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Pacing with Pricing + Boundaries

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Hi all,

It’s my first time being a cam girl! I’m having trouble with keeping boundaries with my fan base. I did my first livestream on a platform that doesn’t allow nudity - which I’m comfy with because I’m not trying to be nude - but I do like teasing and wearing skimpy outfits for viewers. I am struggling because my viewers are a lot more eager to spend than I expected and so when I set tip goals, we reach them almost immediately.

My tip goals were:
$35 for jacket off
$75 for back POV with my butt
$150 for me to jiggle my butt and boobs
$250 for me to take my top off to be in my bra

Things like that. And what my viewers will do is they immediately send $60 and so my jacket came off immediately. And then within 5 minutes they sent $100 and said “back POV in booty shorts please” with the tip. I feel like because they sent more than the tip goal, that I have to give into their extra wants? I also told them I wasn’t comfy with having them see my butt in my undies for the first stream but they ended up tipping up to $1k, like someone sent a $250 tip which left me feeling like okay how can I not give them what they want now?? This is so weird for me because I imagined this entire thing being in my control but I didn’t expect them to send so much more and then ask for extras. How do I avoid that so I can keep it within my control? And how do I drag out the pacing when my viewers are so ready to send money/reach tip goals?

Thank you!
 
Only do what you are comfortable with doing. You are under no obligation to provide any "extras" if asked.

Just say to them that you are not comfortable with doing that yet or it was not part of the goal.

As far as dragging out the tip goals, that is something entirely up to the tippers or you making the prices higher. At the same time maybe come up with more tip goals that you are comfortable with and insert them wherever they fit in in your goal progression
 
Hi all,

It’s my first time being a cam girl! I’m having trouble with keeping boundaries with my fan base. I did my first livestream on a platform that doesn’t allow nudity - which I’m comfy with because I’m not trying to be nude - but I do like teasing and wearing skimpy outfits for viewers. I am struggling because my viewers are a lot more eager to spend than I expected and so when I set tip goals, we reach them almost immediately.

My tip goals were:
$35 for jacket off
$75 for back POV with my butt
$150 for me to jiggle my butt and boobs
$250 for me to take my top off to be in my bra

Things like that. And what my viewers will do is they immediately send $60 and so my jacket came off immediately. And then within 5 minutes they sent $100 and said “back POV in booty shorts please” with the tip. I feel like because they sent more than the tip goal, that I have to give into their extra wants? I also told them I wasn’t comfy with having them see my butt in my undies for the first stream but they ended up tipping up to $1k, like someone sent a $250 tip which left me feeling like okay how can I not give them what they want now?? This is so weird for me because I imagined this entire thing being in my control but I didn’t expect them to send so much more and then ask for extras. How do I avoid that so I can keep it within my control? And how do I drag out the pacing when my viewers are so ready to send money/reach tip goals?

Thank you!
hi! what website is this? i'm basically a non nude model but love teasing. the website i'm on right now is way too sexual, they expect so much for so little!
 
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