acts. Most of the money that we have made has come from people wanting to see him slap, choke me, and things like that. We haven't even had sex on camera yet. There are only so many times a guy can come in a period of time so we make due with kink and fetish play.

 

[Ambers Troll]

Can help a little on the 'performance' side of things for Luke.
Camera shyness for men passes quickly enough so you may be overly concerned on that front. Making sure Luke has some way of opting out of things that he can't get into will take some pressure off, then you can offer other things to the member/s.

There are a many techniques for maintaining erections once you have one, but will let you look them up.

If you are serious, there are also techniques on control, cumming without ejaculation, controlling the flow, staying hard over long periods of time and so on, I would highly recommend you explore these. First step is for Luke to control the flow when peeing (even the morning one), when he can start then stop for about 60 seconds hands free, he is ready for the next step. Next step being to use the same control on ejaculation, this will take some breathing control, and I recommend first few times do this as a couple, you will want to share this privately first.
Control will give you at least a few hours of being able to stay hard, even straight after cum, and many more options to show off on cam.

Best of luck and keep having fun with it.

 

[LukeAndLayla]

Thank yo uso much that was super helpful.
Yeah, Luke isn't used to hitting me so it really caught him by surprised by how many customers were asking for it. I was okay with it so we went with it but it's not really his thing.