I want to become a webcam male model!

[Smoothie]

I live with my mom who is unemployed and I can't get a job because that would ruin my college life and that would mean that I would have to quit college and get a job.

My parents didn’t have the income to pay for my college, either. You know what I did about it? I busted my ass working fast food jobs until I had enough money for tuition and books. Then I continued working nights while attending college in the day for four years until I graduated. (And this may surprise you, but it did not “ruin my college life” to have a job. In fact, it made it even better, because I could afford to party without being a freeloader.)

Today, I’m an adult with a good job and my own home and I am absolutely zero burden to my parents. The opposite, actually. I have the money to help them when they need it.

I owe it all to my decision to get off my ass and not let the fact that my parents couldn’t pay for my schooling to doom me to a life of entitled whining. But that was my choice, my life. You choose your own path. If your life is “shitty,” sitting around making excuses is not going to change anything. Go do something (or as others have said, you could possibly do something without even leaving home.)

I don't understand. You need to have a personality in front of a camera? Don't you just pretend that you are showing your sex work to others?
What you are saying makes no sense! It's a sex job,isn't that what webcaming is? Playing with dildos and sucking dicks?

This comment makes me think you’re just trolling here to get a reaction. Good use of your time.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Comming from someone who does camming for a living........
I live with my mom who is unemployed and I can't get a job because that would ruin my college life and that would mean that I would have to quit college and get a job.
My life with my parents isn't easy and I don't mind fooling myself in front of a camera.
My life is ruined I have a home with my mom but all that she does is blaming my dad for destroying the apparment in which we lived.My life is shitty and if I don't try camming I would simply die of hunger.
I don't live in the USA I live in Europe and in my country there are no supporting institutes....

How wrong you are. I can barely get cam site members to tip me anymore, so I’ve gone back to working a regular full-time job outside the home for five days a week. It - plus the long bus rides to/from work - takes up a lot of my time. I rarely get on cam anymore…because I’m trying to relax on my weekends off. The last time I tried jumping on cam for a bit, I don’t believe I earned a single token either. This idea you have about it being “easy money”…no.

While you’re on here complaining about your parents (who you’re expecting to pay for your college), be grateful that you have a mother who will let you live in her home rent-free.

You don’t HAVE to go to college, by the way. There are people earning money and supporting themselves without having attended college. And a lot of people who did go to college end up in a totally different career unrelated to what they went to college for.

You said that your life is shitty and ruined. It was suggested earlier that you talk to a therapist. Do you live in a European country where a person can be eligible to get some free therapy? That might be something you want to prioritize first before enrolling in college.

 

[Lintilla]

Why do you have to make fun of me? I simply wanted an answer from you but you keep throwing shit at me.
I haven't done anything to anyone in this forum and I wanted to find out if I am fit for this career or not.
What's so hard to understand?

I'll simplify the answer for you. You are not fit for this career.

 

[Vixxen81]

Go ahead, sign up, launch your broadcast. Let us know how it works out for you. Sometimes the only way to learn something is to do it.

 

[AudriTwo]

Why do you have to make fun of me? I simply wanted an answer from you but you keep throwing shit at me.
I haven't done anything to anyone in this forum and I wanted to find out if I am fit for this career or not.
What's so hard to understand?

im not making fun of you. i was being sincere. if you wanna learn social skills, therapy is a great place to start. no one here can teach you that.

if you cannot handle this light criticism than you are most definitely not gonna handle the comments from streaming.

 

[wolly]

I wasn't trolling at all. I live in Romania and Romania doesn't have that free college crap.
I wanted to start this career because my mom sent me to a mental hospital and I didn't understand why.
She told me that if I become a gay model she will sent me to that hospital because I talked to a gay person.
Wtf is wrong with you people? I may be mentally ill but at least I treated you with respect!

 

[Smoothie]

I wasn't trolling at all. I live in Romania and Romania doesn't have that free college crap.

I didn’t go to college for free either. Almost nobody does.

 

[AmberCutie]

I wasn't trolling at all. I live in Romania and Romania doesn't have that free college crap.
I wanted to start this career because my mom sent me to a mental hospital and I didn't understand why.
She told me that if I become a gay model she will sent me to that hospital because I talked to a gay person.
Wtf is wrong with you people? I may be mentally ill but at least I treated you with respect!

Cam modeling is definitely not for you. Find another way to make money.

 

[Danigirl]

No one was disrespectful to you. You're the one who thinks all we do in our profession is fuck ourselves with dildos and have zero personality. That's dehumanizing. You're the one who has done zero research. You're the one who doesn't have a thick enough skin to handle all the negatives this job will absolutely dish to you. You think this thread and how people answered you was horrible? Multiply that by 100x and that's your average week on cam. I hear so so much worse on a daily basis. Does that sound like a good career fit for someone who is struggling with mental illness? This industry will make mental struggles worse unless you have a good support system. This industry absolutely isn't for those with thin skin, lack of ability to research and absolutely no real industry experience or common sense. You'll get eaten alive or taken advantage of. The people telling you this isn't for you aren't being mean. They're being completely honest. You have a ton of work to do to be a functional adult much less a male cam model.

 

[Lilly_____]

Well,please explain why this is not a good choice of a career. All that you do is critisize me without being helpful....

Nobody here owes you any explanation

You're entitled as fuck

 

[Ozzie_]

I don't understand. You need to have a personality in front of a camera? Don't you just pretend that you are showing your sex work to others?
What you are saying makes no sense! It's a sex job,isn't that what webcaming is? Playing with dildos and sucking dicks?

Oh good! We playing "internet troll spotto"?

I identify you as such and now claim my reward please.

If you were actually serious in any of this, ... you need a personality in camming because to varying degrees, camming is a performance!

 

[wolly]

Thank you for all the help I could get. I'm going to start as a webcam model whatever you like it or not.
Stop telling me that I'm not fit for this career!
Why do you insist on rejecting me?
I will try anything to become a cam model!

 

[Sashacurves]

Thank you for all the help I could get. I'm going to start as a webcam model whatever you like it or not.
Stop telling me that I'm not fit for this career!
Why do you insist on rejecting me?
I will try anything to become a cam model!

Go for it and good luck! All you can do is try, so let us know how you get on!

 

[AmberCutie]

Nah we’re done with this troll.

 

[Sunshineseeker]

And that is why I love this forum.

Everyone gets a chance, no-one suffers fools, and then @AmberCutie cuts them off when it becomes clear they're not going to contribute anything useful.

 

[ayushiest]

Being a webcam model would be awesome I love my body and to share with people must be great.

 

[sparks1957]

Why do you have to make fun of me? I simply wanted an answer from you but you keep throwing shit at me.
I haven't done anything to anyone in this forum and I wanted to find out if I am fit for this career or not.
What's so hard to understand?

You have to interact with your viewers, have a sense of humor, be able to flirt, turn them on and keep them coming back for more. I noticed you haven't mentioned where you are planning on camming from. The space where you cam from has to be neat, inviting and have complete privacy for hours at a time.

 

[AmberCutie]

Love that the OP, just this weekend, found a way to email me crying that he wasn't a troll and I was unfair.

Being a webcam model would be awesome I love my body and to share with people must be great.

Who even are you?

 

[Finchomatic]

Love that the OP, just this weekend, found a way to email me crying that he wasn't a troll and I was unfair.

Who even are you?

The next person/bot to be banned?
Interesting how they are using forum posts to advertise their services ever so nonchalantly.

 

[AmberCutie]

The next person/bot to be banned?
Interesting how they are using forum posts to advertise their services ever so nonchalantly.

I can't tell you how many spam accounts I've banned in the last week. There's an abundance recently, so weird.

 

[Finchomatic]

I can't tell you how many spam accounts I've banned in the last week. There's an abundance recently, so weird.

Must be a new bot server farm that found your URL.

 

[AmberCutie]

Must be a new bot server farm that found your URL.

I'm flattered, really.

 

[AudriTwo]

Who even are you?

they have links to an escort spam twitter and escort listing website

 

[Finchomatic]

I'm flattered, really.

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(My mind is still stuck on wanting to ban people IRL in person with a mouse click)

 

[AmberCutie]

they have links to an escort spam twitter and escort listing website

How did I not notice that before LOL, I didn't see one in the signature or any posts, never clicked their little arrow

Thank ya!