Hey, my girl wants to have a FMF, but she doesn't want it to be with anyone we know. You have any suggestions on how to make this happen? I would imagine that a girl would be kinda creeped out if they were approached at a bar or something and offered the proposal. Any suggestions?
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I'd let your wife/girlfriend handle it. Girls are usually better at picking up girls than guys >_>
My thoughts exactly Alex. Also though, you could consider professional help and have seen this advised on a few men's forums. At the end of the day though the female has a better chance of finding the right woman and also it's better for both of you if she picks someone that appeals to her, more fun for you .
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Personally, I'm horrible when it comes to girls. For some reason I can't tell when a girl is flirting with me, even though I'm really interested. Example: girl walks up to me at the club, says hi, bends me over the bar, lifts up my dress and starts spanking me. She giggles, introduces herself, and then runs away. Apparently she was flirting with me, how I didn't get that then is beyond me.
The two times I've ever had a three-way, the girls faked interest in me just to get to the boy. Not cool at all. And that is probably why I have a hard time figuring out if girls are genuinely interested or not.
But I agree, let her find the girl.
The two times I've ever had a three-way, the girls faked interest in me just to get to the boy. Not cool at all. And that is probably why I have a hard time figuring out if girls are genuinely interested or not.
But I agree, let her find the girl.
ZoeyMore said:
Haha I feel your pain
I'm terrible at the flirting part too, wither it be with a lady or a dude. Completely oblivious actually lol. But I agree, let your girl pick the 3rd person, what way later on down the road if you guys ever get into an
argument it cant be used against you
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Its very hard to find a "unicorn". Some girls don't want that, and don't want the drama that can be caused by a 3-some. I've had no luck in my search for the unicorn. Ive tried craigslist, and a few other non pay websites. I think it's time I try a paid website :-(. I really want to have a 3-some too. Either the girl doesnt want my boyfriend, or the girl wants her boyfriend too, so they can use me for their three-some fantasy. Gah...and the search continues.
My hubby has a girl at work who is flirting hard core with him. I said throw out the offer. My only hang up is she is married with kids also....so I don't want any drama from her hubby either...hmmmmmmm
From my experience jimmy, I would say avoid this like the plague.
The threesomes I've had while in relationships were fun but each of them played a part in destroying the relationship. In each case the ugly green-headed monster of jealousy rose up in my girlfriends and fucked things up. It didn't matter if my girlfriend at the time picked the third or if I did. It didn't matter how sexually experienced the girlfriend was. It didn't matter how long we had been together. In each case the three way ruined the relationship.
However, threesomes can be fun. And if you have one in which you are not in a committed (i.e., exclusive) relationship with either other the other partners, then it can be worthwhile.
I've never been in an "open" relationship and I've never been a swinger, so I can't give you any insight if that's the situation you are in.
But if your girlfriend is yours exclusively and you are hers exclusively, a three way has a very real possibility of completely ruining what the two of you have together.
The threesomes I've had while in relationships were fun but each of them played a part in destroying the relationship. In each case the ugly green-headed monster of jealousy rose up in my girlfriends and fucked things up. It didn't matter if my girlfriend at the time picked the third or if I did. It didn't matter how sexually experienced the girlfriend was. It didn't matter how long we had been together. In each case the three way ruined the relationship.
However, threesomes can be fun. And if you have one in which you are not in a committed (i.e., exclusive) relationship with either other the other partners, then it can be worthwhile.
I've never been in an "open" relationship and I've never been a swinger, so I can't give you any insight if that's the situation you are in.
But if your girlfriend is yours exclusively and you are hers exclusively, a three way has a very real possibility of completely ruining what the two of you have together.
Cassana said:
I feel your pain on this one...I spent about 6 months when i was with my ex looking for a girl to come and have some fun with us and I got nowhere fast. The one girl who seemed like she might have been really up for it was always really busy and we couldn't seem to co-ordinate actually meeting. And so, having a 3some with another girl and my boyfriend remains my biggest unfulfilled fantasy. Maybe it's time to hire a hooker...
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