an inquisition

[Kentonic]

Hi there. My actual handle is Kisa. I got my Misskisa or KisaKitten on other cam-sites.

It may or may not come to anyone's surprise that I am new here. I have been camming off and on for about the last two months. I have had yet to stay regular as I had some medical and school related issues. Anyway I still feel very fresh and still somewhat unsure.

I had an experience less than a half hour ago when I was camming and a user was criticizing me. See my cam strategy is basically play some music while in some cute underwear and dance/move to the music. Occasionally taking time to chat/rest/what-have-you. These two users were bothered that I wasn't "twerking" for them, and it took me a while to respond with a response that didn't sound curt or in anyway related to money. I failed in the latter respects. I went with "If you take me private I can twerk all you like, or better yet maybe you can teach me some moves. I'm not very good at it yet "

Of course they responded with the virtual version of eye-rolling and backhanded compliments. I left the room before it got the best of me (I was on webcammodels. Still unsure if it's a good fit to be. Trying to narrow it down between that, chaturbate, and streamate)

To make a long story short: I had pushy/rude guests. They weren't freeloaders so I knew I had to be especially respectful. Not that I want to be rude anyway. It's not my nature, but what are your responses to obnoxious users? Besides blocking them how should I reply without bringing up money?

 

[mynameisbob84]

Obviously not every reply needs to be about money ("Hi, how are you today?" "Take me private and find out!" obviously isn't going to work) but if someone is asking you to do something overtly sexual and you don't want to do it for free, pretty much your only recourse is to mention prices... and that's fine. Members will either understand that this is your job and act accordingly or they'll use it as an opportunity to troll you. The latter group should probably be banned, or at the very least ignored, as soon as they make themselves known. They're never going to tip you and are only going to serve as a detriment to you and your room and you're better off without them :twocents-02cents:

 

[Kentonic]

Obviously not every reply needs to be about money ("Hi, how are you today?" "Take me private and find out!" obviously isn't going to work) but if someone is asking you to do something overtly sexual and you don't want to do it for free, pretty much your only recourse is to mention prices... and that's fine. Members will either understand that this is your job and act accordingly or they'll use it as an opportunity to troll you. The latter group should probably be banned, or at the very least ignored, as soon as they make themselves known. They're never going to tip you and are only going to serve as a detriment to you and your room and you're better off without them :twocents-02cents:

Thank you! Yes of course I don't talk about money all the time. I make casual talk with my viewers, and I'm friendly and polite. It's just when I end up with hagglers or trolls as you said I'm not always entirely sure what to do. I have read in different camming sites FAQ about good ways to respond to a customer if money needs to be inferred. As much as I appreciate being paid, I also want to provide a comfortable setting for the viewer. So if there is an especially rude individual I want the other members to see a more professional and respectful side of me instead of a tongue-tied cam girl.