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I really hate talking shit but i gotta get this out somewhere. Long Story short I I found a model a few months ago it was a cool chat so I added her. Next time she was on I guess her regulars were in the chat at this time and boy did they just take over the room I kept going back tho. Finally I had gotten all my bills paid and I could get tokens. I went nuts the first night I had not seen this girl do this kinda stuff it was awesome plus her group I guess was not around it was earlier then normal time. I even got a message " thanks its been a while since I got to play like that" So next time I wanted to see if i could get her to cum so I got my very small stack of tokens and tried hard. It was getting kinda hot and then her Main fan dude who owns a never ending wallet I guess just comes in and starts tipping for more Hitachi time to be added and killing the goal. It just took the fun out of things for both of us.. I even tipped with a note saying "Well that kinda killed the fun " and i got a pm from her after saying " I can't stand him". The rest of the cam session was of course awkward because he makes all about him and dropping jokes that really were not that funny. I'm not looking for any answers to the issue I know I can't do anything I just needed to get it off my chest .I just feel bad for her this is her career and sure he gives out tons of tokens but he can't do that for forever and I feel like its killing any chance of anyone new to come in.I'd love to hear past stories and you how dealt with it I am sure this has happened before.

Ugh Maybe this is a better title for this post
Obsessive/Possessive Members who ruin things
 
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All I can say is that this sort of thing is the reason I don't hang out on group chat sites. In private chats, if the model and I agree to do something, nobody can interfere and I don't have to contend with other guys who have different ideas about how the chat should proceed. Groups chats are essentially bidding wars between members (unless they all agree on how the chat should proceed) and I don't earn enough to compete with guys who can afford to spend hundreds of dollars on any given day on their favourite model.
 
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I really hate talking shit but i gotta get this out somewhere. Long Story short I I found a model a few months ago it was a cool chat so I added her. Next time she was on I guess her regulars were in the chat at this time and boy did they just take over the room I kept going back tho. Finally I had gotten all my bills paid and I could get tokens. I went nuts the first night I had not seen this girl do this kinda stuff it was awesome plus her group I guess was not around it was earlier then normal time. I even got a message " thanks its been a while since I got to play like that" So next time I wanted to see if i could get her to cum so I got my very small stack of tokens and tried hard. It was getting kinda hot and then her Main fan dude who owns a never ending wallet I guess just comes in and starts tipping for more Hitachi time to be added and killing the goal. It just took the fun out of things for both of us.. I even tipped with a note saying "Well that kinda killed the fun " and i got a pm from her after saying " I can't stand him". The rest of the cam session was of course awkward because he makes all about him and dropping jokes that really were not that funny. I'm not looking for any answers to the issue I know I can't do anything I just needed to get it off my chest .I just feel bad for her this is her career and sure he gives out tons of tokens but he can't do that for forever and I feel like its killing any chance of anyone new to come in.I'd love to hear past stories and you how dealt with it I am sure this has happened before.

Ugh Maybe this is a better title for this post
Obsessive/Possessive Members who ruin things

There are those kind of guys I hate in rooms that are constantly there!! They are always commenting on EVERYTHING and make bad and stupid jokes. Like the stupid things such as you go into the MODELS room and say something like "Hi, I missed you. Have not seen you for a while." And that member who is constantly there will make a stupid ass reply like "Oh thanks, I don't know you" or "i missed you too". I just hate stuff like that. I can't be the only one? Usually that same kind of regular is the one when you make any comment, THEY respond to it. You say "wow you're gorgeous" to someone or give another compliment, they jump straight in and say "yeah she is a goddess" or I don't know, something.. But they do this constantly, every day, with every member making chat with the MODEL.

On CB I have a LOT of regulars like that on my ignore list.

With guys like that I just wonder "What is it about him I am not understanding... I have a great sense of humour and can laugh at everything but I just don't understand HIS and why the model + maybe others find him so funny".

But yeah guys like that especially frustrate me and turn me away and kill the room. I don't mind regulars being their for 12 hour shifts with their fave model every day if they are talking a little or not at all but not to THAT level of chat, it's just annoying.
 
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There are those kind of guys I hate in rooms that are constantly there!! They are always commenting on EVERYTHING and make bad and stupid jokes. Like the stupid things such as you go into the MODELS room and say something like "Hi, I missed you. Have not seen you for a while." And that member who is constantly there will make a stupid ass reply like "Oh thanks, I don't know you" or "i missed you too". I just hate stuff like that. I can't be the only one? Usually that same kind of regular is the one when you make any comment, THEY respond to it. You say "wow you're gorgeous" to someone or give another compliment, they jump straight in and say "yeah she is a goddess" or I don't know, something.. But they do this constantly, every day, with every member making chat with the MODEL.

On CB I have a LOT of regulars like that on my ignore list.

With guys like that I just wonder "What is it about him I am not understanding... I have a great sense of humour and can laugh at everything but I just don't understand HIS and why the model + maybe others find him so funny".

But yeah guys like that especially frustrate me and turn me away and kill the room. I don't mind regulars being their for 12 hour shifts with their fave model every day if they are talking a little or not at all but not to THAT level of chat, it's just annoying.

I sometimes have too much free time on my hands and I searched on Social Awkward people and I think the kinda of members we are talking about have some or most of the issues that come with it.I am sure most of these people are not bad or trying to be this way but they do sometimes do get on my nerves. I have a very low cringe factor... a few bad jokes or awkward comments and I am done.. I agree some rooms are that way and I end up not going into the models room as much. I said I have a lot of free time on my hands sometimes and I try to be a regular but not control the chat or be in a room for 12 hours at a time ..Tho I have done long nights with a few models lol.
 
I really hate talking shit but i gotta get this out somewhere. Long Story short I I found a model a few months ago it was a cool chat so I added her. Next time she was on I guess her regulars were in the chat at this time and boy did they just take over the room I kept going back tho. Finally I had gotten all my bills paid and I could get tokens. I went nuts the first night I had not seen this girl do this kinda stuff it was awesome plus her group I guess was not around it was earlier then normal time. I even got a message " thanks its been a while since I got to play like that" So next time I wanted to see if i could get her to cum so I got my very small stack of tokens and tried hard. It was getting kinda hot and then her Main fan dude who owns a never ending wallet I guess just comes in and starts tipping for more Hitachi time to be added and killing the goal. It just took the fun out of things for both of us.. I even tipped with a note saying "Well that kinda killed the fun " and i got a pm from her after saying " I can't stand him". The rest of the cam session was of course awkward because he makes all about him and dropping jokes that really were not that funny. I'm not looking for any answers to the issue I know I can't do anything I just needed to get it off my chest .I just feel bad for her this is her career and sure he gives out tons of tokens but he can't do that for forever and I feel like its killing any chance of anyone new to come in.I'd love to hear past stories and you how dealt with it I am sure this has happened before.

Ugh Maybe this is a better title for this post
Obsessive/Possessive Members who ruin things

Can't agree enough. I literally head out of rooms hijacked by big tippers. I prefer 1 on 1 sessions in private but that's just me. Models moaning on a vibrator for an hour and ignoring all other users is a turn off, meh.
 
There are those kind of guys I hate in rooms that are constantly there!! They are always commenting on EVERYTHING and make bad and stupid jokes. Like the stupid things such as you go into the MODELS room and say something like "Hi, I missed you. Have not seen you for a while." And that member who is constantly there will make a stupid ass reply like "Oh thanks, I don't know you" or "i missed you too". I just hate stuff like that. I can't be the only one? Usually that same kind of regular is the one when you make any comment, THEY respond to it. You say "wow you're gorgeous" to someone or give another compliment, they jump straight in and say "yeah she is a goddess" or I don't know, something.. But they do this constantly, every day, with every member making chat with the MODEL.

Sometimes, there are inside jokes between members, and the comments are a little geared towards that. There's times where if someone (new/old member) will comment on a model's looks, beauty, etc. I'll respond with a small tip note and agree with them in a low key manner. But, it's rare for me to jump all over someone. The except is when they're being an ass and demanding things from the model, then I'll let them know that requests should also be tipped appropriately. Most members who are in the rooms I frequent are of similar mind, so it's generally well-behaved.

That being said, I spend nearly 100% of my time on MFC and find the majority of people to be decent. Whereas CB tends to be a bit more of a less social aspect and people do what they do when they want. MFC you do get some of those people. But, models shut them down quickly.

But yeah guys like that especially frustrate me and turn me away and kill the room. I don't mind regulars being their for 12 hour shifts with their fave model every day if they are talking a little or not at all but not to THAT level of chat, it's just annoying.
There are some members who grind my nerves a bit. But, on the flip side, many models complain that no one talks in their room. So, what do you do? Can't please everyone.
 
Enjoyment of the company of models on a cam site requires the following suspension of disbelief:

For everyone else, the model is reacting to his big tips, for me, the model genuinely likes me for me.

The model can help you with the fantasy by telling you on the side how she really can't stand this big tipper, how she only acts this way because he is tipping etc.
 
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