Mild fetishes

[BonnieBaby07]

If someone wants to chat about something which isn't really sexual but is obviously their fetish like teeth, belly button etc.
Do you just chat to them in free chat but ask for a price in gold to show it or would you ask them to go to Privates to discuss it?.

 

[MarieElise]

If someone wants to chat about something which isn't really sexual but is obviously their fetish like teeth, belly button etc.
Do you just chat to them in free chat but ask for a price in gold to show it or would you ask them to go to Privates to discuss it?.

I strongly encourage you to set a boundary and maybe answer 1 or 2 questions, but no more in free chat. They can send you gold for every question they ask or they can get an exclusive show. Otherwise, your room is going to get choked up with freeloaders, and no one cool will hang. Downward spiral.

Whether there is nudity or not, fetish shows belong behind a paywall. There is no way in Hell I would entertain conversations where members are jerking off for free. I also don't allow fetish in private, because it's a group, and imo it should be generic vanilla only, or something that appeals to the majority of any given MODEL'S viewers. Not personalized niche fetish shit. So it appeals to everyone; otherwise you just get a bunch of cheap ass fetish guys trying to cheap out, and run you into burnout. If you let them, be in no doubt, they will! It might be a private site, but there are still a ton of non spending ooportunists running around, room hopping, trying to work models. Especially new models.

Also, don't let inexperience make you feel like you can't charge for fetish. They can train you and communicate and explain to you their fetish/ fetish layers, and be patient. Also, don't be scared of the block button when you get guys trying to use you for free. They clog up the room, annoy the for-real spenders, and piss everyone on the site off!

It's almost contagious. You get a flood of guys trying to exploit and spend no money, going room to room trying to work the models & talk shit. Next thing you know, everyone's in a bad mood and snappy. And then the real paying members get put off too. Seriously, kick them tf out of there and take notes on who's doing what and how many times they're in and out of your room not spending. After 5 w me, they are blocked, unless it's 5 long camp outs; then they get fewer chances. 5 in and outs, no spending = gone. A lot of us use 5 as a marker for that. It'll be fewer if they are rude or have a turn-off screen name. Or if they try to gas light me or be super negative/ immature.

I do well on this site, and here's a screenshot of my current block list. Don't let anyone intimidate you/ manipulate you. YOUR ROOM, not theirs.
I have been a part time model for SM 13 years (do keep that in mind when you look at my block list too, it didn't get that big in 2 weeks).

 

[MarieElise]

Sorry to DP, another nugget; Also I recommend setting PPV/ DMs to paid. Before that was an option I got like 5 -10 DMs a day from guys not wanting to spend a dime. They juust wanting to talk to me or date me, or perhaps thinking they were gonna add me to their real-life women they use for sex list (LMFAO! Craaaaazy shit). There are a lot of guys who go on these sites with these massive egos, wanting to bag and "convert"/ "rescue" cam models. Fuck that yo, disrespectful af (in my opinion anyway).

If you play into it, thinking eventually they'll spend, next thing you'll see is they'll have a thread here about you, or on Reddit, saying you're their gf. For real. There are some real delusional fucks out there.
I highly recommend firm, clear boundaries and as much honesty as keeps you safe.

 

[JesseQuinn69]

I strongly encourage you to set a boundary and maybe answer 1 or 2 questions, but no more in free chat. They can send you gold for every question they ask or they can get an exclusive show.

amen sister

in indy and with custom req's on clips sites it becomes easy over time to discern between the dudes who have a genuine question or two to make sure you're comfortable with their unique elements of the fetish, and those just trying to get off on the discussion for free. really any more than three questions and they're just fapping away. which is cool, but can't fathom that being fun for others in a free chat room or fair to your time OP. even discussing the fetish is equivalent to T&A for them

genuine dudes seeking to actually find someone to fulfill their fetish are willing to pay, they expect to once they've found someone who matches their flavour. over time I've found them to be more the norm than the exception, but boundaries absolutely needed to stave off the idiots so they don't interrupt your flow

listen to Marie, discussion of fetish should be considered a paid service of value. the pay per PM idea is cool, kinda like a sexting option on SM. perfect for this sort of thing to at least monetize the dudes who'd otherwise clog up your room with stuff no one else is interested in