Brutal replies

[driverxtc]

So I have avoided coming here for a while. I made my decision some time ago to leave if I get a reply(s)
(whether I make a thread or a comment) that seems downright disrespectful. Like I'll voice my opinion or try do create something fun and light hearted. Then out comes a member who throws in some discord and just ruins it. Not only in one thread but other threads that I had made a comment on. And next thing I know it I'm being stalked and every time I make any type of comment I se the person just starts to follow every thread I go too. Top it all off I notice it's some "guy" with a F'N butt load of posts. And you can tell that "he" is always on here practically every day (I'll bet even 4 times a day) Does anyone else get or understand what I'm talking about?

 

[Fay_Galore]

well, this is a forum where anyone can join, not everyone on here is perfectly sweet. I definitely think 99% of this forum are awesome people who I might not agree with all the time, but they're descent normal people. there will always be bad apples everywhere and I had a few hostile completely unnecessary replies too, but that's the internet for ya

I don't know who you're referring to, but maybe a PM to one of the mods would be more efficient and less drama-stirring?

 

[JordanBlack]

The ACF community and the camming community in general is formed by people that have one thing in common and that is camming, yet when it comes about other subjects, those exact same people that form the camming community have the right to not censor themselves and express their own opinions about everything else. It's silly to take anything so personal and silly to think that just because we as a group have one thing in common, we must be all the same regardless of the subject.

I've heard people before complaining when others don't agree with what they've said and not only on ACF, it happens everywhere, it's called life.

Just yesterday I've heard that a good friend and regular in my chat has stopped talking with me because I mocked Fox News while I was on cam. I was a bit baffled to hear it third hand, but also baffled that people get upset by such trivial things as a camgirl's or member's views on things that happen outside the camming spectrum.

You, I, them....we're all entitled to express our opinions, stop taking it so damn seriously. It would be quite boring if everybody would agree with everybody.

Edit to say that even trolls and those grumpy "other" members add to the community and again you shouldn't take it so personal.

 

[Poker_Babe]

You just have to take these things with a grain of salt. I know it's easier said than done, but don't let those things get to ya. If you do, then you're letting the troll win. :twocents-02cents:

 

[MemberEd]

So I have avoided coming here for a while. I made my decision some time ago to leave if I get a reply(s)
(whether I make a thread or a comment) that seems downright disrespectful. Like I'll voice my opinion or try do create something fun and light hearted. Then out comes a member who throws in some discord and just ruins it. Not only in one thread but other threads that I had made a comment on. And next thing I know it I'm being stalked and every time I make any type of comment I se the person just starts to follow every thread I go too. Top it all off I notice it's some "guy" with a F'N butt load of posts. And you can tell that "he" is always on here practically every day (I'll bet even 4 times a day) Does anyone else get or understand what I'm talking about?

I personally think you are taking it too seriously. This is a great forum that should have many, many more people visit but in the big picture its not important enough get upset about.

 

[Rose]

Just add them to your foe list, problem solved. :twocents-02cents:

 

[PunkInDrublic]

Wonder who dude is talking about. I'm here almost everyday and some of my replies can be kinda brutal but I don't remember talking to him. If it is me, my bad guy but maybe try not being so serious. If it isn't me, my bad for being an egomaniac.

You're so vain You probably think this thread is about you, You're so vain I'll bet you think this thread is about you, don't you?

 

[AmberCutie]

So I have avoided coming here for a while. I made my decision some time ago to leave if I get a reply(s)
(whether I make a thread or a comment) that seems downright disrespectful. Like I'll voice my opinion or try do create something fun and light hearted. Then out comes a member who throws in some discord and just ruins it. Not only in one thread but other threads that I had made a comment on. And next thing I know it I'm being stalked and every time I make any type of comment I se the person just starts to follow every thread I go too. Top it all off I notice it's some "guy" with a F'N butt load of posts. And you can tell that "he" is always on here practically every day (I'll bet even 4 times a day) Does anyone else get or understand what I'm talking about?

So...

I've just gone through many of your previous posts, and I am having a hard time finding an example of someone replying to your posts with anything "downright disrespectful". Unless people are sending you private messages about your posts... are you reading into something that just isn't there?

I imagine the member you're describing to either be JerryBoBerry or Bocefish since they are here, like, all the time. Maybe mynameisbob but he is always posting with the highest level of politeness that I could ever ask for.

Or are you referring to a model? But they don't pose as "guys".

I'm sorry you're feeling the way you're feeling, but I don't see physical evidence of any wrongdoing here. If there's something I am not seeing, please feel free to PM me or report posts/PMs so I can look into it, but I have an awful feeling that maybe (and I feel bad for saying this but,) you're just too sensitive for the Internet if you're making a mountain out of a molehill.

 

[Nordling]

Wonder who dude is talking about. I'm here almost everyday and some of my replies can be kinda brutal but I don't remember talking to him. If it is me, my bad guy but maybe try not being so serious. If it isn't me, my bad for being an egomaniac.

You're so vain You probably think this thread is about you, You're so vain I'll bet you think this thread is about you, don't you?

And still, after all these years, we STILL don't know who Carly was talking about. :lol:

 

[Poker_Babe]

So I have avoided coming here for a while. I made my decision some time ago to leave if I get a reply(s)
(whether I make a thread or a comment) that seems downright disrespectful. Like I'll voice my opinion or try do create something fun and light hearted. Then out comes a member who throws in some discord and just ruins it. Not only in one thread but other threads that I had made a comment on. And next thing I know it I'm being stalked and every time I make any type of comment I se the person just starts to follow every thread I go too. Top it all off I notice it's some "guy" with a F'N butt load of posts. And you can tell that "he" is always on here practically every day (I'll bet even 4 times a day) Does anyone else get or understand what I'm talking about?

So...

I've just gone through many of your previous posts, and I am having a hard time finding an example of someone replying to your posts with anything "downright disrespectful". Unless people are sending you private messages about your posts... are you reading into something that just isn't there?

I imagine the member you're describing to either be JerryBoBerry or Bocefish since they are here, like, all the time. Maybe mynameisbob but he is always posting with the highest level of politeness that I could ever ask for.

Or are you referring to a model? But they don't pose as "guys".

I'm sorry you're feeling the way you're feeling, but I don't see physical evidence of any wrongdoing here. If there's something I am not seeing, please feel free to PM me or report posts/PMs so I can look into it, but I have an awful feeling that maybe (and I feel bad for saying this but,) you're just too sensitive for the Internet if you're making a mountain out of a molehill.

Wow, that's actually pretty admirable of Amber to actually take it upon herself to go through your past posts and read through all of the replies from others to you, to try to resolve this issue. Not many site owners that would actually take the time to do that. Most would just shrug it off and chalk it up to just another person on the internet being over sensitive.
That's just one of the many reasons why I love this forum as much as I do. Amber is so involved with the members and models on her forum, despite how busy she must get, especially with this site's continuously growing popularity. She really does an awesome job at running this forum.
Kudos Amber! :thumbleft:

 

[Poker_Babe]

Wonder who dude is talking about. I'm here almost everyday and some of my replies can be kinda brutal but I don't remember talking to him. If it is me, my bad guy but maybe try not being so serious. If it isn't me, my bad for being an egomaniac.

You're so vain You probably think this thread is about you, You're so vain I'll bet you think this thread is about you, don't you?

And still, after all these years, we STILL don't know who Carly was talking about. :lol:

Hahaha :lol: I love you!

 

[bawksy]

 

[goldenaye666]

 

[Bocefish]

Like I'll voice my opinion or try do create something fun and light hearted. Then out comes a member who throws in some discord and just ruins it. Not only in one thread but other threads that I had made a comment on. And next thing I know it I'm being stalked and every time I make any type of comment I se the person just starts to follow every thread I go too. Top it all off I notice it's some "guy" with a F'N butt load of posts. And you can tell that "he" is always on here practically every day (I'll bet even 4 times a day) Does anyone else get or understand what I'm talking about?

Figuring it was likely moi... I went over all 7 pages of your postings and found nothing either. :dontknow:

If you're going to call someone out... try putting on your big boy pants and being specific, otherwise it sounds like you have sand in your vagina and want the internet police to douche it out for you.

When you come across a web forum you really like but some member gets on your nerves, just put them on ignore via the foe option here.

:twocents-02cents:

 

[JerryBoBerry]

I imagine the member you're describing to either be JerryBoBerry or Bocefish since they are here, like, all the time. Maybe mynameisbob but he is always posting with the highest level of politeness that I could ever ask for.

You'll notice that has changed recently. I've averaged 0.68 posts per day for the last month and a half.

And I don't think he was talking about me, cause I had to look up his name to figure out what he's even posted in the past. If I was stalking someone I'd remember them more.

 

[Ambers Troll]

driverxtc forums of every kind are a bit like you describe, there is a tendency for them to be very narrow minded in opinion, especially when it comes to their core theme. Lighthearted teasing of others views can get some pretty serious reactions, and there will always be someone who will disagree with almost anything you post.

I guess those who post often should try to postpone their replies to let topics flow naturally, and let smaller voices be heard. Ambercutie does this well, I suspect understanding that her opinion will carry more forum weight.

So long as the replies are relatively respectful, I have no problem with some brutality. :shhh: