I hate streammate.

[Southernbarbii]

New to the site but been camming 6 years on other platforms. These men on streammate are much worse than all
Other platforms combined. Crazy requests all day, they’ll get you in private and leave after 30 seconds, which is INSANE that there’s no minimum and in 30 seconds what are you even doing??? Also the cam to cam is horrible and i hate hearing them. I hate it so much. But they ALL want to do it.

Give me some tips and tricks to make these fuckers stay in private longer than 30 seconds. I

 

[MarieElise]

New to the site but been camming 6 years on other platforms. These men on streammate are much worse than all
Other platforms combined. Crazy requests all day, they’ll get you in private and leave after 30 seconds, which is INSANE that there’s no minimum and in 30 seconds what are you even doing??? Also the cam to cam is horrible and i hate hearing them. I hate it so much. But they ALL want to do it.

Give me some tips and tricks to make these fuckers stay in private longer than 30 seconds. I

I'm not sure why you are getting all the crappy guys. There are tons of absolutely amazing guys there who treat models well and are a pleasure.
There are also the guys you mention, too, though.
I don't know anything about what fetishes or types of shows you offer, or how you run your room.

I do a lot of Femdom and a lot of Vanilla, but no Submissive shows, and I get a lot of awesome dudes.
I can be friendly, but I'm also fairly strict, demanding, and I don't compromise on many things. I can be very ruthless, too, and I make that very clear and known.
My block list is also several 1000 members long too tho. And I've been there part-time 12 years this month.

There does appear to be an overwhelming preference for BDSM on SM, and a lot of the bigger payers tend to be kind of complex, nuanced, and deep with it. However, I assume you are well-versed in BDSM if you've been on other sites 6 years? That could be an inaccurate assumption on my part, though. Are you experienced in a lot of fetishes? Or are you mainly vanilla? It would help to see your profile there, to try to figure out what might be going wrong.

Sorry you hate it though, that's no fun. There are a lot of assholes that browse the site, and are painful to deal with. Especially if you log on during a quiet time, when all the fun guys are gone. Then you get one asshole after the other, in a steady stream. That's always a quick indicator that things are dead, because those guys never get airtime when it's busy.

 

[RuthStrawberryblonde]

I found SM a steep learning curve, but I had never been on a big international site, and never free chat. I suspect you could be a target because you are 'new', I certainly was and was scammed too.

Best piece of advice I was given is genuine customers will respect display of boundaries, doesn't mean you have to be draconian just decide how you are going to use the room. Then plan what you will do to protect yourself in private. Assholes can't be eliminated but you can work it.
Another good tip was if you aren't feeling it, take a break, meditate (I have a catnap), listen to affirmations or manifesting meditations. Restart your stream, surprising how the energy can change. If it doesn't just chalk it up to one of those days.

 

[BlueEyezIrish]

New to the site but been camming 6 years on other platforms. These men on streammate are much worse than all
Other platforms combined. Crazy requests all day, they’ll get you in private and leave after 30 seconds, which is INSANE that there’s no minimum and in 30 seconds what are you even doing??? Also the cam to cam is horrible and i hate hearing them. I hate it so much. But they ALL want to do it.

Give me some tips and tricks to make these fuckers stay in private longer than 30 seconds. I

I don’t accept any shows without demanding 55 Gold tip before the show. I don’t allow anyone to start a show without discussing what they expect and what my boundaries are. Most give up and leave. And many agree and tip the 55 Gold and Know I’m not getting naked at all until 4 minutes pass so I don’t get fucked over with drive by in and out. I charge 8.50 a min at dynamic rate up to 20.99. For exclusive. I refuse to shut down another site I’m streaming on for men to fuck me over. Gold Shows can be more money on some days with short times 30 buy in for 7 minutes and they can’t turn their camera on.

 

[MarieElise]

Something I didn't mention before was rates. Below a certain rate level, the clientele are pretty much awful. As in extremely inconsiderate, compulsive, and focused on themselves only, absolutely nothing else. It's dehumanizing. And some are straight-up abusive. And I mean that in the literal, serious sense. Not the "Oh my God one of these whipper-snappers said Fuck in my, who does this whore think she is," sense. That's not abuse, that's being crude and using blunt language.

I'd never go below 4.99, even as a model new to the site, in a struggling US economy.