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I'll pick one online right now to illustrate the right way - LexiVixi. In the Top 5 almost every month. She's not one I hang out with much, but she always seems to just chat and joke with everybody, without regard to tipping. And then she has tip options and countdowns, which are very high amounts, and people meet them. In public chat, she is responding to everyone who talks to her. She may occasionally reference the tip options, but I've never seen her start ranting about nobody tipping and then log off in a huff. Always smiling and laughing, being friendly. And she obviously works out and makes sure she looks her absolute best at all times. That's how you do it. Be hot and friendly to everyone, and the tips come.
 
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They're also free not to spend their nights chatting you up in the hopes you'll tip them and give their time to those who are actually tipping them for it. Is 10-20 tokens here and there really breaking the bank?

They're definitely free to not log on. I'm talking about how they act once they do. The ones that create an atmosphere that welcomes everyone in (and look really good) are the ones that get tipped.
 
Of course she isn't ranting about nobody tipping, she's in the top % lol. I'm not saying to tip somebody you don't like, that's on you. But don't you think a girl is going to be frustrated if she takes lots of time to get prepared,logs in, couple hours pass by, dudes come in "show ass bb, stand up," "private?" and then leave. starts trying to make conversation and nobody is talking to her. maybe she tries dancing and gets a lot of viewers,but nobody is tipping. then you show up, maybe you have some tokens and even 50 would cheer her the fuck up and put her in the good mood you want her to be in, but you're just sitting back stuck with this "It's TalkToMeForFreeBB" mentality and wonder why she's sick of your shit.

I'm not saying this is always the case, but damn, the magic that can happen when you make a gesture lol.
 
@Joeternal

You sound like you know a lot about being a model! How long have you been one? ;)
I know a lot about being a tipper. ;)

The best models are the ones who prepare, but once they log on, they just chill and let it happen (or not). They're just hanging out online, the same way the members are. They log on consistently, and always treat people well. And - they look really good.

But the deciding factor is personality. There are plenty who look good but are horrible people and don't rank, and there are a number who are (my opinion) less attractive, but do very well. Models who don't speak English also struggle for that reason. The free chat is everything.
 
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Enough with constant mentioning about looking really good, working out, looking your best at all times. It's got absolutely nothing to do with models being rude, and how other people look has absolutely nothing to do with you.

In this situation, it does matter. It would be dishonest to say it doesn't. But make sure to read my whole post. Looks aren't the most important factor in model success, in my observation. It's personality. I could name one model in particular who is (my opinion) very attractive, but whose rank has fallen off a cliff because she is an incredibly bad example of the behavior I described. But I won't.
 
The ones that create an atmosphere that welcomes everyone in (and look really good) are the ones that get tipped.


Oh, how I wish that were always true! Logging off MFC with a grand total of 0 tokens, despite having offered those things you mentioned, absolutely sucks.

Time to spend some more time on Chaturbate, me thinks. It's not my favorite site, but hey, at least on there I can be consistent with hours and not get penalized with a dropping cam score. Smh.
 
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@Joeternal you are not a model so you wouldn't know this. But staying online on "myfreecams" without earning tokens and just "letting it happen" drops your camscore and fast. A low camscore harms a models placement very quickly and prevents her from earning money in future. Mfc basically punishes girls who don't make enough by sending them so far down the page They get no traffic. So we can't just sit there and be friendly without tokens flowing just because the site is called myfreecams. Of course the model you mentioned doesn't worry about tips. She doesn't need to if she is top 5 every month.
 
Oh, how I wish that were always true! Logging off MFC with a grand total of 0 tokens, despite having offered those things you mentioned, absolutely sucks.

Time to spend some more time on Chaturbate, me thinks. It's not my favorite site, but hey, at least on there I can be consistent with hours and not get penalized with a dropping cam score. Smh.

@Joeternal you are not a model so you wouldn't know this. But staying online on "myfreecams" without earning tokens and just "letting it happen" drops your camscore and fast. A low camscore harms a models placement very quickly and prevents her from earning money in future. Mfc basically punishes girls who don't make enough by sending them so far down the page They get no traffic. So we can't just sit there and be friendly without tokens flowing just because the site is called myfreecams. Of course the model you mentioned doesn't worry about tips. She doesn't need to if she is top 5 every month.

I understand, and I can understand the stress of it. MFC has so many models at this point that it's hard to rise and stay up. I'm just saying the behavior I'm talking about won't help.
 
I did read your whole post, but you've mentioned it several times. It's irrelevant.

It's not irrelevant. I know if I was a cam girl, I would view those things as part of the job. But the relevance here is that there are plenty of models who look good, but act badly.
 
I'll pick one online right now to illustrate the right way - LexiVixi. In the Top 5 almost every month. She's not one I hang out with much, but she always seems to just chat and joke with everybody, without regard to tipping. And then she has tip options and countdowns, which are very high amounts, and people meet them. In public chat, she is responding to everyone who talks to her. She may occasionally reference the tip options, but I've never seen her start ranting about nobody tipping and then log off in a huff. Always smiling and laughing, being friendly. And she obviously works out and makes sure she looks her absolute best at all times. That's how you do it. Be hot and friendly to everyone, and the tips come.

You're not the judge and jury of what way is the "right way". You're only one tipper and taste is subjective. Or do we too soon forget the very queen of controversy and "bad attitude" that won several crowns and found herself a huge following in the process?
 
Oh god bahahahahahahahahaha.

This dude is too much.

"it's my FREE cams"

Free to watch. Not get individual attention.

Too much. Just too much hahaha. *Writes name in happyplanner list under an undisclosed list*

Dude do you have no idea how much emotional labour women would have to do for free on that site if they would individually converse individually with everyone that wants to "just chat" for free. Or how much that would rob from the vibe of their room?
 
As for it being "sex work" - it's only that if the model wants it to be. A better way to look at it is being a live streamer, with a variety of options for what you want to do to get tips. The top models present a variety of tip options, and then they just hang out and chat and wait for people to use them. As soon as you start pointing at the topic and asking/begging/demanding impatiently, you've failed.

It's sex work. Even the non nude models on MFC are sex workers. But I do see the issue, rather than seeing that cam models are working, you look at them like they're just hobby streamers.

I'll pick one online right now to illustrate the right way - LexiVixi. In the Top 5 almost every month.

Be hot and friendly to everyone, and the tips come.

You're telling me a girl in the top 5 doesn't complain about making tokens... presumably because she's already making them? Absolutely bonkers.

No, that's not all it takes. Hell, that's not even close what it takes for some. It's almost like there are as many different cam styles as there are paying members. Don't speak on a job when you obviously have no idea how it works.
 
@Joeternal I have a feeling that you know as well as everyone else here that such a list would be just as useful as a list of boring porn - who would even look at that list when it's just as easy/fast to make the decision for yourself and switch to another model? Which only leads to the conclusion that you simply want to make some sort of "wall of shame"? In which case, posting about that on a forum by a cam model, for (predominantly) cam models and their fans, is going to come off as either obtuse or trollish.

But if you really want to make this list and think it will supposedly "help" those models (as you claim), then by all means go ahead. Just don't be surprised if nobody wants or cares for it - I believe the feedback is pretty loud and clear from this audience.
 
There are really rude cam models in chaturbate when they respond even to the public chat and if u talk back they are going to ban your account for 1 month.
 
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Lol "be attractive and be friendly and the tips will flow" you know how many models I've seen trying to stay a float on that site? And get this, some of those ladies struggling are super attractive and very friendly and always trying to keep a good vibe about their room. Sometimes, try as you might, luck is not on your side.


Also I get you needing to find the model attractive but if that's secondary to their personality you probably don't need to mention it several times in each post.


To OP, I guess blacklisting models would be helpful for maybe you but to each their own. Everyone has different tastes. The only ones who will probably be interested in getting a hold of your rude mode list are probably trolls who are looking for models that are easy to rile up.
 
Alright children. It's my free cams because membership is free. The site was created in a time when sites required paid membership for camsites and there was no freechat. I love how this is an argument.

Don't come visit me. Because I will call you a pussy, faggot, gay, bitch, loser, ect if you don't tip me. I also might make you cry for my customers and i's entertainment.
 
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Some boys/girls cam for fun, some cam for extra money, some for eat and pay rent, some for survice... camming is a hard ungratefull work. Each performer have their own unique mood and reason when camming. Some performer use pity, some use fun, some use dirty, some use tease, some use interactive toy there is many way to deliver and drive your show and personnality.

It's in human nature to compare. We are not stupid, we see if we are uglier or beautier than another boy or girl .. we are not stupid we see if we smile more or look more sympathic friendly than other ... we all asking why that ugly non-personality zoomed cock guy or that face bored no-talkative passive girl have 10x more tip than us ... it's normal .. and frustrating ... imagine if you really need that money for eat or survive it's 1000x more frustrating ... every camgirl/boy want hit 100$-300$-1000$ but ...

and ... it's in human nature to complaining lol everyone do it and will always do, deep down inside of every human they want be on top, get the best for us ... poltician want power cammer want fame, followers and tok ( not in that order ;) ) and no one, no one can deny this.

for those who never cam they cannot imagine what it is to enter camming 3-5 hours, 1-2 hour out of broadcast for preparing and setuping and thing about idea to try make show different than other and ... after that 3-5 hours got 0-100tok while some only zoom their private area and get 3000-5000tok

friendly attitude ,smile and fun bring more tok that hard cock and big boobs and squirt and super model lookalike ..... let me laugh a bit. Yes i know many style for many member.
 
still asking why cam performer are rude ? ;) you don't know the private life and history of them so ... just play, enjoy have fun and spoil the camgirl and camboy, they all work hard as hell for entertain the world ;)
 
Be hot and friendly to everyone, and the tips come.

Friend, there are many different types of hustle and different things work with different audiences. I am happy that you found your niche, the hot and super friendly shtick does work well for many, but there are others who make bank by being cunts or ignoring their audience. It all depends on how good you are at imposing your frame, regardless of your style.
 
What....would be the point of the list? Who’s gonna see a hot model, go to click, and then think “wait - instead of simply discovering for myself, I’ll go to a separate website and consult a subjective list to see if she hurt a random strangers feelings once”?

Useless list that no one would bother checking out beforehand.


Funny thing is we do have a real world comparison to go by. You've just described, exactly, the Better Business Bureau. A completely useless list with no power, no one goes to until they've been butt hurt. And even then nothing can be done because the business itself couldn't care less about that list, and knows no future customers will go to it before spending money with them.
 
Friend, there are many different types of hustle and different things work with different audiences. I am happy that you found your niche, the hot and super friendly shtick does work well for many, but there are others who make bank by being cunts or ignoring their audience. It all depends on how good you are at imposing your frame, regardless of your style.

You totally right and i agreed ... I'm more a teasing friendly fun style ... my point is just about the hard work we put in making a good show and think that we make good choices and some day are so slow and bad so it's frustrating ;)

i still continue to dance, smile and be friendly and hope some will see me and appreciate what i do :)
 
It isn't unreasonable to get a bit snippy when you feel your time is being undervalued or unappreciated.

If a person is sitting in a cam girl's room for a period of time, you can assume they're enjoying themselves. When a cam girl realizes how many of those people are not contributing at all, it's a sort of slap in the face, and I don't know about you, but when I get slapped in the face I'm gonna get pissy.

I do expect to be compensated for the time I spent talking to the chat room, wiggling around, whatever I'm doing. When that doesn't happen, it's upsetting.

It's my free cams because membership is free. The site was created in a time when sites required paid membership for camsites and there was no freechat. I love how this is an argument.
and yeah, that.

It's a site that focuses on free chat, meaning not pay per minute like a private show. But for nearly a decade, "free chat" is also where everyone is used to running countdowns for certain shows, and tips are expected for time spent there and for the offered show.

@Joeternal I promise that if your proposed ideal hustle worked, we'd all be doing it. I love nothing more than to hang in my chat and have friendly conversation and have people ACTUALLY tip for it. But those shifts where I simply do this, I make a mere fraction of what I desire and what I'd make if I push harder to finish countdowns and get tips.
 
If models find that being cranky, entitled and narcissistic works for them, they should keep doing it. Good luck.
[GALLERY=media, 2650]10201233 by a_haze420 posted Jan 31, 2018 at 12:27 PM[/GALLERY]

Being paid for you work isn't being entitled or narcissistic.
 
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