- Sep 15, 2014
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Hi! New model here. I had a question. I think I need to explain my situation a bit before I just out right asked my question though because I feel the context could be taken the wrong way. So here's a little about me.
I'm a divorced single mom. Have been for the last year and 3 months. During my divorce and up until 2 months ago I was going to school full time. I graduated school and now I'm done. I wanted to move about 2 hours away from where I'm actually living currently and since I have shared parenting with my daughter's father, I needed to go through him or the court to get that ok'ed since the 2 hours puts me out of state (my parents live there, I want my daughter to be closer to them).
So I went to her father, he flipped out and his new wife had to get him to calm down. (I did it as politely as I could, trust me, everyone I know thinks I'm a pushover when it comes to him, but I just want whats best for my daughter) So any who, he filed for full custody because he thinks I have already moved and is trying to tell the courts that my daughter is over there an extra 2-4 days a week beyond his specified time with her. Which all of that is a lie.
So I knew this was going to take a while, these things always do, and I know I can't afford to pay for child care right off the bat. So I needed to make money without sacrificing our lives. So I turned to camming. Which, by the way, I love so far, it makes me almost wish I wouldn't have went to school and just did this. I also need to prove to the court that I can provide for my child money-wise without her father's help. Which I am basically doing, he only pays around $350 in child support a month.
So it leads me to this question, how do I say to someone that I am a camgirl without getting dirty looks? There is going to be a Guardian Ad Li-tum in this case, so everything on my end has to look perfect. Is there any other way to say this? Other than webcam model? Something that sounds appropriate? That won't get me judged badly? I mean this the best way possible, I swear I'm not trying to offend anyone. I love this work, I really do. But a court will seriously look down on me for this, especially in a child custody case where her step mother is an elementary school teacher.
tl;dr: How do you say you work as a webcam model/camgirl in court without it sounding like that's what you actually do?
Anything helps. Thanks for reading!! I appreciate any help!!!
Btw, sorry if I put this in the wrong section. I'm still new to this forum
I'm a divorced single mom. Have been for the last year and 3 months. During my divorce and up until 2 months ago I was going to school full time. I graduated school and now I'm done. I wanted to move about 2 hours away from where I'm actually living currently and since I have shared parenting with my daughter's father, I needed to go through him or the court to get that ok'ed since the 2 hours puts me out of state (my parents live there, I want my daughter to be closer to them).
So I went to her father, he flipped out and his new wife had to get him to calm down. (I did it as politely as I could, trust me, everyone I know thinks I'm a pushover when it comes to him, but I just want whats best for my daughter) So any who, he filed for full custody because he thinks I have already moved and is trying to tell the courts that my daughter is over there an extra 2-4 days a week beyond his specified time with her. Which all of that is a lie.
So I knew this was going to take a while, these things always do, and I know I can't afford to pay for child care right off the bat. So I needed to make money without sacrificing our lives. So I turned to camming. Which, by the way, I love so far, it makes me almost wish I wouldn't have went to school and just did this. I also need to prove to the court that I can provide for my child money-wise without her father's help. Which I am basically doing, he only pays around $350 in child support a month.
So it leads me to this question, how do I say to someone that I am a camgirl without getting dirty looks? There is going to be a Guardian Ad Li-tum in this case, so everything on my end has to look perfect. Is there any other way to say this? Other than webcam model? Something that sounds appropriate? That won't get me judged badly? I mean this the best way possible, I swear I'm not trying to offend anyone. I love this work, I really do. But a court will seriously look down on me for this, especially in a child custody case where her step mother is an elementary school teacher.
tl;dr: How do you say you work as a webcam model/camgirl in court without it sounding like that's what you actually do?
Anything helps. Thanks for reading!! I appreciate any help!!!
Btw, sorry if I put this in the wrong section. I'm still new to this forum