Etiquette?

[DanniShimmers]

There are a few members who tipped me well recently. I wanted to express my thanks by sending them a link to a free copy of one of my videos through MFC mail. I don't want them to feel like I'm stalking them or anything, and I really don't want to offend them or make them feel uncomfortable. I just want to express my thanks. What's the etiquette for this?

 

[Evvie]

Don't worry about it, I think sending the vids is a great gesture.

When people tip me I often go back and send them something later, with a message that says "Thanks for hanging out tonight, here's something I want you to have!" (or somesuch)

I think it turns stalker-y if you start doing, "so when are you going to come see me again?" "hey, I have a new countdown in my room, why don't you come hang out?" "what's up buddy? it's been a while since you tipped me so come do that now okay" and stuff like that.

 

[mynameisbob84]

I echo Evvie's sentiments, yo. Sending them your videos as 'thank you' is a cool gesture and I think it's pretty safe to assume your regulars won't mind you sending them free videos.
The only way it could ever possibly be even a little bit uncomfortable would be if you made them feel like there was some kind of catch - "here's some videos, now I expect you to repay me in tokens" kinda thing.

 

[Shaun__]

Just say thanks, this is a link to a free vid. It is not stalky unless you try to pressure them or use guilt to get them to return.

 

[curvyredhead]

Don't worry about it, I think sending the vids is a great gesture.

When people tip me I often go back and send them something later, with a message that says "Thanks for hanging out tonight, here's something I want you to have!" (or somesuch)

I think it turns stalker-y if you start doing, "so when are you going to come see me again?" "hey, I have a new countdown in my room, why don't you come hang out?" "what's up buddy? it's been a while since you tipped me so come do that now okay" and stuff like that.

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[ComicOzzie]

A model friend of mine sent me some video links on my last birthday. I thought that was so cool.