Ms. Lemon,
Thank you for your honest reply. Though it gives me no specifics, it certainly tells me something... that this does happen... and does create fear. In fact, your post points out that my model character should already be on daily "high alert" when the fictitious incident occurs.
As stated in my initial post, I do not need this information to write my fictitious story, but again, personally I feel that fiction based in reality is more fun and again, though you give no specifics, I need not tell you that truth is often stranger than fiction.
To Sevin,
Not sure why my post has brought such an outburst and attack from you other than I guess you have been approached by people claiming to be writers, etc. in the past... expecting your time and attention for free???
I could have easily posted this as a simple question on the forum, not as research, and I guess that would have been okay? Is that not what this forum is about? Is this "Ask the Model" section not here for inquiring minds to ask questions of models for whatever reason? I have read through many posts, questions and answers, and in my initial post thanked everyone for the information already gleaned from here. None of the other question strings that I saw start of with a response such as yours, basically saying "go "f" yourself lazy jerkoff..."
I have been doing exactly what you suggest for a few years now, and have been thinking about this story for a few years now. I've dropped more than my share coin in doing so in addition to your "fly-on-the-wall" suggestion. I discovered MFC on Oct. 31 of 2010. Before, I had been on LJ, Streamate and others. In just over two months on MFC I have acquired just shy of 4,000 RPs... that number I will likely hit this weekend... so I have been doing plenty of homework. I don't make that kind of money, unfortunately, so that money has come from savings and is running out as far as my ability to do one-on-one model research.
I'm sorry that some of that money did not go to models on this forum, but most of the models on this forum are American it seems, and my story is specifically about an Eastern European model, so there were many things that I felt only they could answer. This subject however I thought any model could answer or shed some light on so I took a chance and posted it here.
Again, not sure why you are so angry with the question when this entire string of topics is "Ask the Model". I guess you have no issue with folks asking questions for fun, but not for research, or bogus research as you suggest. Mine is not bogus, I assure you... it had better not be given my investment, but I don't expect you to believe that, just because I say it.
My previous time spent on LJ and other sites before I discovered MFC I felt was mostly a waste, as I did not feel I could believe anything those models said about anything... they would make anything up it seemed just to keep me in, or get me to return to pvt. Public chat on those sites is limited pretty much to hello, wanna go pvt., if not, then bye now. So not much to glean there as a fly on the wall either.
MFC has been a great boost and inspiration. I am able to observe much more of the models before I choose the ones I would like to talk to and think I have done very well in getting honest and useful answers. As well, the rest of the site offers quite a bit of research information and is a great study of both models and clients without always needing to spend a fortune unlike any other site... especially with respect to studying the customers which is almost impossible to do on other sites.
Within a couple of weeks on MFC, I was answering questions from noobs in the lounge who were amazed. How could I know the answer to that? They had been on the site for 6 months and I only for 2 weeks. I pay attention, I would tell them
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Also upon discovering MFC, I went back to a couple of models I sort of knew, or had just observed sitting in their cubicles on LJ and Streamamte awaiting their next pvt, and told them about the site thinking they would really like it and do well here. I have not noticed that either of the FSU models I suggested it to have made the jump, but one American model did appear a couple of weeks later. I of course went to see her and introduced myself. After all of three weeks on the site, I spent some time in her room and gave her some tips, ideas, insights from PM. She was funny as she would constantly be asking me, "okay... what do I do next? Everything you have told me so far has worked." In addition to my own coaching, she took my advice to study the other models who she saw as being successful performing in ways she would also be comfortable. And, in addition to my coaching in PM, I was active in her room, never giving any clue to anyone that we were friends, tipping strategically to the tune of a couple of thousand tokens in her first couple of weeks to get her going. She is now up and running, doing very well and loves the site.
To tell you a little about me, which you can choose to believe or not, I do not like to, nor will I hang out in a model's room if I have no tokens to contribute. I always stop by and say hello, and add some kind, encouraging, complimentary words to the chat, to let the other guys in the room how great she is, but then I leave if I don't have tokens to actively contribute. I can't just hang there like so many guys obviously can. Even with my American friend who I brought to the site, who I am sure would not mind if I were there every day with her, I will not do it. I sure as hell don't want to be one of those prems at the top of every model's list, they all have them, who just sit there, day after day, probably have been for months or years. rarely adding a bit of chat, and even more rare, in my experience adding tokens. Even if I have dumped a thousand or two in tokens on a model the day before, I don't feel comfortable hanging in her room beyond a hello and a few kind words if I have no tokens the next day.
Unless it is in a heavily "chat" based room, I don't think these higher up prems who just sit there all day atop the list do the models any favors. I think lower prems see them just sitting there for free, contributing nothing day after day, and think "they don't tip, why should I?" Some of these models have the same guys just sitting there day after day, apparently just waiting for someone else to tip for their show. I even made a second account, so I have the 4,000 RP prem me, and the poor prem me. Even the poor prem me doesn't like hanging out in a model's room with no tokens... and of course the first thing I did was introduce my poor prem me to all of my favorite models, so they know both of me. This can be quite fun when I have tokens as I can have two prems in a model's room tipping and complimenting and contributing. (BTW, my screen name here is the poor prem me on MFC should anyone think I am full of it on the 4000 RPs in under 3 months, I will gladly introduce you to the other prem me). Also, I don't even like signing in under my main screen name if I don't have tokens and my favorite models are on line other than for a quick hello and I'm off again. I am very loyal to my model friends so if the "friend-listed" prem me is online for hours while they are on, but I'm not with them, I don't feel right. I'd hate to have them see that and question my loyalty... again, just a little quirk of my own... since they will often PM me if they see me on, and I'm not too fond of the response, "sorry, I have no tokens, so I can't visit your room." So, prem me #1 just usually stays off line if he has no tokens and only visits when he does, or when his model friends are not online... that is when I kick back and do my customer research in the f-ed up 1K Lounge.
I have been in model's rooms with over 1,000 pervs in there and it is just me and one or two other tippers knocking down her token goal while the other 997 just sit there for the free ride. I do this when I can afford to for the model, because I like her and she wants to do a public show, not for the show itself or for the 900+ pervs going along for the ride. I also do it for the model knowing that getting that first number down, e.g. XXXX for nakey will likely lead her to getting more tips from the others, or to groups and pvts, and of course I urge the others to join in the tipping... before I start tipping to put her clothes back on, lol.
The European models I have befriended on MFC have been great so far, (I hope this continues when my tokens and visits become less frequent, we'll see). However as any customer, and even models know, tokens fly by quickly in pvt. chat and it is amazing how brief a conversation comes out of the archives of a 15, 20 or even 30 minute private. Each of these girls are studio models and do not have easy access to the internet outside of the studio, so though we communicate via email as well, they do not have much time to read, translate, absorb and respond to my emails although they welcome them. Given this, and knowing that I do spread tokens freely when I can, two of them have offered to answer my questions in PM while they are on the site, (the third appreciates that I choose not to linger and pester her when she is working and I have no tokens. Yet, she is the one I am closest to and has accepted my invitation to dinner should I visit her country which I plan to do when and only when my story is at least half way complete. Am I skeptical of the actuality of this dinner date? Of course, at the same time I suspect she just may be sincere in her offer for me to visit.). From the other two is a very nice offer to visit their rooms anytime, tokens or not, and ask my questions in PM, but I won't take them up on it. They are there to work, not chat with me on the side. If I have the tokens for a private or to help them knock down goals in the room, or to jump in and be that often so hard to find 3rd member for group, then I may spend some extra time with them in PM on that day... but not too much, and again, never when I can not contribute with some tokens.
(BTW: What is with this elusive 3rd man in the group? I guess the guys are all just sitting there hoping the free tease will go on forever. So often, it can take a model one, two, five minutes and numerous tries to get the damn group up to 3 and going... then, the moment it starts, she has 7-10 guys in there or more. Thus, when I am in a model's room with tokens, I am always there on PM asking her if she wants the group or not. If she does, I join in, and if I can afford to, ride it out to the end as I have also seen groups go from 10 guys, down to 1 or 2, yet if she hangs in there a minute, they can jump back up to 6 or 7 guys and go another 10 minutes. I suppose a lot of guys sit back and try to save tokens by jumping into groups late hoping to catch the cum on the cheap.)
As far as asking people I have not bothered to get to know, I'm not sure how I would get to know anyone here without joining, as I did, and then posting something as I did. Maybe my reply to this will let you get to know me a little better, that is if you believe anything I say... which of course I have no control over.
You can also see how long winded I can be, and thus my European model friends, with limited internet access beyond their studio time, tend to admittedly get buried in my long emails. I have been trying to be better with them and limit my questions outside of pvt chats to those that can be easily answered in a few words or short sentence. Some questions, like this one, do not fit that category however and I simply cannot afford to take dozens of models pvt just to get an answer to this specific question which is kind of critical to my story.
Thanks to Jebbaz for your support and assistance and thanks in advance to anyone who might like to share either a personal experience or an incident they have heard about to this string.
(Maybe if I had used a prettier picture of Jim Morrison on my profile, I'd get a better response? He does look kind of creepy in that picture, but it fits in with my screen name... Rumored Dead is a lyric in one of his songs and also many people for years thought (hoped?) he had faked his own death just to escape the Rock 'n Roll/Celebrity world.
but not stalkerish.
