I have been talking with a model for about the past 2 months. She has been streaming for 6 or 7 months, on Stripchat and occasionally on Chaturbate. She has around 3000 followers on SC and maybe 700 on CB. In general never more than 20-25 members in her room, usually less. She seems to have a handful of loyal members that are Royal league level, as am I. She is often busy in Exclusive private and they are often an hour or more in length. In fact I had wanted to talk to her privately several times, but she would be in a long show and I did not have time to wait, or would get picked up by someone just as I was about to. To be honest I was getting a little frustrated. The first time I went to exclusive with her on SC, she seemed very surprised almost shocked when I turned my camera and she commented, "finally we are alone. It is so good to see you" but said nothing about the camera. Fast forward a bit to last night. I was in private with her and commented that she must see some pretty wild, strange things on c2c. Her reply was "I don't ever see anyone. You are the only one that turns your camera on, its why I was so shocked the first time I saw you" I find this hard to believe that I am the only one she has seen on camera. Is this possible, or is she trying to make me feel "special" and setting me up for some scam I am not aware of? She does not seem the type, our last private was 90 minutes of laughs and conversation.
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You need to stop overthinking shit. Models hate talking to users about what goes on in other shows. It’s none of your business. Scam? Where do you see a scam? Did she promise you shit that never happened that you tipped for? Learn how to just log on jerk off and log off. Models will lie all day long to make every man feel special.
Making a member feel special isn’t a scam or part of a scam. It’s part of the job. Sex workers sell fantasies and fun times.
She could be telling the truth, she could be telling you what you want to hear or she could be respecting the privacy of her other regulars. All of that is valid. It only becomes a scam if she’s like “You’re the only man I’ve ever seen turn his cam on and you are so sexy and irresistible I’ve fallen head over heels in love with you. I want to be with you, but first can you send me a million dollars so I can take care of my sick grandmother, pay off my debts and then fly to be with you”.
She could be telling the truth, she could be telling you what you want to hear or she could be respecting the privacy of her other regulars. All of that is valid. It only becomes a scam if she’s like “You’re the only man I’ve ever seen turn his cam on and you are so sexy and irresistible I’ve fallen head over heels in love with you. I want to be with you, but first can you send me a million dollars so I can take care of my sick grandmother, pay off my debts and then fly to be with you”.
KingMarti
Cam Model
- Jul 9, 2017
- 5,170
- 3
- 9,178
- 213
- Twitter Username
- @KingMartiCam
- Streamate Username
- Thekingmarti
- Chaturbate Username
- KingMarti
100% my biggest pet peeve is members asking what someone else wanted in their show or what crazy things have happened in shows.
The flip side of this. I have had models write to me, saying "you wont believe what this guy did in my last private, or send me screen shot of something a member just asked them to do or said to them."
KingMarti
Cam Model
- Jul 9, 2017
- 5,170
- 3
- 9,178
- 213
- Twitter Username
- @KingMartiCam
- Streamate Username
- Thekingmarti
- Chaturbate Username
- KingMarti
My feeling on it from the member side is pretty much the same, if model did that with me it's not a model I would be doing shows with. IMO part of the service members pay for is discretion, sure some members will not stop talking about their fetishes in public chat, but for the others, outing them is not my decision to make.
I get asked that immediately after private shows on MyFreeCams the most. So Gross !!!! When I tell them it’s none of their business they act so shocked I refuse to talk about it. I don’t even want to fucking remember what just happened in any way and immediately out of my mind after every show.
I thought that would fall in the TOS Violation if models are screen shotting users personal private chat with other users. Guaranteed it is on a few sites. We can’t even do it on some discords to bitch about disgusting men
MarieElise
Cam Model
- Dec 19, 2019
- 11,035
- 19,301
- 211
- Twitter Username
- @EliMarie717
- MFC Username
- EliMarie
- Streamate Username
- MarieElise
- ManyVids URL
- https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/328205/EliMarie717/
- Clips4Sale URL
- https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/92217/marie717
Yes but all models are not the same person, we are all seperate humans. It's crazy right?
Them initiating this type of conversation is 1 million thousand percent different than you prying and bringing it up. It comes off as either jealous or as a guy who's testing the water about Bi-encouragement. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's generally easier just to be direct if you are into other men. And she still isn't going to give you true details, because they haven't consented to that. So, not sure what else you expect. It's great to like her and support her as a fan, not cool to be pushy and start demanding or expecting more.
She could be telling you the truth. She could not be telling you the truth. I run off of mainly privates and it's about 50/50 whether they put their cam on, even in long shows. She may have been surprised you did it right off the bat without discussing it. Men who are looking for a more intimate connection, and who can afford to build one, tend to wait until the 3rd or 4th show for that. Because they know the first few are purely about building trust and connection. And to be harshly shallow, deciding if they like you/ your full body type first.
Sorry if this comes across as harsh, but many of us do truly hate that.
If you did that with me, I'd immediately write you off in my mind as having a very limited shelf-life, but I'd remain polite to you nevertheless. My expectations of you going forward would be very low though, and you wouldn't be my first choice for a show, if 4 regulars all turned up at the same time. You'd be bottom on that totem pole, merely for those questions. And anything I did tell you about other shows, would be 100% fabricated, and aimed at finding out if you are into sucking dicks, or just a jealous straight guy
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The only time I have ever told anyone what happens in private is when I have turned them down for a private and taken one with someone who has a less demanding ask.
I appreciate the comments. ThanksYes but all models are not the same person, we are all seperate humans. It's crazy right?
Them initiating this type of conversation is 1 million thousand percent different than you prying and bringing it up. It comes off as either jealous or as a guy who's testing the water about Bi-encouragement. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's generally easier just to be direct if you are into other men. And she still isn't going to give you true details, because they haven't consented to that. So, not sure what else you expect. It's great to like her and support her as a fan, not cool to be pushy and start demanding or expecting more.
She could be telling you the truth. She could not be telling you the truth. I run off of mainly privates and it's about 50/50 whether they put their cam on, even in long shows. She may have been surprised you did it right off the bat without discussing it. Men who are looking for a more intimate connection, and who can afford to build one, tend to wait until the 3rd or 4th show for that. Because they know the first few are purely about building trust and connection. And to be harshly shallow, deciding if they like you/ your full body type first.
Sorry if this comes across as harsh, but many of us do truly hate that.
If you did that with me, I'd immediately write you off in my mind as having a very limited shelf-life, but I'd remain polite to you nevertheless. My expectations of you going forward would be very low though, and you wouldn't be my first choice for a show, if 4 regulars all turned up at the same time. You'd be bottom on that totem pole, merely for those questions. And anything I did tell you about other shows, would be 100% fabricated, and aimed at finding out if you are into sucking dicks, or just a jealous straight guy
!!!!!!! Preach !!!!!!!Yes but all models are not the same person, we are all seperate humans. It's crazy right?
Them initiating this type of conversation is 1 million thousand percent different than you prying and bringing it up. It comes off as either jealous or as a guy who's testing the water about Bi-encouragement. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's generally easier just to be direct if you are into other men. And she still isn't going to give you true details, because they haven't consented to that. So, not sure what else you expect. It's great to like her and support her as a fan, not cool to be pushy and start demanding or expecting more.
She could be telling you the truth. She could not be telling you the truth. I run off of mainly privates and it's about 50/50 whether they put their cam on, even in long shows. She may have been surprised you did it right off the bat without discussing it. Men who are looking for a more intimate connection, and who can afford to build one, tend to wait until the 3rd or 4th show for that. Because they know the first few are purely about building trust and connection. And to be harshly shallow, deciding if they like you/ your full body type first.
Sorry if this comes across as harsh, but many of us do truly hate that.
If you did that with me, I'd immediately write you off in my mind as having a very limited shelf-life, but I'd remain polite to you nevertheless. My expectations of you going forward would be very low though, and you wouldn't be my first choice for a show, if 4 regulars all turned up at the same time. You'd be bottom on that totem pole, merely for those questions. And anything I did tell you about other shows, would be 100% fabricated, and aimed at finding out if you are into sucking dicks, or just a jealous straight guy
