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Your Life, Their Profession - Outside Looking In
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What an… interesting first post.
While asking zero leading questions.
Right?! Like… does OP just want us to all talk about our personal relationships here? And who is OP? One of the many college students wanting to study sex workers for a thesis paper? A love stricken member wanting confirmation that his relationship with a cam model is super legit and not a love con? I mean, all we can infer about OP’s identity or intentions is that they are not a person who is overly familiar with how forums work.
The hardest part for me is knowing how cheap she sells herself for. I try to tell her she's worth more, that she has real substance, but at the end of the day, anyone with a couple of bucks can get a piece of the action.
It honestly kills me to watch the way the public looks at her. I see strangers eyeing her up and down, practically drooling while they decide if they want her or the one next to her.
I just have to remind myself that while the rest of the world gets to stare, I'm the one who actually takes her home. I’m the one who gets to put her on the kitchen table and find out how sweet she really is.
It honestly kills me to watch the way the public looks at her. I see strangers eyeing her up and down, practically drooling while they decide if they want her or the one next to her.
I just have to remind myself that while the rest of the world gets to stare, I'm the one who actually takes her home. I’m the one who gets to put her on the kitchen table and find out how sweet she really is.
LaceyRoyce
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Relationships is also a super broad term. Do they mean intimate relationships, familial relationships, friendships? I'm not really answering either way, so I guess it's irrelevant 
I'm really feeling a lot recently, like because we are performers, people feel a strange parasocial entitlement to our personal business. I'll share personal stuff sometimes, but it's always strategic, and only ever because I think it's gonna be helpful to someone I like. So.... Just sharing personal stuff, for the sake of sharing, isn't as much something I'm into. I'm good without that kind of attention IDK to me, a lot of that is kind of invasive and classless, especially if no reasons for wanting to know are given.
That might just be my personal bias though. I'm pretty social outside of work and active in my community. Something I never do is probe people, because it's considered pretty rude, and tends to put others on the defensive socially. People tend to open up when they are ready and comfortable doing so, not when someone puts them on the spot.
I'm really feeling a lot recently, like because we are performers, people feel a strange parasocial entitlement to our personal business. I'll share personal stuff sometimes, but it's always strategic, and only ever because I think it's gonna be helpful to someone I like. So.... Just sharing personal stuff, for the sake of sharing, isn't as much something I'm into. I'm good without that kind of attention
IDK to me, a lot of that is kind of invasive and classless, especially if no reasons for wanting to know are given.That might just be my personal bias though. I'm pretty social outside of work and active in my community. Something I never do is probe people, because it's considered pretty rude, and tends to put others on the defensive socially. People tend to open up when they are ready and comfortable doing so, not when someone puts them on the spot.
That donut is the first time I've classified anything as "not a challenging wank" on this forum.
From the outside looking in, it seems like a personal topic best addressed in the verified "Models Only" section. 
Well, being a friendly sort of guy, I'm going to try to answer this question sincerely. I guess the problem with the question is that the last thing that a broadcaster wants is to tell anything personal to an "outsider". By the same token, outsiders probably know very little about us -- because we want to keep them outside. The only people we can talk to about this stuff are inside of a safe community of sex-positive people, and so in a sense aren't outsiders. So it's not surprising that people here are at a loss on how to treat this question seriously. By the way, being a male model I don't make any money at this, I do it as a hobby, so does that make me an outsider or not?
I think it makes you a fringe member of the community. While you can probably grasp the concept of needing to work as many hours as possible to get what you need, you don't actually know what that feels like from a camming perspective.
I will say I read the title of the post as "your job affects us as your SO" and to that I say pffffffffffffffffft. If you were with us when we started, then you know the drill. If we met after, then bye boi.
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