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  1. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    Thank you a lot for your post! No, I don't have a mod. No, I wouldn't use any of my regulars as confessor or whatever. I don't try to build up this level of connection with people. I'm all in for maintaining some level of personal connection in a private show so we get comfortable with each...
  2. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    Well, I surely care about my income but demanding and cheap users aren't my target audience anyway. I lose nothing if I lose them because they won't ever be helpful in the terms of income. And their "reviews" and ratings are mostly pointless because people that help me to make my bank don't look...
  3. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    Oh, it seems like you've added it to the post while I was replying. so we're OCD buddies, yay. Thanks for your kindness and support ❤️
  4. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    Nope, there are no other current situations in my life which lead me to feel these ways. I'm a pretty happy person. Can't complain. I've got an OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) but I'm having it for a really long time so I'm kinda used to it. Though, it definitely isn't helping in this kind...
  5. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    Yes, I understand what you're talking about. I may have chosen the wrong words for describing my problem. I think I really did because so few people got what I actually meant. Ignore, ban and report (optionally) are practical recommendations on the topic "how to deal with rude and abusive...
  6. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    Yes, that's what I meant. I haven't worked through that and that was my point. So you got it absolutely right. I think I don't want to disappoint anyone because disappointing other people makes me disappointed too. Not like I genuinely care about them. I don't even know them. But it just makes...
  7. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    I think many people got my point totally wrong. I don't have a fear of getting in trouble with some bad guy because I think I won't prove that I'm right and not a scammer or something. I'm sure as hell if there is any problem, CB support will be on my side because I don't do anything wrong or...
  8. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    There was no judgment or sarcasm in my reply. I'm really amazed by the fact that some feel strong enough to punish members like that guy. And you did it right. He should have read your bio and acknowledge your rules. But I can't do the same. I don't feel strong enough to punish someone for...
  9. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    I've tried, everything was good, camscore isn't the best feature but it is what it is. But not as good as on CB. Like, nobody knew me there and I came up with conclusion that it'd be too hard for me to start over like a brand-new cam-girl so I gave it up and decided to concentrate on CB since...
  10. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    I feel really bad for wasting people's money and time even if they're being dicks. And it ruins my mood. Like, I don't want to waste my own time and I don't want to waste other people's time and money. Like, if your expectations weren't met, please just leave me alone and find a model that...
  11. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    I understand and I'm really glad it works for you! I don't feel comfortable doing public shows and I ADORE doing private shows with "the right" people (my current audience). And I'm not that popular (mostly because I'm a private based model, people can't see anything interesting going on during...
  12. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    Yeah, I know. I wasn't talking about me. I was talking about the way some members tend to think. I've got a pretty strict boundaries so I don't buy this shit. But my rules don't change the fact. They think that way.
  13. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    I think the main problem is that many users feel entitled even if they tipped only one token. Like, you know, my bio states that I don't do *that* and *that* and then they tip 30 tokens and think that I HAVE TO DO IT NOW because they tipped (Man, who asked you to tip me and then get all mad...
  14. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    Yes, I'm pretty comfortable. People adore my private shows even if it's pretty vanilla because I do my best and they say that "it's worth every cent". And these people surely do come back over and over again. But that's just a bad business strategy to rely on regulars because one day they may...
  15. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    P.S. Yes, I know it was their fault for wasting their own time and money on me without reading and asking any questions before inviting but the truth is... this knowledge didn't make me feel any better and wasn't helpful in general. It's still unpleasant and exhausting to deal with this type of...
  16. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    When I just started in 2016, I've tried this method for a couple of days. The result: 60% of people got mad at me and said things like "I'll report you if you don't do it right now", "Dumb whore, I wish you died", "I'm paying, you're obligated to do", "I come here to jerk off and I don't have...
  17. Beawaresweety

    Fear of demanding

    I came up with conclusion that I've had a problem during all these years in camming. I've never accepted any pvt invitations without discussing the details of it first (and I'm a pvt based model so my main income comes from privates). My pvt shows are mostly vanilla and catering to innocent...
  18. Beawaresweety

    ehotlovea

    Yeah, I noticed that you've had some problems with models and weren't so lucky at finding a sane ones during your time on MFC. I'm really sorry. The only thing I can add to cheer you up is... fortunately, you aren't as dissatisfied with your experience as *that dude A.K.A. "10/10 body" A.K.A...
  19. Beawaresweety

    ehotlovea

    I think that's just a way of asserting themselves and, therefore, blaming the universe for not being happy and successful. Like, "I'm an honest model, I've never scummed anyone, *that (any chosen) model* isn't better than me, she doesn't do *that* and *that* and I do *that* and *that* but...
  20. Beawaresweety

    ehotlovea

    Actually, I'm so sorry for all these haters. Imagine being so unhappy and unsuccessful that you can't help but rant about everything you don't like, spend all your time on obsessing over people and things that can't help you to become happier, richer and more successful in what you do, stalk...