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Esoomy1

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I need some advice as I’m in situation ok there are 2 model we call them X and Y now I’m an ultimate member . You see I knew model Y for such long time but now she hardly comes due to study and work etc and I met model X last week and we just chatted on pm and having fun so last night I tipped one token to X and model y found out and stopped talking to me telling to go back to model X I don’t know if X and y are friends but should I tell model X what happend and if she is friend with model y I mean so far model X is laughing and talking to me normal but what should I do tell model X ? Please advise
 
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Esoomy1 said:
Hi
I need some advice as I’m in situation ok there are 2 model we call them X and Y now I’m an ultimate member . You see I knew model Y for such long time but now she hardly comes due to study and work etc and I met model X last week and we just chatted on pm and having fun so last night I tipped one token to X and model y found out and stopped talking to me telling to go back to model X I don’t know if X and y are friends but should I tell model X what happend and if she is friend with model y I mean so far model X is laughing and talking to me normal but what should I do tell model X ? Please advise
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It sounds like the model was jealous that you were chatting with a different model. I personally do not like it when a viewer mentions having fun with another model while on my broadcast, I think that's flat out ignorant and disrespectful to the model. If you have fun with other models, that's fine but dont rub in to another model that you had fun on their broadcast. I have had a viewer once say right on the public post that he had lots of fun with this other model and attempted to lure my viewers to her site as he even posted her link in my PUBLIC CHAT!!. I was so pissed off I banned him without warning!
 
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Esoomy1 said:
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I need some advice as I’m in situation ok there are 2 model we call them X and Y now I’m an ultimate member . You see I knew model Y for such long time but now she hardly comes due to study and work etc and I met model X last week and we just chatted on pm and having fun so last night I tipped one token to X and model y found out and stopped talking to me telling to go back to model X I don’t know if X and y are friends but should I tell model X what happend and if she is friend with model y I mean so far model X is laughing and talking to me normal but what should I do tell model X ? Please advise
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It seems you have posted multiple times on the forum about issues (drama) with some models & users since 2022. Previous advice must not have been beneficial.
 
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Just that I know model you for about 7 or 8 years but can a model find out which room your in even if your ultimate and invisiabkw

Stripchat to be fair one of the best
 
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Esoomy1 said:
Just that I know model you for about 7 or 8 years but can a model find out which room your in even if your ultimate and invisiabkw
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No, we models cannot se where customers are as far as I know. We only have a users list that lists users in our room at the moment. Invisible users are only counted by number and not specified by user name.
 
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Esoomy1 said:
Hi
I need some advice as I’m in situation ok there are 2 model we call them X and Y now I’m an ultimate member . You see I knew model Y for such long time but now she hardly comes due to study and work etc and I met model X last week and we just chatted on pm and having fun so last night I tipped one token to X and model y found out and stopped talking to me telling to go back to model X I don’t know if X and y are friends but should I tell model X what happend and if she is friend with model y I mean so far model X is laughing and talking to me normal but what should I do tell model X ? Please advise
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Fuck's sake. You're overthinking it. Just get on with your life.
 
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No, we models cannot se where customers are as far as I know. We only have a users list that lists users in our room at the moment. Invisible users are only counted by number and not specified by user name.
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Of course you can. In fact it's perfectly possible to see lots of things. What a member said in public chat, how much they've spent, who they've spent it on. Even what room they are in now. All that information is publicly available and updated in real time. I mean, you'd be a mentalist if you used that information to get in a knot about 1 token but you'd also be a mentalist if you didn't think that information was easily available, because it is.
 
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misterical said:
Of course you can. In fact it's perfectly possible to see lots of things. What a member said in public chat, how much they've spent, who they've spent it on. Even what room they are in now. All that information is publicly available and updated in real time. I mean, you'd be a mentalist if you used that information to get in a knot about 1 token but you'd also be a mentalist if you didn't think that information was easily available, because it is.
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Yes, how much they have spent on me and how many tokens they have right now if they reveal that information and if they are in my room. But if they have chosen to be hidden, things get more complicated because they only count towards the total number of users in the room but their name is not visible.
 
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Yes, how much they have spent on me and how many tokens they have right now if they reveal that information and if they are in my room. But if they have chosen to be hidden, things get more complicated because they only count towards the total number of users in the room but their name is not visible.
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No, there are third party services which reveal shit tons of information. If users are concerned about people seeing what they say and who they spend on then they should be aware that nothing is ever private.
 
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No, there are third party services which reveal shit tons of information. If users are concerned about people seeing what they say and who they spend on then they should be aware that nothing is ever private.
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Ah okay, I understand! Thanks for the information!
 
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He said the model confronted him, not that he said anything in their chat about the other model. And yes all of this information is available if you know where to look. (Which is disgusting but that's another Oprah for a different day.)
 
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To make things clear I didn’t say to any model that I had fun with another model basically others were tipping so I tipped and model y sent me angry message saying I don’t want to talk to you anymore go back to model X so as soon as I tipped that token she sent me and I was hidden in model X room either model y sent someone to soy on me or she disguised herself as user lol

I even asked curiously to model X do you have model friends in your list and she said no only users so model X streams from either studio or home in colombia and model you streams from home in venezuela
 
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A lot of models are with the same studio or they may even know each other in real life. There are even models I know who i never would have guessed know each other, but they do.
Luckily I never get this drama anymore, but I did in the past.


You have no commitment to any SINGLE one model, you can spend your money where and how you want. If a model wants to be childish and throw a tantrum and be angry at you over this, then I would just tell them "ok" and move on. If any model does something like this to me currently, I always just turn it into a joke which, for me, usually diffuses the situation. I usually just tell them something like "when we are married, she can tell me how I spend my money but until then, I will spend on who I want". Maybe I am lucky, I am with women who seem to understand this all the time and they themselves don't want the drama. Usually with this joke with them we have a little laugh and then continue on with our fun etc.

If you're with the silly toxic type of women who are very childish and serious in this kind of drama, it's better to walk away like others have said. You're only going to have a headache daily.
 
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If a model wants to be childish and throw a tantrum and be angry at you over this…
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I always assume it’s a marketing ploy to get you back into their room and spending more there - I doubt most models are seriously angry or throwing a tantrum.
 
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rockin_rod said:
Just focus everything on Model Z.
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So last update….. model y messaged me yesterday and she told me that she know ls model X and they talk to each other regularly so model X told her about me and she even showed all my pm messages to model Y and today model X didn’t show up

However isn’t this a violation of user privacy and how is one supposed to know they know each other or friends?
 
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Esoomy1 said:
So last update….. model y messaged me yesterday and she told me that she know ls model X and they talk to each other regularly so model X told her about me and she even showed all my pm messages to model Y and today model X didn’t show up

However isn’t this a violation of user privacy and how is one supposed to know they know each other or friends?
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What privacy? You tipped publicly in two different places using the same username. The model's behaviour is irrational but she's not violated anyone's privacy.
 
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What privacy? You tipped publicly in two different places using the same username. The model's behaviour is irrational but she's not violated anyone's privacy.
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No I said I tipped 1 token on my main one but model y said model x showed her all the pm messages to model y between me and model x
 
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