Am I a cheapass?

[Freq]

These questions go out to Amber AND any of the other models that know me well enough to pass fair judgement on me.
First,


Each room is the model's to do as she pleases, and though I am not a fan of full nudity in free chat, I respect that eachFirst, girl has that freedom. With that being said, if I want to see a girl naked, I would most likely initiate or join a group show or in rare cases go private. I'll admit that I don't buy a hell of a lot tokens, because quite frankly I am mostly here for friendly chat and couldn't care less in reguards to seeing people who I consider friends while they are in full on "business mode." Quite often, when one of my friends is doing a countdown for some show, I DO LEAVE when I haven't paid to see the main event. I will be the one guy here that will admit that I HAVE NOT SEEN ANY of Ambercutie's shower or any other shows in its entirety. I'll peek back in to see if the show is done, maybe hang around for a couple minutes, make 1 or 2 twistedly humorous remarks, leave, and check back in sparattically to see if the show is over with yet.

Today in a friends room I was called out by another member who had been tipping feverously to, "quit riding everyone elses dime and tip, you cheapass!" and that I was a "cheapass voyeuer that needs to be a man and tip!" In between those 2 remarks toward me were another member echoing his statement and me telling both of them to back off me! I then got a PM from the model telling me to stop fighting in her room. I replied to her "it wasn't me! Basically, these two guys went off on me simply because I wasn't interrested in a public show. I didn't instigate any drama, nor did I fly off the handle when the model asked me tochill out. The model's next repsonse "she said "Just chill!" OK, I didn't say another word to ANYBODY; no nasty PMs, no sly comebacks in public chat, and no reply to the model herself. BANNED! JUST LIKE THAT! I consider this model my #1 friend on MFC. This model also tell me a TON of very private things so one would assume that I am a teensy bit more than just a customer to her as well.

What I think happened is, the big tipper guy asked the model to ban me so I didn't get any piece of HIS public show. I understand that business is business. If she would have asked me to step out of her room for a while to appease her Saudi Prince, I would have done it in a heart beat for her! What pisses me off more than anything is that I bought tokens for the 1st time in MONTHS and joined a group show with her. NOT because I really wanted to see her in all her glory, but moreso because she was in such a cheerful mood today and I figured I'd suprise her (which I did) with a little token (pun intended) of my appreciation.


now for the question portion of this wall-o-text:

1. Would you ban a good friend from your room if a big tipper simply asked you to?
2. Is a guy that doesn't tip for something that her doesn't necessarily want to see a cheapass?
3. Is it EVER ok for a member to "call out" another member in YOUR room? for any reason?
4. Would you at least give a good friend an explanation before BANNING them?
5. Am I a cheapass in general?

 

[AmberCutie]

1. Only as a joke, and I would unban immediately. (It's happened many times before. Ask Bawksy and Elvine.)
2. If the person is going to participate in a show for a countdown, it's nice for them to pitch in, but not necessary. Each model is different with the people they like to have around, though.
3. Members in my room call out other members constantly, but normally it's brought on by said member doing/saying something stupid and bringing attn to themselves. I don't mind this at all. I feel like they're sticking up for me
4. See #1. If it wasn't a joke, then yes I'd give explanation.
5. I don't think you're a cheap ass. If you were begging for stuff constantly without tipping, then yes. But you don't do that.

 

[Trusty]

show tits bb

 

[AlexLady]

Haha. So that's why I don't see you often (Nudist, plus a joke, I don't care where you have fun man so long as you have fun.)

I'm sorry that you were told to cool it even though you didn't participate in the argument.

As for your questions;

1. Only if the friend/acquaintance was a basic. Even then, I allow people to tip to give basics temperately penises. Granted I wouldn't do this with ease, unless it was the game of the day.
2. If you don't want to see it, then don't tip. That's kinda how it works. Even if you can't tip and still want to see the show, at least be respectable about the show. I wouldn't care if a non-tipper watched me spank myself so long as he didn't try to talk dirty to me (granted complements are cool,) or demand special attention in any way.
3. Nope. Fights and complaints that don't have to deal with me belong in PM's.
4. Yeah. I'm pretty heavy with my ban hammer though and do it without reason if I feel like it. However, there have been several instances where I've repeatedly asked friends not to do something. If they continue to do it, then I ban them without further explanation. If they come back and continue it, I 60 day ban them without hesitation.
5. Nope. Not at all. You have fun socializing with us, and really, that's better than a tip in my opinion.


As for the model banning you; if she banned you so easily, maybe the things she shared with you are something she openly talks about with everyone to make them feel close and comfortable with her. Sorry dude, some girls are like that.

 

[pyrite1965]

Oh yeah, you're a cheap ass

Nah, I'd say you're pretty cool. Nothing wrong with what you do.

 

[SatanJonez]

First of all: now I know why you're not in my room so much anymore. :lol: :lol: :lol: I do love my nudity and I loves it free.

1. Never. Once I've made a connection with someone on MFC to the point I consider them a friend, unless they fuck up in some unforgivable way I wouldn't ban them for any reason. Especially a big tipper, cause then it'll just stroke the fuckers ego.
2. This as I've seen varies model to model. I personally don't require tips for anything so I'll have to say no. If someone feels the need or urge to be generous awesome. If not, cool. As long as their respectful of my room and my rules then they are welcome to hang out.
3. Yes and no. Is this member trolling? Then by all means help me verbally rape them. Are they just trying to enjoy the chat? Then no. If they have problems with each other they can take it to PM or they can both be banned depending on the situation.
4. There would have to be a good reason for me to ban someone I consider a friend on MFC anyways.
5. Nope. I quiet liked having you hang out in my room. And as I said in #2, tips or tokens in any form are never required, but always appreciated.

 

[Freq]

It is good to hear that nobody thinks I am a cheap-o :dance:
let me clarify some things... Sorry to Alex and Frankie for not spending as much time in your rooms as I may have in the past. I have been cutting down on my time spent on MFC in general. It has nothing to do with either of your time spent being naked in freechat. I still luv you both!
With that being said, I have no problem with nudity in freechat, as it doesn't matter to me if you girls are clothed or not (with all due respect)! What I mean is I would like you girls just as much I knew you from a cam modeling site OR a G-rated disney chat room(figureatively). Amber, Alex, Frankie, and a few other girls are very tasteful in your nudity.... almost to the point that I hardly (pun intended, lol)notice. Being naked is no big deal, and you girls I mentioned treat is as such. From my perspective, free nakedness is a little added bonus, but not an issue I really care about one way or the other!

 

[AmberCutie]

Here's an example of actually being a cheap ass. It happened in my room last night and made me rage:

Situation - I had just danced to one of my "horny songs" to get all worked up for a group show. I lay down on bed, continue lightly touching my pussy, in plain view of the cam. Ready to go get dirty in group...

I ask for a the show.

"JerkMemberxyz: but this is free"
"Jerkmemberxyz: i'm not stupid"
"AmberCutie: um, that's not how it works, idiot"

**BANHAMMER**
**Turn the camera so all you can see is my face**

"AmberCutie: if anyone else would like to continue to make me feel like a cheap whore, take your shots now."

Needless to say I had to start my "getting worked up" process all over again and didn't get a show rolling for another 10-15 mins.

 

[Mikeythegeek]

You should've told him "yes, you are stupid. read the fucking rules jackass" then banhammer him

 

[LadyLuna]

They complain about you so she tells you off? OUCH...

In answer to your questions

"1. Would you ban a good friend from your room if a big tipper simply asked you to?"

If someone asks me to ban someone else, the first thing I do is ask that person to leave without me having to ban. A good friend probably would.

A tipper actually asked me to ban you once, awhile back. I explained via pm that you were doing nothing wrong, that you were a good friend, and that if he wanted me to do something without anyone being able to watch for free, he could take me to a group show.

"2. Is a guy that doesn't tip for something that he doesn't necessarily want to see a cheapass?"

Nope.

"3. Is it EVER ok for a member to "call out" another member in YOUR room? for any reason?"

For sure. To harass trolls, or for a joke, perfectly okay.

I have ONE member who will come in my room, pick a random user to harass until they tip (or become premium if they are basic) or some such. However, he usually only does so to the ones who are asking for stuff for free, or complain about what I won't do in public. And the one or two times he did start on someone who has either taken me to a show in the past or is a friend, I have pm'd him asking him to knock it off with that particular user. If it's starting to develop into an argument, I pm the other to make sure it's not a real argument and is just in fun. (I have had two or three times where they start a play argument and the other has verified that it was good fun to him).

"4. Would you at least give a good friend an explanation before BANNING them?"

Everyone gets a warning before being banned in my room. But again, a good friend, I will either stick up for them or ask them to please leave for awhile. Via pm, of course, not out loud. With lots of . Would have to be an INCREDIBLY big tipper for that though. The good friends are the ones who keep me smiling. Smiles earn more money.

"5. Am I a cheapass in general?"

No.

While you have never tipped me, you have never asked for anything, just hinted at the sort of things you enjoy. You give excellent compliments, great conversation, and plenty of fun. I do believe you even mildly protested when I gave you a bit of what you hinted you liked for free, on purpose.

Cheapass:

Show tits

Cheapass liar:

Show tits and I'll tip (leaves without tipping)

You:

No, you don't have to.
Thank you. That was beautiful.

(I do believe you were blushing, though I can't verify that.)

Big difference.

 

[Freq]

A tipper actually asked me to ban you once, awhile back. I explained via pm that you were doing nothing wrong, that you were a good friend, and that if he wanted me to do something without anyone being able to watch for free, he could take me to a group show.

I guess this sort of thing happens more often than I originally thought! Some of my model friends pay attention to me when I am in their rooms and I guess that just pisses off other members sometimes....................fuckin' haters! lol

 

[Tahnee]

I'm feeling lazy so I'm just gonna say: what all the other girls said! :lol:

P.S. I love having ya in my room and no-one has ever asked me to ban you. x

 

[LadyLuna]

A tipper actually asked me to ban you once, awhile back. I explained via pm that you were doing nothing wrong, that you were a good friend, and that if he wanted me to do something without anyone being able to watch for free, he could take me to a group show.

I guess this sort of thing happens more often than I originally thought! Some of my model friends pay attention to me when I am in their rooms and I guess that just pisses off other members sometimes....................fuckin' haters! lol

*huggles*

You're not the only friend a tipper has tried to get me to ban. Hell, one guy tried to get another banned and I was like "look, 1- he's a friend, 2- he's taken me to shows, so no, I will not ban him. I would be happy to have you in my room when he's not around, if he annoys you that much" All via pm of course.

 

[Devinedragoon]

You should've told him "yes, you are stupid. read the fucking rules jackass" then banhammer him

Agreed 100%