Hi all,
It’s my first time being a cam girl! I’m having trouble with keeping boundaries with my fan base. I did my first livestream on a platform that doesn’t allow nudity - which I’m comfy with because I’m not trying to be nude - but I do like teasing and wearing skimpy outfits for viewers. I am struggling because my viewers are a lot more eager to spend than I expected and so when I set tip goals, we reach them almost immediately.
My tip goals were:
$35 for jacket off
$75 for back POV with my butt
$150 for me to jiggle my butt and boobs
$250 for me to take my top off to be in my bra
Things like that. And what my viewers will do is they immediately send $60 and so my jacket came off immediately. And then within 5 minutes they sent $100 and said “back POV in booty shorts please” with the tip. I feel like because they sent more than the tip goal, that I have to give into their extra wants? I also told them I wasn’t comfy with having them see my butt in my undies for the first stream but they ended up tipping up to $1k, like someone sent a $250 tip which left me feeling like okay how can I not give them what they want now?? This is so weird for me because I imagined this entire thing being in my control but I didn’t expect them to send so much more and then ask for extras. How do I avoid that so I can keep it within my control? And how do I drag out the pacing when my viewers are so ready to send money/reach tip goals?
Thank you!
It’s my first time being a cam girl! I’m having trouble with keeping boundaries with my fan base. I did my first livestream on a platform that doesn’t allow nudity - which I’m comfy with because I’m not trying to be nude - but I do like teasing and wearing skimpy outfits for viewers. I am struggling because my viewers are a lot more eager to spend than I expected and so when I set tip goals, we reach them almost immediately.
My tip goals were:
$35 for jacket off
$75 for back POV with my butt
$150 for me to jiggle my butt and boobs
$250 for me to take my top off to be in my bra
Things like that. And what my viewers will do is they immediately send $60 and so my jacket came off immediately. And then within 5 minutes they sent $100 and said “back POV in booty shorts please” with the tip. I feel like because they sent more than the tip goal, that I have to give into their extra wants? I also told them I wasn’t comfy with having them see my butt in my undies for the first stream but they ended up tipping up to $1k, like someone sent a $250 tip which left me feeling like okay how can I not give them what they want now?? This is so weird for me because I imagined this entire thing being in my control but I didn’t expect them to send so much more and then ask for extras. How do I avoid that so I can keep it within my control? And how do I drag out the pacing when my viewers are so ready to send money/reach tip goals?
Thank you!