im new so dont know if this is a regular thing

[Narabird]

well Im pretty new and have never experienced this but basically it was my birthday and was a little drunk little horny and so went online mfc. Well my biggest tipper has recently came online saying to me that he tipped me that night pretty heavily with promise to me sending him tokens, when in fact i knew he didnt and checking my token sessions shows he didnt, infact he didnt tip me at all that night. I said to him i cant find that in my records how strange and he copied and pasted (from his records excluing the date) the amount he tipped me in private the week before which i found on my records and i said that to him, he then said "oh well who knows" was he trying to con me? have i just lost my big tipper(not very big comparison to most models)
need some help guys!

 

[AliceDoe]

Yeah, he was trying to con you.

If it's not in your records, it didn't happen. Easy as that.

 

[ComicOzzie]

well Im pretty new and have never experienced this but basically it was my birthday and was a little drunk little horny and so went online mfc. Well my biggest tipper has recently came online saying to me that he tipped me that night pretty heavily with promise to me sending him tokens, when in fact i knew he didnt and checking my token sessions shows he didnt, infact he didnt tip me at all that night. I said to him i cant find that in my records how strange and he copied and pasted (from his records excluing the date) the amount he tipped me in private the week before which i found on my records and i said that to him, he then said "oh well who knows" was he trying to con me? have i just lost my big tipper(not very big comparison to most models)
need some help guys!

A little drunk?

 

[LadyLuna]

Yes he was trying to con you, but it's okay, cause he's gone and more honest folks will come your way! Plus, you can't send him tokens anyway, so it's not like you could've done anything about it if he was telling the truth.

*hugs* Welcome to the world of camming. The assholes will seem to outnumber the good guys for a long while, but you'll find your niche.

 

[SoTxBob]

Hi Nara New girl :hello2:

you will be amazed at some of the creativity these... ermm.... 'gentlemen' will use in attempts to get over on you. Be it for something free or even just to mess with your head, they never seem to run out of games. Bottom line tho, if it isn't printed somewhere in the archives or in your logs, it didn't happen. :thumbleft:
ccasion5:

 

[curvyredhead]

A con without a doubt.
Wont be the last time someone thinks they can play you.
Remember, it's also possible to double check THERE records using the history button when pming them.

 

[Jaydenrainey]

Wait... he was throwing imaginary tokens in your face that he supposedly tipped you on your birthday?
Don't be too sad, he sounds like an ass and your better off not wasting your attention on him. You'll find a bigger tipper who is actually likable eventually. Probably sooner rather than later.

 

[Narabird]

thanks guys so much for your advice, he hasnt ever came back or messaged me you guys are so right! hopefully i wont experience this too many times its just a shock at first, i work in a shop just now and personally know that the customer isnt always right haha and yeah by a little drunk i mean tipsy or a glass of wine, not drunk but almost drunk if that makes sense, the kind of giggly happy care free stage before being drunk where you know what your doing and can remember everything haha
but thank you guys.... this is a brilliant forum

 

[Julia_Storm]

Happened the same with a skype show...a guy tipped me..i didn;t got any tip...we got in a big argue...i banned ig him blah blah blah.
In the end it prouved to be a mfc error...the tokes were given back to him.

 

[Alabastra]

Con. He have seen "new", and "tipsy", and seen you as a sitting duck.

Seems like you managed that one well

 

[Julia_Storm]

Con. He have seen "new", and "tipsy", and seen you as a sitting duck.

Seems like you managed that one well

it was for real had a few members telling me that they had the same problem around that time

 

[LadyLuna]

Con. He have seen "new", and "tipsy", and seen you as a sitting duck.

Seems like you managed that one well

it was for real had a few members telling me that they had the same problem around that time

I believe Alabastra was talking to the op dear.

Though, according to the guy code, your bro lies to a woman, you gotta back him up. So just cause a bunch of guys said it, doesn't make it true. Unless they're a bunch of regulars who regularly tip you.

And, to swing it back in your favor, there was one period of time when MFC was having problems with tipping. It's possible that this happened, but if so, the guy got his tokens back anyway.

HOWEVER- that happened a long time ago, and I haven't heard of any problems with such things in the past year.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Yup, he was trying to con you . You get so many guys trying to do this to new models! I swear I've seen loads of posts recently just about this! He probably thought that because you'd been drinking he could try and make out you couldn't remember, not realising that you can look up the token records, or hoping you don't know how to do that yet. It's always upsetting when it happens to you first. Even if they don't get anything from you I always feel upset that someone's tried to scam me/lied/done something horrible, just amazes me how horrible some people can be.